# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 10, 2007, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482 "2007-09-10T18:21:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bribro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/13edae/32.png) [@bribro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bribro)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2007, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/1 "2007-09-10T18:21:24Z")
Hi, I’m new to the forum and I’m about to make my first purchase. I need some advice. I’m a 23 year old living in the midwest who is looking at pheromones to affect my interactions with women, but especially with 1 woman in particular. I’ve known her for about a year and we have great chemistry already. We flirt with each other, but nothing serious has happened yet as far as a real relationship developing.We have an unspoken interest in each other, but I don’t want to be the one to have to put myself out there(has backfired too many times before with others). I know she’s feeling me and she probably won’t reject me, but I want her to open up to me about her feelings and what she wants from me. But being realistic about it,it seems like she’s waiting on me to say something about “us” because she’s trying to safeguard her heart until she knows for sure that I’m feeling her as well.She doesn’t want to get hurt either.So I’m just looking for something that’s going to enhance the effects of the situation when I talk to her about it. So for someone my age and in this situation, what combination and dosage would you suggest? I’ve been considering A134 ,Instant Shine, and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Your help here is appreciated!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2007, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/2 "2007-09-10T18:50:03Z")
Welcome and good luck with your pursuit. Your shopping list seems great so far, but I’d add Ammo as well if I were you. Have you heard of Oneitus? Just don’t end up with obsessing over one girl if all goes wrong. Very unhealthy. At the age of 23 I’d say 1X of each product. Maybe amp up the honesty to 2 or 3 to really get her to spill her guts. Remember to try each individually before in unison to get an idea of how they work individually. Remember [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) usage cuts both ways they affect you as well. Keep this mind when you use IH, as you can blurb stuff too and accidentally open to her right away if you aren’t careful. ---
**Author:** ![XDragonX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/6f9a4e/32.png) [@XDragonX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XDragonX)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2007, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/3 "2007-09-10T19:51:10Z")
the ammo is not essential and i’d say keep it at a low amount probably around 2 sprays and as for honesty try anywhere from 4-5 and spray on the back of your neck or wherever is far away from your own nose so it doesn’t affect you. good luck ---
**Author:** ![bribro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/13edae/32.png) [@bribro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bribro)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2007, 8:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/4 "2007-09-10T20:36:54Z")
Trust me,I don’t have Oneitis…I’m a very above average looking guy,I have other prospects and I plan to test the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) on other women.I figure the more women who I can make feel attraction for me, the more attractive and desirable I will be amongst women. It’s a win-win situation.Even though I’m highly attracted to this friend (one of the most attractive women I’ve met) who has seemed to have set her sights on me exclusively(she originally sought me out and isn’t linked to anyone else),she’s not the end all.I’ve seemed to have already attracted her without pheromones,but to get her to spill her guts so that we possibly get things rolling,I think she just needs a good wiff of instant honest. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2007, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/5 "2007-09-10T23:03:52Z")
Reads as if maybe both of you need a whiff of instant honesty. You wrote that she has set her sights on you exclusively, sought you out, has made it clear she is single, isn’t she waiting now to know your feelings? I get the impression you’re both waiting for the same thing. Has to be frustrating on each end. Frankly it would be more admirable of you to just address the situation in my opinion. 🙂 Welcome bribro! ---
**Author:** ![bribro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/13edae/32.png) [@bribro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bribro)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2007, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/6 "2007-09-11T00:50:14Z")
Thanks for all of the advice so far. I think you’re right…I should man up and take care of my business instead of expecting her to do.We’re both frusterated waiting for the same thing to happen.So with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/),I think I will probably get a better sense of her feelings if I disclose mine first.That way she can just lead in and tell me what she really feels in a relaxed,relieved way.Plus,like you said,it would be admirable and more respectable if I just did it.Even though she pursued me from the start,she will respect me more and take me more seriously if I just break the ice and show her that I’m more than a flirt. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2007, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/7 "2007-09-11T01:16:12Z")
🙂 Instant honesty and or openness are both excellent products to encourage conversation. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2007, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/5482/8 "2007-09-15T19:50:13Z")
WOW, some serious good advice. Sounds like you got your basics covered already so I’ll just welcome you on behalf of Androtics. Our admin Jasmin will be around again, but in the process I’ll let you know to expect your certificate to be in your email in 24 hours.