Hello cb1,
Welcome to the forum.
It sounds like you may be in need of some AMMO, along with some social products.
The guys before me made some good suggestions so I just wanted to say welcome.
You should read the sticky’s at the top of the mens forum. There is a lot of good info in there. Here are a few threads that will explain a lot. Most of you initial questions are answered in these threads.
The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies ( 1 2 3 … Last Page)
Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp (Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp) ( 1 2 3 … Last Page)
Please let us know what you decide, and be sure to come back and tell us how they worked for you.