# Hello.. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 19, 2007, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167 "2007-08-19T16:29:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Nidhogg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/a9a28c/32.png) [@Nidhogg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nidhogg)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2007, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/1 "2007-08-19T16:29:20Z")
Hi all, first post so i decided to put it here. Ive been reading around the past few days and came to the conclusion that Ammo and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) would be a pretty nice purchase for a newbie. So since the stuff hasnt shipped yet i decided to get some other stuff aswell, something that can help me get some more attention from the chicks, yeah you know what i mean. A lill’ short about myself… Im a 18 year old male, aggressive(controlled ofc, not a see-smash maniac), laid back, pretty damn shy when it comes to talking to new people. Now what i mostly hate about myself is that i have initiative problems, sort of, i just cant take the first damn step. Once i get past that part everything else goes smootly. So… what can i say, maybe i have low self esteem when it comes to girls. Either way, perhaps there is something that can easy up this step for me (besides the stuff i already ordered). Any recomendations? ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2007, 11:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/2 "2007-08-20T11:25:06Z")
Welcome to the forum! Recommendations for you: ih io Shine ---
**Author:** ![bubblebob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblebob/32/2120_2.png) [@bubblebob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblebob)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2007, 11:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/3 "2007-08-20T11:55:31Z")
Welcome to the forum Nidhogg! As Gwtw already suggested, Androstenol-products like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty could make combined with some Instant Shine could make you more approachable. bb ---
**Author:** ![Nidhogg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/a9a28c/32.png) [@Nidhogg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nidhogg)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2007, 12:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/4 "2007-08-20T12:15:46Z")
Thanks guys, gonna give it a shot ---
**Author:** ![ogt192](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ogt192/32/657_2.png) [@ogt192](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ogt192)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2007, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/5 "2007-08-20T14:06:18Z")
I’m gonna try getting CTTM2 for my next order. I’m not sure exactly how it compares with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Honesty. but some say it is better for approachability ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2007, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/6 "2007-08-20T14:26:18Z")
> [@ogt192](#): > > I’m gonna try getting Come Talk To Me Mix 2 for my next order. I’m not sure exactly how it compares with Instant Openness and Honesty. but some say it is better for approachability If you already have IH and IO you can get essentially the same results as cttm by using a 50/50 mix of IH and IO. That will give you a chance to test the effects without buying a whole bottle. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2007, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5167/7 "2007-08-24T21:11:15Z")
Hey nidhogg! Ah man, the “first approach”. It gets easier when you practice! I heard some great advice from the pick up artist set. I think I first heard it from Archer Sloan. To get over approach anxiety, set out to say hello to 50 different people in one day. 2-3 sprays of Shine and Openness over that, and you’ll have too many people talking to you… Take care! your gift cert has been sent.