# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 1, 2012, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771 "2012-03-01T20:58:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dcb611](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/85e7bf/32.png) [@dcb611](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dcb611)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2012, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/1 "2012-03-01T20:58:05Z")
I’m a young 50 year old male from New York. I stumbled on this site when Googling info on ordering Pherlure. I used it 2 years ago when I started dating my girlfriend and really feel like it worked based on the response I got when I wore it from her and other women as well!. To say that we’ve gone through a a rough patch is an understatement, and tensions and animosities have virtually extinguished the attraction she had for me when we started seeing each other. But she’s a good woman who I’d like to settle down with and I’m easier to forgive and forget than she is. Therefore, I’ve been taking the point on patching things up. I figure that some magic in a bottle can’t hurt in terms of breaking down her defensive barriers and to rekindle the intimacy and trust. Now that I’ve discovered this site I would instead like to try the A314 and TUTH. Also being that my profession often has me in the field networking with female clients I was thinking that the Ammunition wouldn’t hurt either. Looking forward to having $25 to start me on my way. Any insight on my intended product selections are welcomed. ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2012, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/2 "2012-03-01T21:11:13Z")
Hi there, Thats cool that you already have some experience using [pheromones](https://a314.com/).Havent tried pherlure but good that it worked for you.Must be difficult to be having a rough patch.Its always hard to rebuild the connection and attraction after that.Good that you are making an effort to keep the relationship together.A314 is a pretty good one for appearing reliable and trustworthy.TUTH can sometime backfire though if your not relationship isn’t that stable at the moment so would use it carefully.(^\_^)Other ones i found that were good for repairing a relationship are instant shine and instant honesty.The instant shine will put her in a good mood which cant hurt and the instant honesty will help her feel a connection and help rebuild the one you lost. Ammunition is definitely a good one too.You can probably go with double strength considering you age.When my relationship was on the rocks,the combination of ammo+instant shine and instant honesty helped me a lot in rebuilding it again.They will just help though.You will still have to work out the underlying issues together.If you manage to though,your relationship will be all the stronger(^\_^)Mickaelia will usually be around after a couple of days after the weekend to issue your gift certificate so would keep an eye out for it.All the best and dont hesitate to ask if theres anything you want to know. ---
**Author:** ![dcb611](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/85e7bf/32.png) [@dcb611](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dcb611)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2012, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/3 "2012-03-01T21:16:21Z")
Thanks for your input. So Ammunition and Instant Shine sound like a good combo. What are your thoughts on substituting [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) for the Instant Honesty? ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2012, 9:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/4 "2012-03-01T21:23:25Z")
> [@dcb611](#): > > Thanks for your input. So Ammunition and Instant Shine sound like a good combo. What about Instant Openness as either an addition, or as a substitute for the Instant Shine? Hmm,instant openness and instant shine are both good.You can use them both together if you like.I tend to use instant openness for things like new meetings or icebreaking and instant honesty for dates and relationships.Instant openness tends to increase the quantity of conversation and can make people talk a lot at high dosages about random things,good for hanging out with friends.Instant honesty tends to cause deeper conversations and a connected feeling.It can sometimes cause people to blurt out things also(\>_\<) Instant shine tends to just be a good addition to keep conversations positive and friendly(^_^) ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2012, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/5 "2012-03-01T21:30:42Z")
> [@dcb611](#): > > Thanks for your input. So Ammunition and Instant Shine sound like a good combo. What are your thoughts on substituting Instant Openness for the Instant Honesty? Up to you,instant openness would get her talking more if thats what your going for but it tends to be not about anything in particular.It kind of increases the quantity more than the quality of conversations. ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2012, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/6 "2012-03-01T21:32:46Z")
This thread might be an interesting read for you also. > [@Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695): > > Myself: Mid-40’s, athletic, married for 20+ years. This post is actually a combination of posts I have made in the Introductions section. It is designed for married guys looking to use the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) here to help things at home. I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home. I use multiple approaches especially for home: First - at this point in our lives we know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So my first recommendation is actually what … ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/7 "2012-03-02T01:27:53Z")
Hello dcb and welcome to the forum. The thread looik gave you is a good one - it is in my signature block too. The easy part - for work - if you are around a lot of women - i would recommend a commbo of A314 & IH or perhaps A314 & [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). A314 & IH is one of my favorite work combos - the A314 gives you the I am The Man vibe and the IH helps generate feelings of connection. OTOH Ammo & A314 gives you a sexy I am The Man vibe. There is another thread in my signature block about that. As far as your girlfriend goes, I would not try to lead with TUTH. It has a very strong sexaul vibe and what you need ot do is repair things emotionally. When you read that thread think more along the lines of leading with IH and IShine. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![dcb611](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/85e7bf/32.png) [@dcb611](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dcb611)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2012, 8:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/54771/8 "2012-03-02T08:47:45Z")
Thanks looik & boss, this us all very helpful and I did read that thread. Looks like the common denominator here is [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) both for personal & work. Will definitely order that along with the Instant Shine, Ammo, & A314.