# Hello!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/3729>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [May 18, 2007, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/3729 "2007-05-18T06:13:26Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![safeasmilk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e68b1a/32.png) [@safeasmilk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/safeasmilk)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2007, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/3729/1 "2007-05-18T06:13:26Z")

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I have not purchased any products yet, but my problem is that I am too serious and I don’t have a lot of confidence in myself. I had some friends at work who became distant from me and I want to try to win them back. I just want them to feel comfortable around me again. I also need a product that works on me as well as others. I am not looking for anything sexual at the moment, just something to boost my self-confidence and also to make me appear not so serious. Thanks.

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**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2007, 9:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/3729/2 "2007-05-18T09:03:59Z")

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Hi Safe as Milk

I know exactly what you mean. It can be very hard to have confidence in social settings. The large range of products here means that there are many that help with feeling good about yourself and making others feel good around you. It’s not all about sexual attraction.

I’m still a bit of a newbie myself and I am sure others will join in with suggestions, but Instant Shine might be a very good choice for you for a general feel-good vibe. If you want the focus to be more on conversation and communication then [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) can help to break the ice in social situations and Instant Honesty can help to deepen conversations and improve their quality.

From my own experience which is limited, but I have seen posts from others on this too - one of the great things about pheromones is that they don’t just effect others they have great self-effects too! 🙂

May

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**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2007, 2:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/3729/3 "2007-05-21T14:53:16Z")

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safeasmilk, I think you are my new favorite pherouser to be.

A314 and Shine. I want you to try them. I want you to march right out of that shell and shine and laugh and be exuberant and all those other things that you’d naturally do when you’re in the mood. Yes, I’m feeling A314 and Shine for you.

Welcome to the forum!

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