# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 29, 2012, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54755 "2012-02-29T16:35:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cato](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9dc877/32.png) [@Cato](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cato)\ **Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54755/1 "2012-02-29T16:35:04Z")
So I guess I’m doing that thing that all of us are supposed to do. But it’s kind of hard, figuring out what to say about myself that won’t be too revealing but will still let you know about me! I hope that I do a good enough job! I’m a female senior at a college in the northeast. I tend to think of myself as pretty outgoing, but a recent breakup hit me pretty hard. I’m having some difficulties getting back into the dating market, and my lack of self-confidence is obvious. I feel like I just need that little extra push that I think [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) could potentially give me. Maybe that’s really silly, but I don’t think so- having read about them, I believe that they could work for me. I’m not looking to start a serious relationship with them right now; I’ve got two months before I graduate, but I’d like to have a little fun first! Let me know what else you’d like for me to talk about to qualify! * * * ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54755/2 "2012-02-29T16:50:14Z")
Hello Cato, welcome to the forum!! To qualify, tell us how you learned about pheromones, and how you found the forum. As for what you should look into: IS/B, which will help give you a sexy vibe. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), which is great for that confidence you are looking for. IO, which helps people open up in conversation. If you are looking for deep conversation, consider IH. Hope this helps! Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 5:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54755/3 "2012-02-29T17:38:19Z")
Hi Cato and welcome to the mone forum. I think you did good with your intro… just enough to let us know something about you, but, still being anonymous enough.🙂 For having a fun time, I’d suggest, a focus on IShine and IO. Both, I think, will give you a bump in confidence, a bit on self confidence as well as the free feeling of just going out there and talking… gabbin’ away with the IO factor. I do think it helps out when you think things will simmer down to an awkward silence. Though, in any event, you will need to be the director of the mone signal. Direct it to what you want it to show, a bright, fun loving, caring gal who wants some fun times! I see that you could also provide some insight on how mones affect women and in your surroundings. The Women’s section is looking for willing posters on how the mones are working out for you! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54755/4 "2012-02-29T21:02:15Z")
Hello Cato! And welcome to the forum! Sorry - pheromones also make you psychic so just from that little hello we know exactly who you are. Just kidding. On both parts. Sorry to hear about the break-up. A lot of people are a little rusty on getting back out there afterwards but you will get back into the swing of it. School is a great place to meet new people - or that good looking guy or girl you have seen in class - and a great place to start experimenting with pheros. I think both guys gave you some good recommendations on products. I think the IS/b, IO and IShine set is prefect for you. IO & IShine together can be a like a party in a bottle. Really two bottles but you know what I mean. Also keep the IH in mind for once you meet a few people and maybe want to get to know them. IH creates feelings of connection and often leads to deep conversations as a result. A neat thing to do would be to run with a 50/50 (fiddy fiddy - sorry - could not pass that one up) mix of IO & IH when you want to get a conversation going with someone in particular. The IO will help get the conversation going and the IH will help take it deeper. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 10:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54755/5 "2012-03-02T10:28:19Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Cato! I know just how you feel. Dating is not the first issue, we just need to get you products that make you feel more sociable and confident. I agree with the guys on Instant openness Shine will make you feel refreshed and give out that youthful vibe that will draw others to you. We do not have is/b in stock right now and I don’t have an eta on when it will be in stock but you should go to my journal and check out MX397 to see if you want to give it a go. _ **Your gc was issued!** _