# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 1, 2009, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553 "2009-05-01T15:31:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lime](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/53a042/32.png) [@Lime](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lime)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/1 "2009-05-01T15:31:42Z")
Hi all, my name is Ori and i’m from israel. I’m sorry for any typos that are sure to follow as english is not my native toungh and I’m a bit dislectic. A bit about me… I’m 19 years old, I’m currently enlisted at the IDF as part of my mandatory military service as junior comander of comunication instructions (though not for much longer), and I’m very into films (specially old ones, most of my favourites are from the 50’s), books and music (mainley of the 60’s and 70’s). I first stumbeld upon pheromones on the internet, which pushed me to do an investigation that quickley led me here. As the effects of pheromones sounds quite unbelivable I needed to come across people who actually expirianted with the subject, and the wide veriaty of testimonies in this site has encourged me to try for myself. I’m more intrested in the social side of pheros (though it’s not like the sexual side don’t hold an appeal) and I would like to get an advice about where should I start with (from what I gatherd A314, Instant Shine and Instant Openness sounds right up my alley, and I would like to examine [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) as well). I don’t really have much money (you get chicken feed for salery in your mandtory service) so I’d like to know what’s the best strating point, if you’ll be so kind to help. thanks, and a good day. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/2 "2009-05-01T15:48:23Z")
Hi there and welcome to the community, as you will find out we are pretty open and love meeting new people. We will try to answer all questions you may have so let me start on that. Well, we start with a $25 gift certificate as well as $5 Gift Certificate when you sign up at [smartmones.com](http://smartmones.com). If you could please elaborate on your personality, as which products we suggest rely on this information. A314 will give that older more respect vibe I use it for work, Instant shine will improve your mood as well as that of others, Instant openness will subtly make people want to engage you in conversation. Turn up the Heat, is a good product when used in moderation, 1X strength is 2.5mcg -none which will amp you as well as her up, but is not work safe, and should be used around a partner you are already engaging in relations with. If you have any more questions, please let me know as I or other will be more than happy to answer them. -DJ ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/3 "2009-05-01T16:36:46Z")
Hi and welcome!! As DJ said, we need to know a bit more about your personality and how you relate to other people. Also, could you be more specific about exactly how you are thinking of using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), and in what specific situations? This information will help us recommend the best pheros for your unique needs, and also help to qualify you for the $25 gift certificate. ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/4 "2009-05-01T17:33:58Z")
Hey There! If you are interested in the social side of things; in my experience instant shine is a great introduction to pheromones, it has a great buzz to it. I haven’t used Openess or A314 but they are definitely next on my shopping list so just go with whatever stands out. ---
**Author:** ![Lime](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/53a042/32.png) [@Lime](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lime)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/5 "2009-05-01T19:41:30Z")
I think I don’t really know how am I planning on using pheromones, I’ll know more once I’ll see what they can do… I’d like to effect my surroundings, but I wouldn’t like to manipulate tham to a level that would make life seem unreal, I read the post about what they can and can’t do but I guess it will be easier to understand once you acttually seen it for yourself and saw how the line straches. as for me, I’m a geek of sorts (not the kind thats into math or sience and would annoy anyone around him with tedious facts or geekish infusiasem), I’m smart and I like being smart and appearing smart. I have social anxieties, I’m not at all confident though I seem to give that image to some people, I’d like pheromones to act as a sort of saftey net to help me know that even though I don’t feel confidant- people will have an image of me as such. I would like to open my surounding to me (and in general), and I have a fair share of difficulty starting a conversation even with people I do have something to disscuss with which I know they’ll be into. I’d like to shine and to be seen as a person that shines, I’d like people think that I have class and that they will feel good attaching themselves to me. I don’t know how pheroes could help yet, but from what I heard they might and it sounds good enough for me to be wanting to try it. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/6 "2009-05-01T20:39:04Z")
> [@Lime](#): > > I think I don’t really know how am I planning on using pheromones, I’ll know more once I’ll see what they can do… I’d like to effect my surroundings, but I wouldn’t like to manipulate tham to a level that would make life seem unreal, I read the post about what they can and can’t do but I guess it will be easier to understand once you acttually seen it for yourself and saw how the line straches. > as for me, I’m a geek of sorts (not the kind thats into math or sience and would annoy anyone around him with tedious facts or geekish infusiasem), I’m smart and I like being smart and appearing smart. I have social anxieties, I’m not at all confident though I seem to give that image to some people, I’d like pheromones to act as a sort of saftey net to help me know that even though I don’t feel confidant- people will have an image of me as such. I would like to open my surounding to me (and in general), and I have a fair share of difficulty starting a conversation even with people I do have something to disscuss with which I know they’ll be into. I’d like to shine and to be seen as a person that shines, I’d like people think that I have class and that they will feel good attaching themselves to me. I don’t know how pheroes could help yet, but from what I heard they might and it sounds good enough for me to be wanting to try it. Thank you for sharing that information! Some products that both have easily seen effects and would also be appropriate for your personality and situation are A314, Instant Openness and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). A314 will give you self-confidence and increased respect, and is one of the most popular products on this forum. Instant Openness is great for helping to break the ice and get conversations started. Of course, you have to help too, but it really helps to ease things. Instant Gentleman will help give you an aura of someone solid, who can be counted on to take care of things, and also give you a bit of the “class” vibe. ---
**Author:** ![Lime](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/53a042/32.png) [@Lime](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lime)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 9:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/7 "2009-05-01T21:14:09Z")
That’s one of the things I don’t get… the Instant Gentelman sounds very similliar to A314 with the later having more functions to it, is there really a point to having them both? thanks for replying, you really helped me out. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/8 "2009-05-01T22:04:03Z")
> [@Lime](#): > > That’s one of the things I don’t get… the Instant Gentelman sounds very similliar to A314 with the later having more functions to it, is there really a point to having them both? > > thanks for replying, you really helped me out. The A314 is more pure alpha male respect, and often needs another phero to “soften” it and make it less severe. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is “gentler”. ---
**Author:** ![Lime](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/53a042/32.png) [@Lime](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lime)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2009, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/9 "2009-05-01T22:13:32Z")
that explains a lot. thank you. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2009, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/28553/10 "2009-05-02T21:58:57Z")
**Good times my friend. I went ahead and sent your GC out with a little extra.** Enjoy