# Hello!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 17, 2009, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146 "2009-11-17T01:40:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sexyjedi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@sexyjedi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sexyjedi)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/1 "2009-11-17T01:40:09Z")
Hi, I just discovered the site. I am excited about seeing how pheremones are working for others and having success myself. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/2 "2009-11-17T01:54:10Z")
> [@sexyjedi](#): > > Hi, I just discovered the site. I am excited about seeing how pheremones are working for others and having success myself. 🙂 Hi Sexi, Welcome!! You found the best place on the net to learn about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and find the right ones for you 🙂 But please do tell us more about yourself such as what you would like to accomplish with pheromones, where you would plan to use them, and more about yourself like your personality. All these different factors play into what pheromones would be best suited for you! Also at the same time it would help qualify you for a $25 gift certificate. The people on the site are so confident in there pheromones they will let you try them out. I think What I found the most interesting is the number of people with un-bias reports on using the pheromones. If you read more in the site you’ll see what I mean. Be sure to post more about yourself and any questions on what you might have read already. My self or others will be sure to be around to answer. Cheers! Daset ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 2:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/3 "2009-11-17T02:03:52Z")
Hey sexyjedi welcome to the board, Like daset1 said if you tell us about your goals and interest we can suggest some good ones to try out. I would def take a lookat the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) pheros which are made specifically for women. Tell us more and goodluck ---
**Author:** ![sexyjedi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@sexyjedi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sexyjedi)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/4 "2009-11-17T02:10:16Z")
Okay. I am most interested in putting that “spark” back in my marriage. We’ve been married almost 10 years and are both over 50. More respect and some attention while at work wouldn’t be a bad thing either. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/5 "2009-11-17T02:52:30Z")
Hello Jedi and welcome to the forum. A lot of people come looking for the same thing though I am usually giving advice to the guys on this subject and not the ladies. Part of the questions deals with your personality. Are you more aggressive or not so much? And how does that fit in with both your relationship at home and at work? ---
**Author:** ![sexyjedi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@sexyjedi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sexyjedi)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/6 "2009-11-17T03:06:30Z")
Okay, I am naturally agressive at home. For quite some time I’ve been toning it down. It seems to push him further away and create less interest. He has lost interest to the point of outside interest. I’m not ready to give up yet. I’m blonde, 5’1 and a little out of shape but not bad. (150) I work hard at the relationship at home. I work hard at everything. I receive compliments and flirtation from male co-workers and customers alike. I feel inadaquate at home. Thanks you for your help.:o > [@bosshank](#): > > Hello Jedi and welcome to the forum. > > A lot of people come looking for the same thing though I am usually giving advice to the guys on this subject and not the ladies. > > Part of the questions deals with your personality. Are you more aggressive or not so much? And how does that fit in with both your relationship at home and at work? ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/7 "2009-11-17T06:21:41Z")
> [@sexyjedi](#): > > Okay, I am naturally agressive at home. For quite some time I’ve been toning it down. It seems to push him further away and create less interest. He has lost interest to the point of outside interest. I’m not ready to give up yet. I’m blonde, 5’1 and a little out of shape but not bad. (150) I work hard at the relationship at home. I work hard at everything. I receive compliments and flirtation from male co-workers and customers alike. I feel inadaquate at home. Thanks you for your help.:o Hey, I believe what you may be looking for would be Instant Sexiness B. It will help give you more of a soft sexy vibe like Marilin Monroe. This as opposed to version A which gives off an Angelina Jolie confident and strong sexy vibe. I think our main goal would be to soften your edges for him. At the same time you may also want to try [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). That will build more trust between each other and a desire to talk about deeply rooted things. I’ve also read that MX274 Attracts attention and over all good uplifting vibes, you may want to to learn more about in the forums. 🙂 One thing I must ask, why do you feel inadequate at home? Is the man your with dominating and or expect alot from you or is he the jealous type? One other thing, that when you have been with someone for a long time they are most likely used to your signature scent. When you first start using the pheromones try building up your usage so not to confuse with the change. Cheers! Daset ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 7:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/34146/8 "2009-11-17T19:15:37Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Sexyjedi! I commend you for not giving up on your marriage and for holding on. Men need certain things just like women in order to feel sexual and in many cases with men it is not only visual but a good ole stroking of the ego works just fine. You being the aggressor in the marriage makes him feel like less of a man and will definitely affect the bedroom. I would agree with daset on the product suggestions. You want to soften your approach and build a bond so he feels comfortable with you. I would also suggest instant shine to give you that youthful, vibrant glow that will draw your hubby to you. Pheromones are not magic so when you start wearing these show him a different side of you as well, a softer even sweeter side\> That does not mean you have to leave out the sex. For lots of men that girly, subtly sexy woman is quite a turn on. I suggest some pink lingerie and since you know your husband best showing him that you are willing to please and give him his desires. 😉 Keep us updated. Your GC will be issued soon!