# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 26, 2009, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902 "2009-08-26T19:30:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![wk19](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a3d4f5/32.png) [@wk19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wk19)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/1 "2009-08-26T19:30:39Z")
**Hi** **I am in my late 40s, male and in the Northeast part of the US. I am married and I want to add a spark to my relationship with my wife. I am out going, I try to be loving and attentive. Just looking for some new excitement in the bed room. What product do you suggest?** **Thanks!** ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 7:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/2 "2009-08-26T19:34:00Z")
Hi WK Welcome to the forum! Glad to have you onboard 🙂 If you want to spice things up with the wife I’d suggest you get some TUTH. It’s very sexual so best suited for the bedroom, and it’s great for spicing things up 🙂 If your wife wants some phero’s to play with as well there’s [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), either A or B depending on her personality. Are you wanting to use the phero’s purely for your relationship with the wife or are you hoping to use phero’s for other purposes too? ---
**Author:** ![wk19](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a3d4f5/32.png) [@wk19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wk19)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/3 "2009-08-26T19:36:03Z")
Just with my wife! ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/4 "2009-08-26T20:45:34Z")
HI wk19, welcome to the forum. As far as spark in the bedroom is concerned, there are two aspects to consider. First is physical arousal, which Turn up the Heat can accomplish nicely for you. It is androstenone that is unbuffered and can make women very turned-on sexually. Don’t wear it all the time, however, just a spray or two before you head to the bedroom. If she is exposed to it at a time when sexual activity is definitely not an option, such as in front of the kids, at church, at her parent’s house…this can lead to irritability and grumpiness. Sort of blue balls for women. The other aspect you simply must consider is that women are not wired like men, we do not respond well sexually if there are other tensions in the relationship. I always recommend to married people that they start with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). It is beta-androstenol based and encourages trust and openness. It will really help her to feel like opening up and sharing whatever is on her mind. This is a crucial thing in any relationship, and a lot of men do not realize how important it is to us women. Good communication may solve a lot of the sexual issues at home. Even if it doesn’t fix it, she will feel more comfortable talking about what is at the base of your troubles. I came here to add some spark back to my marriage as well. So I sympathize with what you’re going through. I learned something the hard way, and that is that the people who know you best, i.e. spouse, are already well familiar with your own natural pheromone signature. We all put off specific pheromones, in specific quantities, every day. Supplementing those with products that you spray on will alter that signature. Your wife may not be able to put her finger on what has changed when you start wearing pheros, but she will notice that something is indeed different. And unfortunately, it is in our nature to wonder who, not what, caused the change. So if she starts giving you suspicious glances and asking what’s different, don’t panic. If it seems like she’s giving you the cold shoulder at first, don’t worry. Just be patient, and keep on exposing her to the pheros you’re wearing. She’ll come around. Some have discovered that their spouse adjusted within hours or days. My husband took a month to get over his suspicions and just react to the pheros. Then we had a lot of fun, but I had to exercise a lot of patience in the beginning. Just thought you’d want to know ahead of time. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/5 "2009-08-26T21:20:05Z")
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is your and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/6 "2009-08-26T23:52:03Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. For relationship with your wife, I suggest you try IH and TUTH. IH will make her closer and more intimate with you. SHe will talk deeper and more personal with you. TUTH will add spice in your sexual relationship with her. It can sexually arouse her. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/7 "2009-08-27T00:20:05Z")
Welcome to the forums! I have nothing to add to what others have said except “Good luck, and have fun!”. ---
**Author:** ![wk19](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a3d4f5/32.png) [@wk19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wk19)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 1:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/8 "2009-08-27T13:09:04Z")
Still trying to ge the gift certificate. So here is my challenge, my wife says she does not like it when I wear colognes. She is very sensitive to smells and she claims she would rather have me put not wear anything with a smell. And I like perfumes and colognes so I have no problem with it. How would this effect your suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/9 "2009-08-27T13:27:56Z")
Tough one. The pheros usually need scents to cover up unpleasant [pheromone](https://a314.com/) smells like Androstenone, and to carry the pheros into the air. So I don’t know, if she’s really that sensitive it may be worth calling Androtics’ customer service line and having a chat with Steve or someone, they’re very willing to spend the time to give you the right advice. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 6:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/31902/10 "2009-08-27T18:57:11Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum moderator or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.