# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 2, 2013, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415 "2013-11-02T18:40:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/1 "2013-11-02T18:40:52Z")
Hi, I just want to introduce myself. My name is Michelle , I’m 47 from New England. I have been using/ trying different [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for about 3 years now. I’m getting more interested in some of the aspects you all here are writing about. I just received my first order from here yesterday and had some very interesting results…I’m thinking of keeping a journal like I’ve seen some of the other women do, reading them has been helpful to me! There is so. Uh to read here, I should get to it!! Thanks for having this! ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 6:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/2 "2013-11-02T18:53:08Z")
After looking thru some other intros…I will add some stuff about me and what I’m hoping to achieve with pheromones. I’m divorced, so I am looking to meet someone appropriate for a relationship, not a fling. I like smart, funny men. I work in a museum running the visitor service, and public programs…I am also in charge of the volunteers. So needless to say, I work with people and the public daily. I am what I call an extroverted introvert. I am by nature shy, but learned long ago how to over come my shyness. Most people see me as very out going, and I am, but it can be harder some days than others. And if I dont have anyone around to be " on" for, I am just fine with that. I like being alone. Being single, I’m pretty independent, but I am trying to be softer and more feminine. I’m funny, and yes I know sometimes I use humor as a shield. I have a very hard time approaching men I am attracted to, I rely on my wit and friendliness, but try to be their friends rather than become a romantic interest… My recent order was for ISb, IH, tuth and I got a cool added bonus of p130. Suggestions needed and appreciated! ---
**Author:** ![rolandcubed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rolandcubed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rolandcubed)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/3 "2013-11-02T19:47:52Z")
Hi Mmj2013 and welcome to the forums! Well that’s really great you already ordered some stuff. I was going to suggest IS/b when I saw that you said you wanted to be softer and more feminine. Compared to it’s counterpart A, it is definitely the softer one. Be sure to do some sweet spot testing to find how much is the right amount for you. It’ll will help you use your pheromones most efficiently > [@How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1): > > Lately I have been getting a lot of calls from guys and gals unsure what the forum members mean when we say “sweet spot.”:stuck\_out\_tongue: Here’s a very simple way to find your individual sweet spot for each consumer line product like: Ishine IH IO AMMO A314 TUTH and so on. It’s very easy to do and I hope this guide offers you the assistance you need. When applying the pheromones, please ensure that you are using only one (1) [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) at a time. This step is extremely importan… If you have any questions please feel free to ask ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2013, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/4 "2013-11-03T03:55:35Z")
Hello and welcome to the forums! You made some pretty good choices with your first order, it’s exactly what I would have recommended so right on! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2013, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/5 "2013-11-03T05:30:47Z")
Thanks. I made the mistake of wearing three together yesterday instead of trying one at a time in different amounts over time…so now I don’t know which ones caused the results I got yesterday. I guess it’s time to be more scientific! ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2013, 8:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/6 "2013-11-03T08:27:01Z")
> [@Mmj2013](#): > > Thanks. I made the mistake of wearing three together yesterday instead of trying one at a time in different amounts over time…so now I don’t know which ones caused the results I got yesterday. I guess it’s time to be more scientific! Yeah you defnitely want to try them one at a time. I like to wear something by itself multiple times in similar settings to gauge it’s effectiveness and results. Then you want to tweak with the number of sprays too. ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2013, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/60415/7 "2013-11-03T18:13:39Z")
That’ll be easy to do at work…same people, same setting…thanks!