# Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 11, 2013, 11:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/59989 "2013-09-11T11:50:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![Treispeace85](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/85f322/32.png) [@Treispeace85](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Treispeace85)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2013, 3:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/59989/3 "2013-09-11T15:14:26Z")
Hi! Thanks for the advice! I just ordered instant sexiness b and instant honesty so I’m excited to try it out! Ill definitely try the p74 next! I’m going to find a thread in my bookmarks to help you get enough information to decide. Now, in the putative line, [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) might be just right for getting shy men to open up. However, I’d like to see you try Instant Sexiness first. One version (A) is heavy in TAL and the other in TAH (Sexiness B). They are very different in how they affect you and others. Read up a bit and tell us what you think please. 🙂 > [@Fellas, what would make you become a "Deer in Headlights"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/fellas-what-would-make-you-become-a-deer-in-headlights/54868/14): > > I think perhaps its your understanding of what Alpha is that may be adding to the TAH vibe you naturally emit. Alpha doesn’t mean aggressive physically or sexually for either gender. Alpha men can be aggressive when the situation calls for them to be so. Alpha females can be sexual when the situation calls for it but its not what makes the Alpha. Britney Spears and those who give off that Lolita vibe are not TAL women and not Alphas. If you want to appear more mature to this man then let go o… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/59989)._