# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 18, 2009, 9:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657 "2009-08-18T09:18:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![korporal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f9b8f/32.png) [@korporal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/korporal)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 9:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/1 "2009-08-18T09:18:13Z")
Hii everyone, am 32, Male from Delhi (India) so am here atleast… a newbie but catch up with you guys. am still looking for my first [pheromone](https://a314.com/)… I don’t knw bcoz I usually gets undue attention which makes my life tough all the times… possibly am lookin for somekind of supressent here [![](https://pheromonetalk.com/pheromone-users/images/smilies/smile.gif) ](https://pheromonetalk.com/pheromone-users/images/smilies/smile.gif) .. anywaz let me see wat pheros has in store for me. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/2 "2009-08-18T09:31:16Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the community. Tell us more about your objective of trying [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). WHat kind of undue attention do you get? Are you ahy or outgoing? Who are your targets? Then we can give recommendations on which pheromones to start with. You will also get the gift certificate for your purchase. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 9:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/3 "2009-08-18T09:51:34Z")
Hi Korporal, You will need to explain more in order to get the right recommendations. Please explain what you mean by “undue attention”… If you’re keen to do some of your own pheromone study, check out [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168), it is a great place to start. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 10:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/4 "2009-08-18T10:02:07Z")
Can you tell us more about this undue attention? Attention from who? Men? Women? What are they doing? If it’s bullying or something like that, you could try A314 or IG, that’ll make them respect you more. ---
**Author:** ![korporal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f9b8f/32.png) [@korporal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/korporal)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 11:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/5 "2009-08-18T11:21:31Z")
Hii Tezza, Alex, James.. thxs for replying. Actually by “undue attention” I mean kind of bullying from Men or ppl like parking attendent, mall security guards.. start arguing with me widout any big issue. And shopkeepers take time to serve me… And I can see ppl start arguing with me on lunch table without they been pricked by me 😉… Eventually I win them over 🙂 but the thing is why always am getting into trouble… now my gf also started pointing this out. By the way am not shy nor outgoing types.. I do take my time to open up.. And I can safely say that I come into goodlooking guys bracket to easily get first attention from gals.. but could not able to close the deal 🙂. Thanks a lot for taking interest!!! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 11:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/6 "2009-08-18T11:53:27Z")
Try IG. It can make people respect you. They will feel you are capable and of higher status. It is more friendly compare to A314. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/7 "2009-08-18T13:34:44Z")
And perhaps [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) as well. Your body language could be contributing to the problem. If you look down all the time, are hunched over, and fail to make eye contact, people will tend to ignore you or think that you are a victim that they can abuse. Stand up straight, and look people in the eye. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/8 "2009-08-18T23:13:13Z")
Hi welcome to the forum. I had your [GC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) sent out to your email. Unfortunately because we are a few persons short still I am unable to provide any insight on pheromones usage. I need to get to the other users too, so please forgive our lack of staffing at the current moment. ---
**Author:** ![korporal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f9b8f/32.png) [@korporal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/korporal)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/9 "2009-08-19T09:10:16Z")
> [@tezza23](#): > > And perhaps Instant Shine as well. > > Your body language could be contributing to the problem. If you look down all the time, are hunched over, and fail to make eye contact, people will tend to ignore you or think that you are a victim that they can abuse. Stand up straight, and look people in the eye. Thanks for the honest advice.. But I walk very straight (am 6 feet tall) and confidently 😉.. and when am speaking to somebody I look straight into the eyes. . possibly people found me intimidating their boundaries.. as gals get attracted to me. . but bcoz of the confusion created by over jealous guys make it difficult for me.😠.. My gf is pointing it on my attitude 🆒.. I don’t knw 😕 so wanna try something 😃… ---
**Author:** ![korporal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f9b8f/32.png) [@korporal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/korporal)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31657/10 "2009-08-19T09:14:29Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > Hi welcome to the forum. > > I had your [GC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) sent out to your email. Unfortunately because we are a few persons short still I am unable to provide any insight on pheromones usage. I need to get to the other users too, so please forgive our lack of staffing at the current moment. Thanks Steve !! recieved the GC sent by you.. and am sure wanna use it as early as possible 🙂.. Jus returned from the shopping cart … I tried to order A314 but its out of stock.. so waiting for it. Still I wud like you spend some time on my posts!!!