Hi there!
First of all, I recommend some reading. Especially here:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
you’ll find instructions how to write an introduction that qualifies for the Gift Certificate. We’ll need some more info on your personality, social background, goals, strengths, difficulties etc. At the moment, we don’t even know whether you are a woman or a man, or age, so hard to recommend any products…
After you’ve read that, proceed to read all the “sticky” threads you can find on the forum, particularly in both Men’s and Women’s sections. All answers you can possibly have at this stage are already brilliantly answered there.
Now, do the homework and start this adventure 
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