# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 4, 2011, 3:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135 "2011-11-04T03:29:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Emily2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@Emily2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Emily2468)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 3:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/1 "2011-11-04T03:29:47Z")
I’m 26, and live in Texas. I work a lot, but take a few classes when I can. Unfortunately, I suffer from depression, I’ve spoken with professionals about this, but they always seem to drop the ball. I’ve decided to take it into my own hands now with exercise, eating better, and trying to put on a “good mood” so to say. It just doesn’t seem to be enough though. I actually came across this site when looking for [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) that could help me get the attention of my boyfriend a little more since things haven’t been going so well there. He used to be so passionate, I’m not really sure what happened. I know he has never been that great of a communicator, so it’s difficult for him to tell me if there is a problem. A short while ago, he came to me and said that he thought it was time that our relationship ended, but then two days later he was all over me again. It really confused me, he said that he was still attracted to me, AND that he has a reason to break up with me, but he still hasn’t been able to tell me why. The instant shine sounds like it may help a little in both areas, and the instant sexiness directed a little more towards him. I plan on ordering a little of each tomorrow. I will post a journal with hits/results, as I may be a good example for others that need help with depression. Sorry for posting my life story, lol, it was kind of nice putting that all down. ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/2 "2011-11-04T03:33:18Z")
Hi Emily, welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)! It’s fine, we all love to hear people life story’s from all walks of life 🙂 IS/b is one of the best products which suits your current needs. You might also want to consider some IShine for that pick-me-up effect. Gives you the happy vibe that should give an impression of bubbliness, You might also want to check out this thread, great to read up; [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) Also you are taking most of the initiative, so you might want to consider having more options in future. Girls deserve more than that 🙂 Cheers Emily! ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 3:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/3 "2011-11-04T03:37:14Z")
Hi there, That must be hard to live with depression.Its good that youve taken your life into your own hands and are trying to improve it though.Thats always a good thing(^_^)Hmm,you may want to get some instant honesty as well for the boyfriend.It will help you both feel a connection with each other again and will make him more comfortable talking to you about stuff.I used it when my relationship went sour and it helped a lot(^_^)Bit weird that he’s attracted and has a reason to break up.If it goes on too long without a reason,you may want to get him to tell you it or end it yourself since youll never know when he will walk out on you.Instant shine is definitely a good one for mood boosting,hopefully your one of the ones who gets the self effects though.I can definitely see it working on others but i dont usually get the effects myself.[Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) will definitely help with your boyfriend to make him see you in an attractive light.Paired with instant honesty,its really good for relationships(^_^)Looking forward to reading your journal since you sound like a really cool person.Dont worry about the long story,it was really interesting.You may want to read the 2 stickies below as they have lots of good information and will help you get the most of your mones when you get them.All the best and hope things go well for you.Catch ya later(^_^) [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) ([Pheromone F A Qs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517)) ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/4 "2011-11-04T04:16:24Z")
Hi Emily and welcome to the forum! I’m glad that you are making an effort to better you’re symptoms of depression. I’m sure you’ve gone through some highs and lows during this time and will continue to do so. Look for support in your family and close friends as this is always a good anchor to have communications about your feelings with others. As to mones, I’d also suggest you look at IH for to use with you SO. In order to find out more from your boyfriend and what how he really sees your relationship and his ‘reason’ for stopping it. But, you’re thoughts on IShine and IS/b are inline with my experience with each. I use IShine regularly and will have a bump in confidence and good feelings toward me from others. I’ve also had the influence of IS/b and it’s very attractive. I can usually tell when my wife is using it! 🙂 Thanks for joining and hope you find the mental peace you want and the discernment to achieve it. > [@Emily2468](#): > > I’m 26, and live in Texas. I work a lot, but take a few classes when I can. Unfortunately, I suffer from depression, I’ve spoken with professionals about this, but they always seem to drop the ball. I’ve decided to take it into my own hands now with exercise, eating better, and trying to put on a “good mood” so to say. > > It just doesn’t seem to be enough though. I actually came across this site when looking for pheromones that could help me get the attention of my boyfriend a little more since things haven’t been going so well there. He used to be so passionate, I’m not really sure what happened. I know he has never been that great of a communicator, so it’s difficult for him to tell me if there is a problem. A short while ago, he came to me and said that he thought it was time that our relationship ended, but then two days later he was all over me again. It really confused me, he said that he was still attracted to me, AND that he has a reason to break up with me, but he still hasn’t been able to tell me why. > > The instant shine sounds like it may help a little in both areas, and the instant sexiness directed a little more towards him. I plan on ordering a little of each tomorrow. I will post a journal with hits/results, as I may be a good example for others that need help with depression. > > Sorry for posting my life story, lol, it was kind of nice putting that all down. ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 6:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/5 "2011-11-04T06:22:12Z")
the world is as big as you imagine. if you think it is as large as the four walls of your room, then it shall only be so.. now if you refuse to chain yourself with limitations of ambition and imagination.. the world will be larger / boundless and so the opportunities on offer. to me it looks like you are focusing narrowly on just one guy.. Agreed he is your boyfriend… but I dont think its that deep a relation since he himself seems to question it… what I would suggest that you do it widen your social activities… spend more time with your other friends… go on nights out if possible… else join some other activities. where you can meet people.. dancing, volunteering of causes you like.. etc. search on internet and no matter how small a town, you will still find enough choices. Instant Sexiness and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) are good mones to appear sexy, feel good about yourself and also attract lots of attention. So try not to focus narrowly on one guy… get into some activity you like and try to meet more people of similar tastes and you will find yourself feeling better with every passing day… once your social focus gets broader even your current guy would no longer slight you.. best wishes. ---
**Author:** ![indarican](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a3d4f5/32.png) [@indarican](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/indarican)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/6 "2011-11-04T14:09:48Z")
WELCOME!!! i hope things get better for you with your depression and your BF. I think IH-Instant honesty may be good. i have yet to try it but according to the people on here it is good for communication. I would definetly try to find out what the reason he has is… it may be eating away at him and effecting his passion and his mood. I hope you find all the help you need here and im sure the veterans will offer all the help they can! ---
**Author:** ![Emily2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@Emily2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Emily2468)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2011, 2:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/7 "2011-11-04T14:59:43Z")
Thank you all for responding, > [@Oasis314](#): > > Hi Emily, welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)! Oasis314: Thank you for the suggestion, I ordered Instant Sexiness B, Instant Shine, and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). > [@looifookmeng](#): > > Hi there, looifookmeng: Thank you, I already read through the first thread, but I will definitely read through the second one sometime today. > [@1Alpha](#): > > Hi Emily and welcome to the forum! 1Alpha: Thank you, from what I’ve read throughout the site, that pairing, as well as instant honesty seem to be recommended a lot. I went ahead and got the three of them. 😃 > [@Aghor](#): > > the world is as big as you imagine. Aghor: Thank you. It’s not that I’m narrowing too much on one guy, I have had interests in others, but I do still want to be with him. He has always questioned himself, and has had problems expressing his feelings and emotions, he said this at the start of our relationship. I think that this is the reason why he thinks we should break up, but I won’t know until he is able to tell me. And if it doesn’t work out, then it doesn’t work out, I just want to try first before I let go. Also, I do have a life outside of him, I don’t spend every waking moment near him, in fact, I’m lucky if I get to see him more than once a week due to school and work. I use my own free time doing things that I like, mainly art. When I get the chance, I may post some pictures up of the things I do to get some critiques. 😃 > [@indarican](#): > > WELCOME!!!.. indarican: Thank you, I know everything will turn out in the end. Again, thank you all for your responses. I ordered this morning, really less than an hour ago, lol. I hope that they will be here tomorrow as I was able to get the over night shipping for free, if not, it will probably be Monday. I’ll start a journal as soon as I receive them. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Emily2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@Emily2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Emily2468)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2011, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/8 "2011-11-06T23:14:32Z")
I am so excited! I will be getting my shipment tomorrow morning, and I will be able to test them out. Unfortunately, I will be working most of the day, but we will see how everything goes. I kept some notes of the past few days without the mones, I guess I can use them as the introductory to my journal. Unfortunately you can’t watch everything that goes on around you, but it should help. 😃 Journal page: [Emily2468's Journal](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/emily2468s-journal/53182) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2011, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/9 "2011-11-08T21:53:58Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Emily! I know you must love your boyfriend but just keep in mind that [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) can’t solve problems and if you get him to stay just for a while if the issue is not addressed as to why he wants to leave then he will try to again. Things happen for a reason, we might not see it right away so if your b/f wants to leave I think you should let him go Use that time to be alone and work on yourself and your depression Trust me , if someone does not want to be in a relationship you are gonna end up carrying more than your weight and this might be worse so just remember this and use your mones but don’t force the issue and use the mones mainly to work on yourself and make you happy _Your gc was issued! 🙂_ ---
**Author:** ![Emily2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/71e660/32.png) [@Emily2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Emily2468)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2011, 4:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53135/10 "2011-11-09T04:25:46Z")
Thank you Mickaelia. I do understand that pheromones are not a cure all. But I do hope that maybe using the instant honesty and instant openness around him will help him to tell me what the problem is. If we can work things out then great! If not, we will both move on and be just as happy. I only want for he and I to both be happy, and in order for both of us to know what it is that will make us happy he will have to be able to understand it himself. I’m not even sure if he really wants to break up with me. Two days after he told me that he thought our relationship was coming to an end, he was all over me again! I told him that he couldn’t play with my emotions like that. We sat for a long time with him trying to tell me what it was that he wanted, and for some reason he was unable to. It’s been two weeks now, I hope that I will be able to talk to him a little this weekend. I’ve been trying not to push him, as I don’t want to force him out of his comfort zone unless it goes on for too long. Also, Thank you for the gc!