# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 31, 2013, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602 "2013-03-31T12:32:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rawrin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/278dde/32.png) [@rawrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rawrin)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/1 "2013-03-31T12:32:45Z")
Hey everyone what would be a good [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) mix for a shy person? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/2 "2013-03-31T15:58:16Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk. 🙂 In order to help us give a better answer, can you tell us a bit more about yourself, your age, situation, what you are hoping from phero use and your opportunities to use them. This all had bearing and it will also earn you the GC. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/3 "2013-03-31T17:51:58Z")
Hello, welcome to the forum! [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are not all the same, and can be used to many different purposes and goals. Knowing more about you will help us make educated suggestions as to products that would be a good fit. When you have answered the questions that mobocaster mentioned, we will gladly make suggestions. Thanks for joining the forum! ---
**Author:** ![rawrin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/278dde/32.png) [@rawrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rawrin)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2013, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/4 "2013-03-31T19:11:10Z")
Im a 25 year old male from FL, Like I’ve stated I can be shy so I’m kinda intrigued at the variety of pheromones available for different uses. I’m mostly looking for an everyday thing to attract girls and to make more friends with ease. The Alpha A314 interest me because I do want to get an alpha male sense and respect from people that would DEFINITELY build some confidence in me. I’m also looking at the [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) to soften up the Alpha A314 so I can be more approachable because like I’ve said I can be shy and usually don’t go out of my way to open a conversation with new people unless I’ve had a few drinks. Would the alpha a314 and the instant openness be a good combo for what I’ve described? ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2013, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/5 "2013-04-01T09:32:20Z")
I think you’ve done some reading on the forum. It sounds like you know pretty much what you want already. A314 is a phero mix that increases social status and authority, and it can come across pretty strong and serious, especially in young men. If you pair it with Instant Openness, as you have described, the IO will soften the serious vibe and make you seem more open and approachable. It works well together. Another choice is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It is comparable to A314 in that it displays a strong, smooth, confident male without the sexy edge that AMMO gives. It works well for younger men because it does not have that serious component that makes A314 a little tricky. Instant Shine is a great product for smoothing out the rough edges and helping get to know others. It lends the wearer an aura of youthful vigor and health, and ramps up the fun and laughter. It can heighten the mood and often makes the wearer feel like the center of attention in a group. This is one of my very favorites! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2013, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/6 "2013-04-03T15:38:23Z")
> [@rawrin](#): > > Would the alpha a314 and the instant openness be a good combo for what I’ve described? No - Go and re-read the A314 store page. You will see that IO is the product advised to tone down the A314 vibe, which is something it does very effectively. Using both together is pretty much a waste of both products IME. Use less A314 or IG if you want a more sociable/approachable effect. Although I have to say that A314 on a shy guy is very apt to fail completely as its status can come-off as standoffish or remote, which does not help approachability. If you are wanting a nol that will complement A314 superbly, I would suggest IH, or IH/[Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) together which IME gives a far better quality happy conversation vibe without damaging A314 nearly as much. ---
**Author:** ![rawrin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/278dde/32.png) [@rawrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rawrin)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2013, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/7 "2013-04-08T10:12:34Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > No - Go and re-read the A314 store page. You will see that IO is the product advised to tone down the A314 vibe, which is something it does very effectively. > > Using both together is pretty much a waste of both products IME. Use less A314 or IG if you want a more sociable/approachable effect. Although I have to say that A314 on a shy guy is very apt to fail completely as its status can come-off as standoffish or remote, which does not help approachability. > > If you are wanting a nol that will complement A314 superbly, I would suggest IH, or IH/Instant Shine together which IME gives a far better quality happy conversation vibe without damaging A314 nearly as much. Ok I’ll skip on a314 and get IH/Instant shine and see how it goes. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2013, 3:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/58602/8 "2013-04-09T15:24:15Z")
Welcome Raw, I am glad my team was able to assist you and I am sure that you are working your way to a less shy you right now. Your gc was issued!