# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 19, 2012, 3:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55638 "2012-05-19T15:42:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Semillon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b77776/32.png) [@Semillon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Semillon)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2012, 3:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55638/1 "2012-05-19T15:42:30Z")
Hi there. I’m a new male user from the UK, in my early 40s. I’ve been delaying joining the site while I looked around, and now I am convinced as I can be that it is genuine. I have never had success with women, despite loving them and their company. I’m afraid that despite holding some of the qualities that should be attractive - tall, intelligent, reasonably successful academically and in career - I have just never had confidence when it comes to initiating things. I guess feeling unattractive has to transmit itself in some way, even unconsciously, to the opposite sex, and the cliche that women aren’t attracted to men who don’t have confidence in themselves has been self-fulfilling in my case. I also know that an apparent reluctance to approach someone can make one seem aloof and uninterested, but that doesn’t make it any easier to break the habit! I have always thought that things would be easier if only more women would initiate things with me, and I suppose I am hoping that some genuine [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) might help in this regard. Who knows, they may work. I’m not getting any younger and I’ve nothing to lose except some hard-earned money - and if they _do_ work, they would be very cheap at the price. I also have a relatively recent disability that affects my mobility (and income!), which doesn’t help matters. So there you have it. In some respects I am an almost perfect guinea pig, because I am essentially starting from a zero base. If your products work for me, they’ll probably work for anyone… Thanks for taking the time to read this. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2012, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55638/2 "2012-05-19T16:11:55Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Semillion. 🙂 As you are in your 40s, the range of pheros and doses you can make use of is wide-open, so how about a bit more info on the situations you hope to improve with pheros? Also, as another disabled person, I can attest that pheros are still very useful but you still need to be able to back them up with behaviour appropriate to the signal they send. Hopefully surgery later this year will restore a lot of my mivement and I’m looking forward to getting back to some of the truly wild times I had before I was stricken! 😉 Turning to pheros was also the icing on the cake as far as I’m concerned, after a long spell of recovery and self improvement after the end of an LTR - They helped everything else fall into place and work reliably. You may notice that delivery to the UK costs an arm and a leg - but despite this, it is worth it. AD’s DHL service is by far the best and fastest of any phero supplier I’ve used and that includes both UK and EU-based firms, so it is worth it. I’ve also never been hit with hefty customs fees on any order from AD - Which is more than I can say for other US-sellers. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2012, 5:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55638/3 "2012-05-19T17:08:30Z")
Hey there and welcome! For sexual attraction I recommend [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). It is a sexually attracting mix but with some steering mones to make it more social, so you can wear it almost anywhere 🙂 IS is a great component in a sexual mix too as it gives off a fun youthful playful vibe that people just love to be around. It can put people in a better mood including yourself, and is just great in social situation all around. Let us know how things go! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2012, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55638/4 "2012-05-19T19:26:06Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. The first thing I want to make sure you understand is that these products do not work like an Axe commmercial or in an Oceans movie. Nor will they necessarily make women initiate contact. But they might help them be more receptive to your advances. There is a thread in my signature block that talks about what pheros can and cannot do. Make sure you read it a couple times to make sure you have realistic expectations. Other than that what I usually recommend for shy guys is Ammo, IShine and IO. Empath has already tell told you about Ammo and Ishine. IO helps you with those intial chatty conversations. Once you figure out the dose of each that works best for you, you will be able to combine these products into a winning mix. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2012, 4:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55638/5 "2012-05-23T16:15:38Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Semillon, Your introduction was very honest and I do believe we have the right products to start you of. I am not sure if you ordered already because am super late in replying to this thread but I definitely agree that Ammo, Shine and IO that has brought amazing results to many before you will do the same for you. _ **Your gc was issued!** _