# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 4, 2010, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330 "2010-10-04T21:22:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Telalun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Telalun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Telalun)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2010, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/1 "2010-10-04T21:22:53Z")
Hey everyone. I am new to the site and to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I’m a 43yo man, married and lacking alot of the confidence I used to have. I look forward to getting educated and sharing my experiences. 🙂 Tel. ---
**Author:** ![paradox1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradox1/32/1196_2.png) [@paradox1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradox1)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2010, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/2 "2010-10-04T21:36:59Z")
Hello Telalun, Tell us…What is it you would like pheromones to do for you. Are you talking about confidence with your wife, Confidence at work or social confidence? ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2010, 10:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/3 "2010-10-04T22:24:05Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Telalun!, For some reason your name reminds me of southern slang for Tell-everyone…😛 can you tell us more about yourself so that we can offer you suggestions and so that you can get the $25 gift card (if you are interested): the general area you’re from? What is your personality like? What kind of effects do you want to see out of pheromones? How did you find out about this site? ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/4 "2010-10-05T00:06:41Z")
Yes, just like what others said, tell us more about yourself. When you do you will get a gift card. In general: AMMO: it should make you appear sexier and more manly [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/): increase youth, charm and charisma IO: makes others open up to you IH: brings you close and intimate with others IG: A smooth, suave, cool respect from others A314: MAD respect from others! ---
**Author:** ![Telalun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Telalun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Telalun)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/5 "2010-10-05T01:40:22Z")
I am from the Dallas area and have lived here pretty much my whole life. I used to be very confident prior to marriage and the kids. As time wore on my wife seems to have no interest in me. Getting her to talk, spend time with me and especially having sex is a chore for her and almost an act in futility for me. Her lack of interest has lead me to lose the confidence I once had when she was all into me and what was going on in my life. I don’t want to come across as over bearing but would like to seem sure of myself to others without turning them away. If she would just be able to relax and be more drawn to whats going on in my life as well as be interested again sexually that would be perfect. Oh and I found the site through a google search. Just typed in unbiased [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) forum and here you guys were. Not sure what else to say. Tel ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 6:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/6 "2010-10-05T06:01:33Z")
Hi Tel, welcome to the forum! Like gardens, marriages do need to be tended in order to stay healthy and grow. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will add depth and intimacy to your conversation, and it also helps to strengthen emotional bonds. To spice things up, in the bedroom, go with Turn Up The Heat. To get your confidence back up to speed, Ammo will give both your confidence and sex appeal a nice boost, and can be used in any environment. A314 is a great confidence/trust/respect mix that is primarily used in work situations, but can also be worn socially and around your wife if softened with some Instant Honesty or Instant Shine. I hope this helps, and please ask if you have any questions. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Telalun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Telalun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Telalun)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/7 "2010-10-05T21:55:01Z")
Thank you so much for that wonderful advice. I will deffinately be ordering all of those. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 9:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/8 "2010-10-05T21:59:57Z")
Nice! Don’t forget to try one by one though. Don’t spray everything at once, lol. I think you will like 2x AMMO +2x A314 + 2x IH + 2xIS combo! ---
**Author:** ![Telalun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Telalun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Telalun)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2010, 7:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/9 "2010-10-07T07:47:35Z")
I’m really looking forward to being able to place my first order. I will be ordering [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) 2X and IH 2x. I would love to get some A314 but thats a bit out of my budget right now. Thanks for all the info and advice. I really do appreciate it. Tel ---
**Author:** ![Telalun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Telalun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Telalun)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2010, 8:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/10 "2010-10-07T08:02:47Z")
Oh my! I finally went through enough forum posts and through the website to find the To Go sizes. I can actually afford to order all that I wanted to try at first. Now I just have to figure out how to keep it from my wife so she dosn’t have any premeditated ideas or hangups. Guess it’s time to get a mail box at the local pack and mail shop. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2010, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/11 "2010-10-08T21:00:57Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Telatun! I do apologize that the response took so long bu there I am. I know that the more experienced users on this forum, I am mostly talking about the married ones since I am not will definitely take care of you. Have a great weekend, for the late response I went ahead and gave you a bonus in your gc. Your gc was issued. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Telalun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Telalun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Telalun)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2010, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/42330/12 "2010-10-08T23:08:55Z")
Thank you so much! You guys Rock!