Hi Ashmay! Welcome to the new adventure 
You’ve already been helped a bunch by the guys - as you can tell, very friendly and helpful on here 
. I’m reasonably new here as well, but am devoted to mones for a couple of reasons. You can get insight and help from the guys in the mens journals and asking them direct questions; you can read the various adventures of the ladies as well - all open books, if you will . I do recommend you give us a little more detail on your personality and some of the more experienced girls will definitely weigh in. Look at the suggested intro info and then when you fill the details in, you’ll get a GC issued - which is totally awesome!
But the guys are right, IS/b is . . . almost magical - no kidding. The confidence boost I get and feel is just amazing; IS is just one of those things you’ll always want to have just for you let alone the effect it has on those around you; and yes, of course the guys are right about the IH for encouraging a closer bonding and deeper type of conversation - though I do understand it’s not the talking you’re particularly interested in at the moment. 
Just go and look at the journals, research into the posts and don’t tell your man just yet 
if you do intend to. I think a little mystery is always good to keep, but that’s just my opinion. Keep an eye on your email for answers to your posts and enjoy your new ‘ride’ . 2 links to start your research off:
Intro To Mones by Steve O (An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration)
How do you know what are HITS!? by Tisha23