# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 8, 2011, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252 "2011-09-08T16:24:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![toepickinobody](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@toepickinobody](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toepickinobody)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/1 "2011-09-08T16:24:15Z")
Hi! My name is Michelle. I found this site while googling ‘[pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)’. A little bit about me: I’m 27, live in Tennessee, and a little introverted. Initially I was looking for something to help with having my husband notice me more often, in an intimate way. Do pheromones also work on the wearer? It would be great to find something that would help me not be so anxious when in a crowd, give me more confidence, or help me be at ease with other people and vice versa. I don’t go to bars or clubbing or anything like that. I would most likely use them when going out to eat, going to the movies, gym, in professional situations (like work), and chilling or a party at a friend of a friend’s house. What would you recommend? Thanks for the help! ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/2 "2011-09-08T16:24:35Z")
Glad you found this cool place! Hi Michelle, yes some single mones and especially mone mixes, complete products work also on the wearer (self-effects). [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for example is a superb mood booster and also exciting, I think it’s optimal for you. And you see the effects also on others, perfect for the day and nighttime, party, friends etc. A strong confidence booster seems to be MX397. Good feelings and light dominant but also sexy. But also the sexy and sweet cuddly maker Instant Sexiness B is a option. Maybe this is better for your relationship, because it’s also a pleasure maker. A better confidence booster is MX397. Maybe try both and see what you like better. For your relationship, the workplace and friends is also IH interesting, not alone, I would add it to MX397 or IS/B, it’s a connection and trust maker and you much deeper conversations. For new people is IO better, because it’s a fast icebreaker. I would say try MX397 + Instant Shine and maybe IH for the workplace. And Instant Sexiness/B with Instant Shine and IH for your relationship. Michelle it would be nice if you tell us something more about you, your hobbies for example. Maybe you know it, you can get also a gc. Warmth wishes 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/3 "2011-09-08T16:24:42Z")
Hi there Michelle, Thats cool that you found this site while looking for pheromones.You definitely found a good site to hang around(^_^)Pheremones are pretty good but they are still only 10% of the equation and your the 90%.They help boost whats already there and give you a bit of an edge(^_^)You should definitely read this link to get a better idea of what to expect with pheromones(^\_^) [What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) You can qualify for a 25$ gift certificate for your introduction which will let you get some to-go’s to test out pretty much risk free.Johnnyhard will probably go into that so ill skip that.If you want to get your husband to notice you in a more intimate way,then [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) is just what the doctor ordered.It will make you appear more sexy and confident in your own skin and is good for getting more attraction from men.You could also maybe use tuth which is a mans product to spice up the bedroom,some of the women have reported good success with that.Could also get some instant honesty to increase bonding and connection with your husband.Pheremones do have self effects but they dont happen to everybody and they tend to become less obvious as you get used to your own pheromone signature.For being more confident and at ease with people though,instant openness and instant shine are good though.Instant openness makes you and other people more chatty so its easier to hold a conversation and instant shine puts everyone in a good mood so conversation is more positive and you feel more confident.(^_^)Lol,thats actually all the products d.There are the experimental ones but its usually best to start with the consumer line till your more used to the effects.You should also definitely read some of the stickies below to get you started.All the best and hope things go well for you(^_^)Hope to catch ya around the forums. [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) [Business Applications](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/business-applications/4505) ---
**Author:** ![Centrum\_Virium](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Centrum\_Virium](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Centrum_Virium)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/4 "2011-09-08T16:36:23Z")
Hey there Michelle and welcome to the forums 🙂 Its great that you found us, where did you first hear about pheromones? Instant Sexiness B will get your partner to notice you more 🙂 you will give of a cuddly secy feminine vibe that will make him more attracted and feel like your “protector” if we’re talking primal 😃 To improve your self confidence I highly recommend you use [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), you will feel more energetic happy and confident and it will show to those around you. IH will help create connection and bonding with people, which you should use with IS/b around your partner, but can also be used in any situation with new people 🙂 As for work purposes your best listening to these guys ^ because I’m unsure for women sorry 😛 Very nice intro by the way but tell us a bit more about yourself and your hobbies and it can help you score a gc ---
**Author:** ![toepickinobody](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@toepickinobody](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toepickinobody)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 5:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/5 "2011-09-08T17:05:21Z")
> [@JohnnyHard](#): > > Glad you found this cool place! > > Hi Michelle, yes some single mones and especially mone mixes, complete products work also on the wearer (self-effects). Instant Shine for example is a superb mood booster and also exciting, I think it’s optimal for you. And you see the effects also on others, perfect for the day and nighttime, party, friends etc. > > A strong confidence booster seems to be MX397. Good feelings and light dominant but also sexy. But also the sexy and sweet cuddly maker Instant Sexiness B is a option. Maybe this is better for your relationship, because it’s also a pleasure maker. > > A better confidence booster is MX397. Maybe try both and see what you like better. For your relationship, the workplace and friends is also IH interesting, not alone, I would add it to MX397 or IS/B, it’s a connection and trust maker and you much deeper conversations. For new people is IO better, because it’s a fast icebreaker. > > I would say try MX397 + Instant Shine and maybe IH for the workplace. And Instant Sexiness/B with Instant Shine and IH for your relationship. > > Michelle it would be nice if you tell us something more about you, your hobbies for example. Maybe you know it, you can get also a gc. > > Warmth wishes 🙂 Thanks for the fast reply. I like working out. It makes me feel good. I also like going out and doing stuff - taking a walk, hiking, going to the mall, stuff to take me out of the house. I work from home so I’m stuck in the house all day. Unfortunately i moved to a town where there isn’t a lot to do other than go to the movies, eat, and go to bars :/. I would love to go see some bands playing - if the bands I like ever played anywhere near here. Not sure what else… I hate cold weather. I’m from Hawaii and the coldest it gets there is in the 60’s. The cold just makes me want to stay home where it’s warm. ---
**Author:** ![toepickinobody](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@toepickinobody](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toepickinobody)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/6 "2011-09-08T17:36:23Z")
Thanks for all of your suggestions. Like I said, I originally wanted to use ‘mones’ to attract my husband more. I remembered (vaguely) a tv show that did a test on it. I don’t remember the show, just that they had two people, one with the pheromones and one without, go into a bar and see the responses. Anyway, I figured why not just look into it? So I googled it, found this discussion board and realized that pheromones could do more than just attract the opposite sex. So, a little more about me - I’m not a total homebody, I work at home all day so I look forward to the time I get to leave the house. I like working out, love going to the gym when I can. Don’t we all feel better after a workout? I think what’s hard for me is breaking the ice, especially with a stranger. I see a lot of the same people at the gym, but can’t get over the hump to go over ant talk to them. And no one ever tries to talk to me. I’m not ugly or anything.. so.. I don’t know if i’m just unapproachable or set off a bad vibe? I also like walking around - when we used to live in Hawaii I would walk or take public transportation to most places. I made most friends from work or school, but now all my coworkers and former classmates live very far away (think different states). I like going to event-type things like the fair, or we have something here called jazz on the lawn where the local winery has a band come and all you have to do is buy a bottle of wine and enjoy the music and atmosphere. Love going to shows - comedy, plays, whatever. I’m excited now, from reading the replies (not tooo excited, i don’t want to set myself up for a big disappointment, but i’m looking forward to it). Do you know if alcohol affects the effects? Sorry, i’m not sure what other things you would like to know about me. I did have another question - the to-go sizes, about how many uses can you get out of them? ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2011, 5:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/7 "2011-09-08T17:47:34Z")
> [@toepickinobody](#): > > Thanks for all of your suggestions. Like I said, I originally wanted to use ‘mones’ to attract my husband more. I remembered (vaguely) a tv show that did a test on it. I don’t remember the show, just that they had two people, one with the pheromones and one without, go into a bar and see the responses. Anyway, I figured why not just look into it? So I googled it, found this discussion board and realized that pheromones could do more than just attract the opposite sex. So, a little more about me - I’m not a total homebody, I work at home all day so I look forward to the time I get to leave the house. I like working out, love going to the gym when I can. Don’t we all feel better after a workout? I think what’s hard for me is breaking the ice, especially with a stranger. I see a lot of the same people at the gym, but can’t get over the hump to go over ant talk to them. And no one ever tries to talk to me. I’m not ugly or anything.. so.. I don’t know if i’m just unapproachable or set off a bad vibe? I also like walking around - when we used to live in Hawaii I would walk or take public transportation to most places. I made most friends from work or school, but now all my coworkers and former classmates live very far away (think different states). I like going to event-type things like the fair, or we have something here called jazz on the lawn where the local winery has a band come and all you have to do is buy a bottle of wine and enjoy the music and atmosphere. Love going to shows - comedy, plays, whatever. I’m excited now, from reading the replies (not tooo excited, i don’t want to set myself up for a big disappointment, but i’m looking forward to it). Do you know if alcohol affects the effects? > > Sorry, i’m not sure what other things you would like to know about me. > > I did have another question - the to-go sizes, about how many uses can you get out of them? Hi again, Thats cool that you decided to find the site after seeing a tv show about it.Think its pretty normal to have trouble breaking the ice.Most people tend to have that problem(\>_\<)Hmm,instant openness may help,will make you appear more approachable and people more chatty.Instant shine will improve your vibe to a more positive one also if thats the problem though doubt it.Usually people are worried about talking to other people in the gym because it tends to disturb their workouts.Sounds like you go to a lot of things so you will have a lot of chances to test out the pheromones which should be pretty cool(^_^)haha,you wont get disappointed unless you expect the exaggerated effects from tv and movies.If youve read the link i posted on what pheromones can and cannot do then you will have pretty realistic expectations.If you find your sweet spot and act congruent,they will definitely work for you(^_^)Hmm,alcohol would probably increase or decrease reactions to different pheromones but not 100% sure.It tends to lessen inhibitions though so some pheromones may actually have more of an effect.For the to-go sizes,you get about 40 sprays from them.All the best and hope testing goes well for you.(^_^)Think youve qualified for the gift certificate d so just have to wait a day or two for mickaelia to come and comfirm it and you will be off to your testing(:-p) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2011, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/52252/8 "2011-09-12T00:30:32Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Toepick! You received great advise from the guys and the advise should be confirmed when you get to the female section. I think you shouldn’t let time pass any longer and put your order in. Let us know how well these products work for you. **Your gc was issued! 😉**