ptarjan welcome to the forums !
Have to say ammo is going to be your initial product that you should test out. It is scented at cologne strength, buffered nicely with socials, will give you some confidence and it has attraction built into which will sexually attract and steer you away from the friend zone. You will just need to find your sweet spot with the product.
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Since you are already great at conversations an initial attraction i would only suggest maybe some instant shine to enhance your personality. It also gives you a slight confidence boost and if you get self effects like most do, it uplifts your mood, and makes you even more smiley and people tend to associate that happiness when they are with 'you. That in itself can be a turn on.
Hope this gets yah started in the right direction and best of luck! Hope to see you reporting back on your results.