# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 15, 2009, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/33335 "2009-10-15T22:11:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mrsdenisebell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@mrsdenisebell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrsdenisebell)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2009, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/33335/1 "2009-10-15T22:11:58Z")
Hello everyone I am new here. So my story is going to be a little odd, and I am going to go out on a limb here and share more information then I ususally would, but am hoping I can get some help!.. My husband and I have been trying to conceive a baby for a few months. I cant tell you how the whole ‘trying’ thing takes the fun out of making love!. I am looking for some products that will help to awaken some animal like instinct in him that will take our love making back into primal mode instead of baby making obiligation mode. It might be a tall order,but I am willing to try anything at this point! I recently purchased essences of a woman and scent of eros for women. Problem is I started out with a few small drops and it did nothing. I tried more and he said ewe you smell like vinegar… Please help me what can I use/mix and where do I use it?? Thanks in advance for your help! as an added bonus…if you can make this work for me, I’ll name the baby after you! wink wink : )😉 ---
**Author:** ![Zansteps](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/zansteps/32/2407_2.png) [@Zansteps](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Zansteps)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2009, 10:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/33335/2 "2009-10-15T22:18:37Z")
HAhA! Name your baby Noble, and that would be bad ass… but anyways… The thing about Pheros is that they aren’t like what Hollywood makes them out to be (Oceans Thirteen; ‘The Gilroy’ does not exist)… They don’t make you instantly sexually magnetic… its more of jsut a nudge… The common phrase is the Pheros only do 10% of the work, the other 90% is you… you might be able to get something that will arouse him a bit more often, but it won’t make the sex that noticeably different (I don’t think…) ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2009, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/33335/3 "2009-10-15T22:25:17Z")
Sounds like you do have a bit of a predicament on your hands. Are you the one who’s going to be using the pheros or are you going to have your husband use them also? I would definitely try out the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) line to get him wanting to be playful. A is more of a dominant sexy vibe, where B is a playful kittenish vibe. If you’re looking for something that you can maybe spray on him or around the boudoir to get your juices going, I’d suggest something like Turn Up The Heat. I take it you’re keeping track of your cycles since you’re trying to conceive, so any -none dominant products will be highly arousing to you when you’re ovulating. Something that might make the sex a bit spacey and fun would be Spaceland. Normally makes people dopey and goofy and kinda spacey (hence the name). The clary sage eo smell is not something I’m super keen on, but it’s still ok and totally fun to play with. I’m not going to really suggest the more experimental products or the mixes as those are a bit out of your league right now. Like Zansteps said, it’s really 90/10 on the percentages, but it seems like you’re definitely willing to put that 90% forward to make the 10% work that much more. Good luck and let us know if you decide to go with any of the products here. You may also want to post a similar question in the ladies forum as they will definitely be able to help you out more directly. Cheers and good luck! ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/33335/4 "2009-10-16T00:50:02Z")
It’s a regrettable thing when an extremely fun activity becomes work. There is a lot that you can do, though. EOW is a good product, and very reasonably priced. But it STINKS!!! You have to allow for a 15-20 minute dry-down time, then apply a cover scent to make it more palatable. Anything sweet or vanilla works well, fruity scents too. I have great success with other scents in oil form. Instant Sexiness will get his interest up and make him more amorous. It also pairs up well with EOW, and they compliment each other. Instant Sexiness makes you seem more desirable and EOW gives off a ‘do me now’ sort of vibe. Turn up the Heat will make you more aroused, especially around the time of ovulation. And TAF ramps up the arousal and makes it more intense. TAF is an advanced product, though, and may not be available to you yet. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) extends a feeling of trust, and will increase the bond and communication. P83 seems to act as a dis-inhibitor, but again, that is an advanced product. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/33335/5 "2009-10-16T16:51:21Z")
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