# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 21, 2012, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654 "2012-05-21T14:50:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bobbie20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f08c70/32.png) [@Bobbie20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobbie20)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2012, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654/1 "2012-05-21T14:50:13Z")
Hi, I’m a single female from Northern California who recently turned 40..ugh!!! What led me here is I was looking online for perfume samples…which led me to an article about phermones. I found it really interesting. I am an attractive woman but my whole life I have been lacking in the relationship department. I just don’t get approached that much by men and I’m really shy. I have three best friends and 2 of them are constantly…and I mean constantly getting hit on and propositioned by men and sometimes even women and I always wondered why. Especially since I happen to think I am pretty attractive and my 3rd friend is beautiful and yet they get hit on sooooo much more than we do. After researching I have come to the conclusion that they must produce a lot more phermones than we do. Anyways, I’m tired of being single and ignored by the opposite sex and excited to have discovered what you all have know for a while… ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2012, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654/2 "2012-05-21T19:07:55Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Nothing wrong with turning 40 at all! and you may as well be positive about it as there is nothing you can do about it. As far as getting you some more male attraction, that is something we might be able to help with. There are a couple female products - TAL and TAH - that could help. see if they are in stock. For the best advice on how to use either of these products I would PM Tisha23 or Bella. they are very experienced users wh are always happy to help give advice. After that you have the social products which can help make you more approachable. IO helps with those initial conversations. IShine helps the people around you feel happy to be near you. IH helps people feel commected to you and trust you. This often leads to deeper conversations. IO & IShine together make for a very fun vibe. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2012, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654/3 "2012-05-21T21:28:58Z")
Hey Bobbie20, thats some good advice from bosshank! But I wanted to also comment that there might be something your friends are doing that make them more inviting and approachable. Its that little bit of feminine vulnerability and little actions that suggest your available that makes a big difference. Also the more fun loving and warmth you project the more those around you will want to reciprocate. 🙂 [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would also be something great to look at when it comes back into stock. But I’m all for anything that improves your approachability so definitely check out either of the socials such as IO or IH then team it up with some IS. Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Bobbie20](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f08c70/32.png) [@Bobbie20](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobbie20)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2012, 8:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654/4 "2012-05-22T08:09:13Z")
Thanks Bosshank and Twisted!!! I really liked what I read about [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) so I ordered that and it should be here today…can’t wait to try it, I don’t think I have ever been so anxious to see the ups truck. I’m definitely gonna take your advice and order some IO and IH TAL and TAH. I ordered some Desire Me from Steve’s site and I can’t wait to try it. Actually I wanna try everything…I can already see I am gonna be paying some big bucks to start my pheromone collection 🙂 Twisted, you are so right, my 2 friends that get hit on all the time are super confident, friendly and happy most of the time, things that make them very approachable…it’s interesting and sometimes pretty funny to watch them get hit on. I’m lacking in the confidence part 🙂 I don’t think I project a fun loving warmth like they do. I am expecting pheromones to help with that. As soon as my pheromones get here I’m gonna start a journal…can’t wait. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2012, 8:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654/5 "2012-05-22T08:45:30Z")
Personally I find someone who takes initiative very attractive and the fact that you would try something different like being here. Showcase who you are to someone who can appreciate these little things and I’m sure you’ll find what your looking for! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2012, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/55654/6 "2012-05-24T16:34:46Z")
Welcome Bobbie, I noticed that you already placed an order and I know you got products like sexiness so you are covered. Right now for more advise and to share your experiences please pop into the female section. I hope you have fun and come back soon. _ **Your gc was issued!** _