# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 12, 2011, 9:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281 "2011-05-12T09:54:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sgcash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@sgcash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sgcash)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 9:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/1 "2011-05-12T09:54:17Z")
Hello I’m from Singapore in my late 20s, I’m here mainly hoping [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) will help me open up and widen my social circle. I’m a gay guy and while they’re out of the gay pheromones I thought I’d try the normal ones since gay guys are attracted to other guys right? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/2 "2011-05-12T11:51:01Z")
Hi sgcash - welcome to pherotalk. Have a look at the Instant Line Socials as well - They are unisex and promote all sorts of attraction-aiding behaviours. eg Happiness - IS, conversation - IO, bonding and closeness - IH and status - IG. And yes, the conventional men’s pheros can be of use to you too. There is a fair bit of discussion on that in Men’s IIRC. If you look at this thread and provide a bit more info about yourself, we can probably offer better advice still: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 11:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/3 "2011-05-12T11:58:05Z")
Hi sgcash: There aren’t really “gay” pheromones, just mixtures that may work best for gay men. I think any of the men’s products would probably work well for you, but the social ones mentioned by mobocaster are always a good bet. Really, the important info that would help us recommend a products would be stuff like: are you shy or outgoing? are you in a LTR? what kind of setting would you be trying to meet people in (work, clubs, just out and about town)? You mention wanting to “open up”. If by that you mean be able to strike up a converstation, instant openness and/or instant honesty are social communication pheromones that will encourage you and people around you to want to talk. ---
**Author:** ![sgcash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@sgcash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sgcash)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 2:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/4 "2011-05-12T14:25:51Z")
I’d say I’m pretty shy. As far as meeting people, it’d mostly be in a health club environment (gym/pool) or just about town. There is this one guy whom is interested but has some barriers. He already talks to me and tells me things he wouldn’t tell others and we’ve been hooking up and it got pretty intense recently but he’s drawn back again as he’s worried of getting even more attached than he already is. I just received my order for TUTH IH and IG. We still speak daily and he really opens up when we’re together but he’s requested that the physical activity stop for now as he sorts through his emotions and requests that I remain a good friend. Trying to do all that. I’m honestly overwhelmed with all the information on the boards but equally thankful for the treasure trove of information. ---
**Author:** ![sgcash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@sgcash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sgcash)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/5 "2011-05-12T14:38:59Z")
Also how should I go about applying it? I’ve read one of the posts which suggest one spray of TUTH on the wrists, 1x of IH on the elbows… or should I be mixing them together? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/6 "2011-05-12T15:07:42Z")
There are quite a few threads on all sorts of strategies for effective application. If its any help, I start by applying anything none-based (eg TUTH) from the centre out, Neck, throat and chest depending on clothing. Then forearms/wrists etc. For socials, I work the other way - From the extremities then inwards, so I start with the wrists/forearms first. Alcohol based products can be layered over each other without problem, just let each application dry first. It is only when using oil based that you need to keep app points apart. Read this thread for info on finding your effective dose - Again, especially important with none products. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2011, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/7 "2011-05-13T19:00:53Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Sg! This is an amazing thread to help you get started : > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… For your shy nature I would recommend instant openness first. This product will make persons more chatty around you and ease you into conversations. Ammunition to give off that strong, masculine vibe and to give off a confidence boast. Seeing that you already ordered you can get these with your gift certificate. The products you ordered are fairly good for your situation. When I read your situation it sounds like this could be a situation where he wants to use you as a booty call. If he says lets be friends and every so often meets up with you and you guys get physical then that is a clear sign. If the physical stops and he just wants to be friends maybe he found someone else. Not to sound negative because he really could be going through somethings but usually if someone likes or is inlove with someone they don’t want to take a break from them especially if they are going through something emotional and need your loving. Use your mones, be his friend but be aware of his actions and if what he does is confusing or conflicting with what he says. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![sgcash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e8cbc/32.png) [@sgcash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sgcash)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2011, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/50281/8 "2011-05-13T23:17:19Z")
Thank you for the information Mickaelia, I’ll be sure to check out the post and the products you recommended. With regard to his actions, I was weary at first but he’s been really open with regard to his concerns, it doesn’t help he’s currently involved and was told to find physical intimacy outside of his relationship and is currently mulling things over. So far it’s not been a booty call situation. We’re constantly trying to restrain ourselves. And he wants to hang out and talk to sort through things and asked me not to shut him out > [@kelsey](#): > > Welcome to pherotalk Sg! > > This is an amazing thread to help you get started : > > [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) > > For your shy nature I would recommend instant openness first. This product will make persons more chatty around you and ease you into conversations. > > Ammunition to give off that strong, masculine vibe and to give off a confidence boast. > > Seeing that you already ordered you can get these with your gift certificate. > > The products you ordered are fairly good for your situation. > > When I read your situation it sounds like this could be a situation where he wants to use you as a booty call. If he says lets be friends and every so often meets up with you and you guys get physical then that is a clear sign. > > If the physical stops and he just wants to be friends maybe he found someone else. > > Not to sound negative because he really could be going through somethings but usually if someone likes or is inlove with someone they don’t want to take a break from them especially if they are going through something emotional and need your loving. > > Use your mones, be his friend but be aware of his actions and if what he does is confusing or conflicting with what he says. > > **Your gc was issued! 😉**