# Hello :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 15, 2010, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/43317 "2010-11-15T13:58:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JuliaC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f1d935/32.png) [@JuliaC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JuliaC)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/43317/1 "2010-11-15T13:58:03Z")
Hi, this is Julia. Female. I’m turning 30 next month. I’m from a small city in Malaysia, but I’m working in Singapore currently. I’d describe myself very easy-going and friendly. My friends back home think I’m quite funny but bossy sometimes 😛 I always look after my friends, and they treat me like a big sister. I never heard of [pheromone perfume](https://phera.com/shop/)/spray until last month, and it seems very popualr these days, so I started searching for a right one for myself. Ever since I started working, I found myself a bit stressed out and down sometimes. I want people around me to feel happy, and more importantly, I want myself to be as happy as I used to be. As I was browsing the website, I found that “Instant Shine” might be helpful. Another problem I’m facing right now is that my bf of 5yrs seems very bored of me these days ☹ I don’t see any sparkles between us, so I want to add some spices to our life. I’ve always been a very good girl and tried dressing down in order not to attract other guys’ attention. Maybe that’s why he thinks I’m boring coz I’m not “challenging” enough. I hope “Instant Sexiness B” can help me. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 2:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/43317/2 "2010-11-15T14:05:51Z")
Welcome to the forum, Julia! I think you’ve provided enough information to qualify for the $25 gift certificate, so hopefully one of the people who issues those will be by soon. It sounds like you’ve already done your research and chosen the two products I would have recommended for you. I’m not as familiar with the women’s products, but I’m sure one of the ladies will be by to give you some advice later. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is a great product for making people happy. Some people buy it purely for the self-effects. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask! Take a look around the forum and learn a bit more about the different molecules, effects, and combinations you can try. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/43317/3 "2010-11-15T15:20:29Z")
Hi Julia and Welcome to the our forum! Thanks for the detailed explanation, I really do appreciate it! It is refreshing to get some clear words on who you are and what you expect to get from the mones. 🙂 I would agree with both your choices. I, myself, started out with INSTANT SHINE and really enjoyed the ‘smile in a bottle’ effects. Though, my self effects are somewhat muted as compared when I started using it, I still get that relaxed, happy to be with you, sparkly vibe from others in my phero cloud! It could also soften your attitude and minimize your ‘down’ feelings. Besides, IS and IS/b, from you descriptions, I would also suggest IH. As you have a LTR with your BF, IH will have the effect in others in your phero cloud, your BF specifically, of wanting to open up more intimately his thoughts and give him a close feeling towards you. As to the dressing down, I’m not sure if that is a good idea, as normally, guys want to have a gal who is attractive to himself and others. Really, the attention you get from other guys is irrelevant, as long as YOU aren’t following through on those IOI, your BF should feel good that YOU have chosen him to be with!!! I would also ask that you look over the women’s section, where there are several user’s and testers their as well that can give you some great advice on relationships and of course, mones! After you have tried some of these INSTANT lines, see how mones work on you and others, then with your experience get into the Research MX and P lines. AD needs women like you to try those out and give your observations to the board. As you are quite articulate, your experiences with mones would be appreciated by all of us users of mones, as well as, I’m sure, AD! I hope you knock some sense into your BF with mones so that he appreciates what he has in you!!! 😃 Cheers and wish you to make this forum yours as well! I hope to read about your mone adventures! ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/43317/4 "2010-11-15T20:07:11Z")
Hi there Julia and welcome to Ptalk. I would love if one of the ladies stopped by and offered some advice, but you could also always head on over to that section of the forum and light it up with your smile. Boyfriends can sometimes be a little dense too, but that’s what makes relationships what they are. Where as he wants to spice things back up, its nice to know he is still there and as such willing to make it work with you. That’s great to read and I’m sure with some mones thing will get there. The Isexi B will add that extra oomph you’re looking for and you might need to get a body guard when he gets a whiff of the “new and improved” Julia 😉. Haha you might actually not make it out anymore at all. I know my GF wears the Isexi A and somehow we never actually make it out at all. She will get all dressed up and ready to go out and when she sprays the Isexi A it like releases the tiger in me and I pounce. LOL poor girl never gets to go out 😉, if you get my meaning. So you did good with that and the Ishine. Ishine is going to really make everyone around you happy that you are there. Maybe, if you can, add some IO to that combo too. It also creates a sense of well being and happiness and can really amplify the Ishine and Isexi. Its the most popular three on the forum in combo. I’m going to be sending out your GC to your email in just a short while. You should be able to pick up a few to go’s and other than shipping not hurt the pocket book to bad. We ship lots and lots of mones to your area and they fly right through customs.🙂. I’m so happy you discovered us and welcome your arrival. I look forward to your participation. Now if you would, please select one answer as the answer who helped you best. This way the rest of us know you have been helped and we can strive to continue helping others. A BIG welcome