# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 24, 2011, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012 "2011-02-24T04:37:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Coffee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@Coffee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Coffee)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2011, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/1 "2011-02-24T04:37:34Z")
Hey im 18 and i heard that this stuff works by one of my friends. Im kind of shy but onece i know a person im all out going. what is the best pherom that would help out for both of my situations. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2011, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/2 "2011-02-24T05:14:16Z")
Welcome to the forum. You might be interested in the social products, IH and IO. They both help get conversations going and help establish a rapport. You might find them fun. If you do try them out, let us know what you think. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2011, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/3 "2011-02-24T09:08:50Z")
Hey Coffee! Welcome to the mone forum! Yeah, some IS would be my recommendation to get out of the shy funk. This with the socials like IO will incline you to be talkative. Others will feel the same toward you. However, you will still need to get the convo’s going. I’d also suggest you look into IG as this will help boost your confidence and project that same feeling to others about you. Though, in all cases, mones will only support your attitude. You’ll still need to do your part… your mones will NOT carry you by their lonesome… Thanks for posting! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2011, 11:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/4 "2011-02-24T11:57:35Z")
Hi Coffee and welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Can you tell us a bit more about the situations you want to help along with pheros - Your choices might be different depending on it being a work/college environment or a social/partying and dating/sexual situation. However, your age does suggest you will probably be best looking at the social products to begin with as you will already be putting out a fair bit of none. IG/ IH might be better in work/college, whilst IO/IS might help with the shyness and your interactions when you are out. Look forward to hearing your results. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2011, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/5 "2011-02-25T02:14:43Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Coffee! Although you gave us the essentials one liners just don’t qualify for the $25 gc and the more information you give us the better we can assist. Tell me more about yourself personality and situation so we can get things going. ---
**Author:** ![Coffee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@Coffee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Coffee)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2011, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/6 "2011-02-25T04:39:19Z")
ill probably try those umm lets see im a guys that would like to be more out going and if i know the person i have no problem talking to the person again. i like going to the gym and playing sports. i would like pherom to help me get more out going and more talkative at the start. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2011, 8:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/7 "2011-02-26T08:15:34Z")
> [@Coffee](#): > > ill probably try those > > umm lets see im a guys that would like to be more out going and if i know the person i have no problem talking to the person again. i like going to the gym and playing sports. > > i would like pherom to help me get more out going and more talkative at the start. So, are you generally a shy person with new people? Do you feel that you lack a confidence in yourself? ---
**Author:** ![Coffee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@Coffee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Coffee)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2011, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/8 "2011-02-26T19:17:36Z")
ya im generally shy to new people and ya it has to do with me confidence ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2011, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/9 "2011-03-02T04:55:14Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Coffee! Thanks for the additional information. The guys already gave you some great [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) suggestions so now I just have to do my part to get you started. **Your gc was issued! 😃** ---
**Author:** ![jnoel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jnoel/32/650_2.png) [@jnoel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jnoel)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2011, 10:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/10 "2011-03-02T22:44:30Z")
hey welcome, IJ and tuth work wonders on my confidence. ij gives me an “i dont give an f” kind of confidence, i walk like the world parts wate for me to walk through tuth is similar for me, ive got “girl, i want to f u” kind of confidence, and girls turn their heads at break necks speeds you have to be careful because tuth may come off as too sexual its like showing intent, some intent is always good, because women respect a guy who knows what he wants, but too much comes off as try-hard what kind of confidence problems do you have, mones can only help you so much. IH can cause a quick bonding effect between two people, but remember girls dont always want a guy to just talk to, they want a guy they can stil respect. dont become any women’s emotional tampon You rock man! do you know why? because you are one of the few, the top 10% of people who actual take matters in their own hands and work to make their lives better. you are already the cream of the crop ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2011, 6:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/49012/11 "2011-03-03T18:05:41Z")
Hi Coffee Yes I agree that all the none products give you a healthy confidence boost. You will probably need to moderate them a bit with one or other of the socials. Esp the likes of IJ, which can promote agression and in a quiet person, a sort of remote/standoffish vibe. Doubt you want that. IS would probably help most here but you are also going to have to back that up by trying to be more open and amenable to conversation with people. A314 also gives a different kind of confidence boost. A kind of quiet/couldn’t care less, as opposed to the very in your face kind from none. It might be worth thinking about that and reading up more as it is not really a beginners phero.