# HELLO! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 8, 2011, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221 "2011-11-08T23:29:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dominus\_allcock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bc8723/32.png) [@dominus\_allcock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dominus_allcock)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2011, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221/1 "2011-11-08T23:29:40Z")
Dominus Allcock says “Hello” to all. “PAX VOBISCUM!” ---
**Author:** ![dominus\_allcock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bc8723/32.png) [@dominus\_allcock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dominus_allcock)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2011, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221/2 "2011-11-09T00:00:00Z")
HELLO! to everyone I’m a 41yr.old black male. I am about to see my ex for the first time in two years. I am still very much in love with her and desparetly want her back…i even took dancing lessons hoping that might help. She’s 56. She also thinks that I’m a bit soft. I really want to WOW her. Any suggestions? I’m new to this. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2011, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221/3 "2011-11-09T00:17:19Z")
Hi there and a welcome dominus to the mone forum! Whoa, there… take a deep breath… ok now… one more time… Ok… Looks like some pressure to get the attention from her. You seem to crave it… but, what does ‘soft’ mean, exactly? If you want her to see an edgier you, then do AMMO. It gets me a vibe of sexy man here, with a boost in confidence in self effects. However, if you think she’d be more of a women interested in a ‘bad boy’ vibe, IJ may be even better. I think the ‘bad to the bone’ chemical signal can be very powerful attractant to some women. But, what about your personality and attitude? Would you be able to project either of these vibes to her? She does have a mental view of who ‘you’ are… so, you’ll have to be in sync with the mones signal with your actions. Mones will HIGHLIGHT… YOU, so, your ‘game’ needs be on. They’ll help by silently projecting the vibe of the mone, but you must be present with your actions to back it up…🙂 How’d you find this site BTW? ---
**Author:** ![dominus\_allcock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bc8723/32.png) [@dominus\_allcock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dominus_allcock)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2011, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221/4 "2011-11-09T00:40:47Z")
I’ve been intrested in pheremones for the past 20yrs. I was surfing the web and came across article on instant jerk that peeked my intrest. I’m not soft (aka a wimp) I’m just easy going. I used to be somewhat of an asshole, but as i got older i mellowed out. I dont have any problems with women whatsoever…but now that i think about it i do end up on the friendship bus alot,but then i’m not really looking. I often get ask of i’m gay, i’d like to think of myself as a gentlemen. ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2011, 3:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221/5 "2011-11-09T03:43:27Z")
Hi there Dominus, Thats interesting that your seeing your ex and youve been taking dancing lessons to help.You must love her a lot(^_^)[Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) will help but would depend on how deep the problem that made you break up is.1Alpha has already given you really good advice.Either Ammo or instant jerk would be a good base and would stop her seeing you as soft.If you go for ammo,would get the double strength one though since your older.You might want to get some instant shine to put you both in a good mood and instant honesty to help rebuild the connection that was lost.Theres no worries about being easy going.Thats actually a good personality trait to have(^_^)All the best and hope your meeting with your ex goes well(^\_^) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2011, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/53221/6 "2011-11-11T18:02:18Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Dominus! I think the pheromone suggestions that you were given is great and just might work. I am not quite sure what you are looking for in this relationship but this kind of advice is great for someone looking to get out of the friend zone or score but if you are looking for a ltr this woman should accept you for who you are and you making this drastic change or pretending to is not going to help. I hope these pheromones work to make you more aware of yourself, what you want and make you more confident for you , not for anyone else. _Your gc was issued! 🙂_