# Hello!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 20, 2010, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160 "2010-07-20T01:45:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Queen\_Bee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Queen\_Bee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen_Bee)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/1 "2010-07-20T01:45:55Z")
**I’m a 26-yo female student in Chapel Hill, NC.** **I recently went through a painful breakup (he dumped me). I’m looking for a boost for my self-esteem around men, especially since I live in a college town where so many of the girls are 18-22. I’m starting to feel old here!** **Plus I want my ex to remember how desirable I can be… I figure being hot is the best revenge.** ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/2 "2010-07-20T01:58:44Z")
What type of personality do you have? To qualify for the GC tells us a little more about yourself that should help you with what you’re looking for. Also [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a or b can help you. It just depends on if you want an alpha type female or a girl next door vibe. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/3 "2010-07-20T01:59:16Z")
Hey and welcome! Mones can help to get you some extra attention that will give you that boost in self-esteem! For a direct boost, give [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) a try. It is designed to be a mood enhancer for both the wearer and those around them. For attention from the opposite sex and a boost in confidence, the instant sexiness line is your best choice. I don’t know much about the women’s products, but one of the girls here will chime in soon. Mones can also be used to increase socially and to gain some respect. Are you interested in either of these uses? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 11:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/4 "2010-07-20T11:07:32Z")
hi there, Welcome to the forum. I agree with the gentlemen on [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). It can make you more attractive and sexier. Try Shine as well. It can lighten your mood and the mood of the people around you too. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Queen\_Bee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Queen\_Bee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen_Bee)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 6:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/5 "2010-07-20T18:00:03Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > What type of personality do you have? > > To qualify for the GC tells us a little more about yourself that should help you with what you’re looking for. > > Also Instant Sexiness a or b can help you. It just depends on if you want an alpha type female or a girl next door vibe. Thanks! I went ahead and ordered Instant Sexiness A. I read in the forums that that one gives off a more confident, womanly vibe, and as I’m developing an interest in a slightly older man I thought it might be better. If I think I get some good results with that one then I’ll definitely give [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and some of the other ones a try. I’ve never used pheromones and from what I’ve read on this forum I definitely believe they work, but I’d like to see the results for myself. As far as my personality… I’m a pretty serious girl with big ambitions (I’m working on a phd). If you know Myers-Briggs I’m a classic INTJ. I could really be the definition. I’ve noticed that when people don’t know me well they tend to watch what they say… I’ve been described by one coworker as “dignified.” I think some people think I give off a cold or snobby vibe. This is not intentional–I would actually describe myself as shy and awkward. Around my friends I can be downright wild and crazy. I’m also pretty funny and very loving with those I’m close to. I considered IS/B to soften my perceived image, but some women who consider themselves strong females (like me) said that it made them feel irritable. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/6 "2010-07-20T18:07:31Z")
Great choice and good luck with it. I would suggest starting a Journal too to chronicle your testing and so you can go back to it when you need references. Looking forward to hearing your reports! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2010, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/40160/7 "2010-07-21T21:55:02Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Queen\_Bee! You did a really good job in picking out your products. Seeing that you are assertive it makes sense that you will do your research and jump right in. I definitely encourage you to pop into the women’s section and share your experiences with us. Your gc was issued. 😃