# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 29, 2010, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/38177 "2010-04-29T22:41:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bcashJMU](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9f8e36/32.png) [@bcashJMU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bcashJMU)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/38177/1 "2010-04-29T22:41:18Z")
I am Brandon, an almost 20-year-old guy at JMU that can’t seem to win any of the girls. I am a really nice guy and I don’t go for one night stands or anything like that. I am very outgoing and a fun person with lots of different kinds of friends. I like to party every now and then because well the parties here are amazing. Also, if you know anything about JMU, the girls here are outstanding. Apparently I am just not quite the Prince Charming the girls are looking for. They tend to go for the more jerky types of guys who get lots of girls. I just want a mature relationship that includes some sexual acts. I was really hoping that [pheromones](https://a314.com/) could enhance or improve my chances with the beautiful girls around me. I want them to notice me in a different way than they have been. I feel that if I can get them to talk to me more and see me in this different light, I can probably use my personality to finish the job. If this helps with any advice you can give, here is what tends to happen when I am around girls. Most of the time I meet the girls at parties and dance with them. I feel that i am an adequate dancer. We have fun but generally they just want to dance and then move to another guy when they are done. I get ditched a lot for other guys and then go back to my dorm girl-less. Please help if possible! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 10:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/38177/2 "2010-04-29T22:48:42Z")
Hi Brandon, welcome to the forum! For your predicament, I do have a couple of ideas. The first is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), which will give you a boost of confidence and the vibe of a guy who has it together and can deal with whatever comes his way. It will give you an air of maturity without making you look “old”. Instant Honesty is another that should help, as it enhances others’ feelings of trust and comfort around you, and also helps to create and strengthen emotional bonds, an important factor for most girls in order to become involved with a guy. Instant Shine is an uplifting, positive phero mix that will boost your mood and also the moods of those around you. People will be drawn to your happy presence, they will want to be around you more. ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 10:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/38177/3 "2010-04-29T22:57:01Z")
Hello and welcome! Sillykitty made some good suggestions. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) will give you a “cool” air and set you apart from the crowd. Kind of a James Bond type feeling. Shine is a must for any phero-user in my opinion. I also suggest ammo. It will add some attraction and its great for a college or party environment. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/38177/4 "2010-04-29T23:08:55Z")
Hey, welcome. I’ve been beaten to the punch as far as answering you goes but the previous users took the words right out of my finger tips as they offered you some great advice. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2010, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/38177/5 "2010-04-30T17:45:21Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.