Hi Lisa, welcome to Ptalk.com, you might want to read up on some of the stickies in this thread, useful to start out 
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003
Would recommend that you take a look at;
- IS/b - Great for women, sexy vibe
- TUTH - Spice things up, for men
- IShine - Great pick-me up
Cheers Lisa!