# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 17, 2010, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325 "2010-02-17T15:51:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/1 "2010-02-17T15:51:19Z")
**My name is Cindy, I’m a 38 year old female from NY. I got curious about pheros about a couple of years ago when they aired a controversy about liquid trust on some tv show. I found this website about 6 months ago and it turned out to be my favorite pheromone website. It’s nice how everyone is respectful of each other. I’m really just testing out [pheromones](https://a314.com/) at this point. I’ve been very pleased with the results I’ve gotten so far. It’s helped me to break out of my shell a little bit. I would like pheros to give those around me a feeling of comfort. I started posting here a few months ago and everyone has been so supportive. I’ve learned a lot and I look forward to trying out new products and experiencing positive results.** ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/2 "2010-02-17T15:58:03Z")
Hi Cindy, Welcome. What pheromones have you tried? Why don’t you post your result? The lady experts here may give you some advice. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/3 "2010-02-17T19:43:37Z")
Hey There Cindy So what products have you used and liked ? Are you looking for something particular to add to your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) arsenal ? I know you have been a participating member for a while already but I am sure you still qualify for a GC if you didnt get one when you first joined. Just pop in here and make sure you covered all the requirements so Mickaelia can take care of yours when she is doing her rounds. Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![hohohate](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hohohate/32/2429_2.png) [@hohohate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hohohate)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/4 "2010-02-17T20:56:13Z")
What are you looking to be perceived as in a social situation? ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/5 "2010-02-18T16:39:48Z")
Yeah, I’m still eagerly waiting for that discount 🙂 This is what I have tried so far and I’ll try to be brief about the effect I’ve had with them. ADVANTAGE: First one I tried and my favorite one so far. Makes me feel so happy and makes it easy for me to smile at people. That’s a big deal for me since I couldn’t do that because of my social anxiety. It’s very inexpensive and all I need is one to two drops at the most. I noticed that people around me would cough whenever I used more than two drops. LOVE IT. EOW: Only used it three times. It’s the only phero that seems to affect my husband. Always tells me I look gorgeous when I use it. One time when I used it in public, I saw a really good looking man who was walking alone and he seemed sad. I thought I would try to cheer him up, so I on purpose did a double take from about a hundred feet away and I began to walk very flirtatiously in his direction. I could see his eyes widening as he watched me. lol As we got closer, we made eye contact and I quickly checked him out cause I wanted him to see me do it. Then something that I have never experienced with a total stranger happend to me. I wanted to take his shirt off so badly and I wanted have sex with him. That attraction surprised me, so I looked away. He seemed disappointed that I looked away for so long. I could see out of the corner of my eye how he was caressing my hair and face with his eyes. He was so sweet and so gorgeous, I melted. I looked into his eyes again for a few more seconds and I never saw him again. I was with a male friend of my husband’s so the guy probably thought I was with my husband. I really think the EOW had an effect on me because I am not bold or horny like that. CLEO: I combine it with MISTRESS and I use about three drops. Guys love to get close to me and smell me when I wear this combination. Anymore than three drops and guys still seem very aroused but I think it intimidates the ones who seem aroused because they stay away, I get shy smiles from the ones who don’t seem to get aroused. ALTER EGO: I don’t like it. It puts me in a bad mood. It seems to make straight women want to talk to me which is always nice, but it doesn’t help that I’m in a bad mood and really don’t want to talk to anyone. MISTRESS: I love the scent. Makes me feel pretty, sexy, confident, and relaxed. SCENT OF EROS: I tried the sample on two different days in a row. I noticed a lot of attention when I wore it. I even wore all black on one of the days and guys still seemed to go out of their way to be around me. Black is not a very flattering color on me. I was also in a very good mood on those two days. The only thing I didn’t like was that I used a lot of the product, maybe about eight drops each day. PCC passion copulin concenterate: I’ve worn it about 4 times and so far I think it’s a waste of money. I used from four swipes to about 10 swipes along with my other pheros and I haven’t noticed any difference. PHEROMAX: I used it once. I got hits, but not the kind that I was hoping for. It was really interesting. Normally pheros make me feel so pretty no matter what I look like that I wait until after I get ready and like what I see before I go out to apply them. I thought I looked very pretty that day, until I sprayed two sprays with some PCC. I looked in the mirror a fewe minutes later and I thought I looked kind of ugly. I applied MISTRESS because it makes me feel so pretty and I still didn’t like what I saw. I wore it to the pool. Normally I try not to sway my hips when I walk, but that day I felt very confident and felt very comfortable allowing my hips to sway as I walked. I also don’t normally feel this way, but I didn’t think any of those guys were good enough for me. There are a lot of hot guys there, but even two of the hot guys who I like didn’t do much for me. I knew they looked good, but one of them I found very annoying and the other one I thought looked lifeless that day. The guy who annoyed me, put his head down after I walked by because I completely ignored him. I ignored him because he keeps sending me mixed signals. I wanted to go over there and make him feel good but I couldn’t since he is shy and seems intimidated by me, and all he does is stare at me without ever talking to me. I feel sad for him now. One really hot guy (who did nothing for me) made an excuse to talk to me but that’s as far as that went since I left the area right after that. I noticed way more attention from women, and maybe because I didn’t like my reflection that day, I also felt unusually uncomfortable around them, even women who were outright unattractive. I saw two girls standing there and they were talking about me. They left when I noticed what they were doing. I ignored them but seeing women talking about me is not normal for me. A lesbian was very open about her strong attraction for me. I am not into women and I have never in my life had another woman be so bold in a plublic place about liking me. People who saw her were kind of shocked and looking at me to watch my reaction. Then some other woman who was wearing her hair in a ponytail saw me standing nearby. She looked at me, seemed a little catty, and she took her ponytail off and shook her hair to look more attractive. I was also wearing my hair in a ponytail. I don’t know what that was about, I didn’t sense any attraction there. I think she was competing with me for attention, I just felt like I was back in high school again. She put her ponytail back up after she walked away and was about 50 feet away from me on the other side. I still felt unusually confident even after all of that. Thanks for reading. I would love any suggestions you may have for me. I like using pheros for many reasons but I’m getting tired of all the horny people they seem to attract to me. I started using pheros because I wanted to be seen as more physically attractive. Interestingly enough, there were more men who would develop romantic feelings for me and who would stare at me like they were in love with me before I started using the pheros. Now I’m not seeing that anymore and I’m starting to miss that. All I’m seeing lately has been strong lust and sexual desire that really leads to nothing cause the way they stare at my body parts and face, doesn’t make me feel as uncomfortable as it used to, but it would seem inapropriate for me to start smiling at these guys when they’re looking at me that way. Before I used pheros, it almost seemed like I would either attract domineering jerks who thought they were alpha males or guys who seemed to fall for me. I would love to attract again the cute sweet guys who would developing crushes on me before I used pheros. I also want people to want to say hello to me and to feel comfortable enough to do so. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/6 "2010-02-18T17:57:01Z")
Hi Cindy By advantage do you me “her extra advantage” by Palm beach or Dr Amends ? I tried the palm beach one and it was good but havent tried Dr Amends yet. It looks like you need some more social mixes to go with the sexy products. IO IH and Ishine are all good. I like IH the best because its chatty but not annoying. Ishine is also a great uplifting socially magnetic mix. Mick should be by at some point today to do the GC’s so hang in there, its worth the wait Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 6:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/7 "2010-02-18T18:01:10Z")
Hi Tisha, yes the Advantage I’m using is by Dr. Amend. Thanks for the advice. The only instant shine I’m seeing is for men. Is there one available for women? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 6:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/8 "2010-02-18T18:23:06Z")
> [@Cindy11](#): > > Hi Tisha, yes the Advantage I’m using is by Dr. Atkins. Thanks for the advice. The only instant shine I’m seeing is for men. Is there one available for women? Its the same product, same with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty, its the same one for men and women, they just label it “for men” for some reason even though its in the women’s section. I noticed that too. ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/9 "2010-02-18T22:43:25Z")
Thanks sillykitty for clearing that up. Which one would be best for me considering that I’m getting lots of attention based on sexual attraction but I’m not coming across as approachable enough to actually be approached? I’m trying to meet new people who are not really total strangers. At this point I’m mostly concerned about meeting people who I will see often, probably for years but who I haven’t met yet. People who see me at school events, the gym, the pool, the recreation center, etc. I’m not really concerned about meeting people at the grocery store or at the mall. Considering the social settings and the way that these people have been responding to me, would you recommend IO or IH for me? Also would you recommend [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a or b? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 12:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/10 "2010-02-19T00:01:16Z")
For the social aspect, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a good ice breaker and will make people around you chattier. Instant Honesty is also good, vecuae it helps people to feel more comfortable around you and more likely to trust you and open up to you. As for the Instant Sexiness’s, how do you prefer to be perceived? As soft, sexy and kittenish, or more like a more dominant sexy alpha female? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 12:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/11 "2010-02-19T00:01:58Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/12 "2010-02-19T22:50:56Z")
Thanks for the gift certificate, Mickaelia. I’ver read so many good reviews about Androtics products, I’m really looking forward to trying them out. Sillykitty, It’s more normal to just make small talk in the environment I’m using the pheros in. I don’t know anyone there well enough to have them open up to me with quality communication and I would rather just have people be chattier around me, but considering that my pheromones seem to intimidate some people, I think I will go with instant honesty to make them feel more comfortable. Does that make sense? I have never in my life intimidated people until I started using pheros.🙂 For [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), I want to try out the one that will make me be perceived as sexy, soft, and kittenish. I think it will help me be more approachable than an alpha female. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2010, 6:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/36325/13 "2010-02-20T06:01:07Z")
For the softer sexy, go with [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/b. The products here a lot of fun to play with, especially because you can use them individually for just one effect, or layer them. I look forward to reading about your adventures in the Women’s section! And please don’t hesitate to ask if you have any other questions! 🙂