# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 6, 2012, 5:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/57479 "2012-12-06T05:05:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ron003](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9fc348/32.png) [@Ron003](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ron003)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2012, 5:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/57479/1 "2012-12-06T05:05:31Z")
Hello everyone I am a complete newb when it comes to pheromone. I’m 37 years old I am from northwest Alabama and male. I am not a real outgoing person pretty shy actually. I have ha a weight problem my whole life, and have recently lost 140 lbs. My confidence level has risen some but I have only really been in a relationship with 2 women and most people wouldn’t even call those relationships. The reason I am here is because I have recently been dating a very beautiful woman roughly my same age. We had been going out for almost 3 months and she sends me a text stating that she has no chemistry with me and that she wanted to have some with me desperately but it just wasn’t there. We got along great we talk for 6-12 hours on dates with no awkward silent moments even our first was 6+ hours and all we did was go eat and talk. We recently talked and she said chemistry is caused by [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and she doesnt get any from me and she wanted to really bad I talked her into still hanging out with me and if they did develop to still give me a chance. She said I was attractive, fun, and always had a great time with me but with no chemistry there was no shot. I am asking with the right pheromones do you believe I could change her mind or have I waited too long. She is really important to me she is the longest and most meaniful relationship I have been in and I truly LOVE her. Any help or advice is truly appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2012, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/57479/2 "2012-12-06T13:14:58Z")
Hi Ron, welcome to the mone forum. I can see why the long face. If you have good, steady conversations that are intimate, she and you are comfortable together, I would likely suggest AMMO and possibly, IShine. AMMO gets me a sexy confident male vibe that puts out some lovin’ feelings. I can see this with IShine, which is a comforting vibe that gives the sexy feelings of AMMO, a good times vibe to it. You could also do the Summer Edition AMMO which is purported to have TAA, the main mone of IShine along with [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/). It’s a very similar vibe to AMMO with IShine together. So, the SE AMMO you could get along with that, IH, then. This will underscore that intimate talk that she can confide in you. You’ll have to lead it to soulmate territory, feelings, but, hey, it does seem to be that you’re doing things right as you’ve been together for 3 months already. The mones may be that Kick that you both need. You could also look at TUTH to see if the issue is having a TRULY sex vibe that is missing. Sometimes, guys are TOO nice for some gals and need to feel that intensity. 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2012, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/57479/3 "2012-12-11T14:43:28Z")
Welcome Ron, That is a really hurtful place to be in with a person you really love. A friend of mine is going through the same situation where she really wants to be with this man but there is no spark and she tries. She loves everything about him and doesn’t want to end up cheating or treating him badly so she had to be honest. What I suggest is that you don’t try to push it or even think that there might be a chance I want you to use the products to enhance yourself and to make yourself confident, maybe even go on a few dates other than her When that confidence , skill and maybe raw sex appeal that she is not feeling develops it would be easier to get her. Good luck! **Your gc was issued!**