# Hello ! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 10, 2009, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468 "2009-08-10T20:22:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Spendios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@Spendios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spendios)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2009, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/1 "2009-08-10T20:22:13Z")
Hello ! My name is Spendios, a 24 years old guy living in Toulouse (France) I found this forum on a funny way : my cat became extremely nervous and the veterinarian prescribed [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to calm it and…well…it worked 😃 so I get interested in pheromones and after a few google searches found the forum…it was a total shock 😮 My goal using pheromones : I’m currently single, I broke with my girlfriend in February and since it was a 4 years relations it was quite painful. I’ve recently decided to meet new girls but noticed that it was quite difficult for me to “break the ice” when I meet totally new girls… I also hope pheromones can help me being more confident at work. First I plan to read the forum and the various threads to see what products would be better for my situation and then begin to test in the field 😛 Cheers ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2009, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/2 "2009-08-10T20:29:49Z")
Hi Spendios, welcome to the forum! please tell us a bit more about your personality and the places and situations where you want to use pheromones so we can give you solid advice… do you feel comfortable after breaking the ice? in which work environment do you want to use pheromones? have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2009, 8:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/3 "2009-08-10T20:31:39Z")
Hi Spendios, weclome to the forum! You’ve got the right idea! Reading up on phero’s in general, what they do, how to use them etc is the best thing to do before spending your money. If youa re finding communication a bit difficult I suggest you pay special attention to the social phero’s, in particular IO and IH. They are great for boosting conversation. IH improves the quality of conversation whereas IO improves the quantity. As for the phero’s to use for attraction… [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is one of the forum fave’s. I’m sure you’ll find lots of great posts on it, as well as on other phero’s. They guys here can help you with any specific questions on those 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2009, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/4 "2009-08-10T23:48:14Z")
HI spendios, Welcome to the forum. Like magnum said, tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing? Are you interested to meet girls for ltr or ons? Then we can give you better recommendations. CHeers ---
**Author:** ![Spendios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@Spendios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spendios)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2009, 11:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/5 "2009-08-11T11:41:27Z")
Thank you for your answers ! Well I do not considerate myself to be shy, I can usually have fun and good conversations with new people I meet. I find more difficult though when I speak with a girl to go from “friend conversation” to “lover conversation” … For now I’m mostly looking for ons… I also hope pheromones can help me at job since I work only with male colleagues and since I’m by the youngest of all it’s sometimes difficult for me to have my voice taken in account. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2009, 3:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/6 "2009-08-11T15:00:36Z")
If you are after ONS’s then you could use either Ammo or TUTH depending on the setting. Ammo is well buffered so it’s suitable for everyday wear, going on dates etc. TUTH is not buffered though, and is very sexual rather than sexy so it’s best suited for once you get to the bedroom, or in very sexually charged locations such as nightclubs. I’m sure the lads can give you a bit more advice on that though 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2009, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31468/7 "2009-08-12T19:03:51Z")
Hi there and welcome to our forum. I have to admit it, very interesting the way you found our forum. I’m sure others have, but I just don’t recall seeing anything like it here yet. I read about cat pheromones pretty much daily, so I really shouldn’t be that surprised. I had your GC emailed to you last night so check your inbox. If you are looking for the ons, than Ammo and TUTH could very well be the right choice. I would also recommend IJ as it is heavy -none and add some Ishine and IH. This way you have the -none to keep things sexual and the Ishine to keep things upbeat and relaxed. A woman should feel upbeat and relaxed to engage a ONS. The IH helps relax things and lets her know she can trust you a BIG factor in ons too. Welcome to the forum and say thanks to your cat 🙂