# Hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 16, 2014, 9:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401 "2014-03-16T09:54:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mamba66](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@mamba66](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mamba66)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 9:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401/1 "2014-03-16T09:54:36Z")
Hello, Id like to introduce myself my name is Joe, I’m a recently divorced man in his late 40’s and i’m looking to get back into the dating stream. I don’t know much about [pheromones](https://a314.com/), so i’m excited to learn and test. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 1:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401/2 "2014-03-16T13:39:09Z")
Welcome Joe. In order to get you better advice and to earn you the GC, can you tell us a little more about yourself, your personality, the sort of women you are interested in dating and your range of places/situations you might want to use pheros. This all helps. 🙂 However, in your 40s, you may want to look into the more high-status/overt sexual formulas as women roughly co-aged with you (thirties-up) tend to go for these a lot better than the lighter social/playful mixes that younger women prefer - Although you do get exceptions. 🙂 Start reading about A314, TUTH, IJ, IH and IS 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mamba66](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@mamba66](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mamba66)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2014, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401/3 "2014-03-19T09:46:17Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Welcome Joe. > > In order to get you better advice and to earn you the GC, can you tell us a little more about yourself, your personality, the sort of women you are interested in dating and your range of places/situations you might want to use pheros. This all helps. 🙂 > > However, in your 40s, you may want to look into the more high-status/overt sexual formulas as women roughly co-aged with you (thirties-up) tend to go for these a lot better than the lighter social/playful mixes that younger women prefer - Although you do get exceptions. 🙂 > > Start reading about A314, TUTH, IJ, IH and IS 🙂 Thanks for the response, Well to start off a little about myself I’m sort of shy. Now I do let loose in social situations but im not really the type to make the first move. Id like to use pheros at the gym, the office or even maybe a bar. At this point i dont really have a type of women in mind. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2014, 11:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401/4 "2014-03-19T11:45:42Z")
OK, if you tend to be a bit shy, its maybe best to avoid the more overt sexual and high status formulas till you have done some work on that in other ways. They can appear creepy or standoffish on a reticent guy. Something that enhances you approachability, and is more balanced sexy/social/masculine would be a better start. A314/IH/IS together is a great mature but sociable status combo, with a lot of attractive qualities. Similarly, IG/IO is a more social/smart pairing. Either of these can be effectively sexualised with some Ammo or a small amount of TUTH as needed. Ammo itself is a good general product, also Ammo/IO - chatty/approchable, Ammo/IG - smart/social/sexy. At 44, I’d probably suggest you go with the 2x versions of Ammo and TUTH as you can use Androstenone more effectively at your age and similar aged wome tend to be more comfortable with more Androstenone in a mix compared to youngsters, the FF22/[World Edition](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/world-edition/) scent is a good adult choice for Ammo. Its not as in your face/“clean” as the more youthful FF21/Standard scent Saying that, it is also good to find your effective dose with the 1x product and then go up in strength if the dose works out. If you can let-go in party situations, MX297 is a very useful one - it thrives on sociability and social engagement but again it is not going to do well on a quiet/stoic guy. It is also good moderation and a simple MX297/TUTH combo has done me very well in good time situations for years now - but don’t wear it to work unless you are an entertainer or similar and not when just hanging out. 🙂 If you are getting more than about four products, the Newbies kit is a good choice as it covers the main consumer products at a healthy discount and you can use your GC/Signup bonus towards it too. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mamba66](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@mamba66](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mamba66)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2014, 5:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401/5 "2014-03-19T17:55:42Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > OK, if you tend to be a bit shy, its maybe best to avoid the more overt sexual and high status formulas till you have done some work on that in other ways. They can appear creepy or standoffish on a reticent guy. > > Something that enhances you approachability, and is more balanced sexy/social/masculine would be a better start. > > A314/IH/IS together is a great mature but sociable status combo, with a lot of attractive qualities. Similarly, IG/IO is a more social/smart pairing. Either of these can be effectively sexualised with some Ammo or a small amount of TUTH as needed. > > Ammo itself is a good general product, also Ammo/IO - chatty/approchable, Ammo/IG - smart/social/sexy. > > At 44, I’d probably suggest you go with the 2x versions of Ammo and TUTH as you can use Androstenone more effectively at your age and similar aged wome tend to be more comfortable with more Androstenone in a mix compared to youngsters, the FF22/World Edition scent is a good adult choice for Ammo. Its not as in your face/“clean” as the more youthful FF21/Standard scent Saying that, it is also good to find your effective dose with the 1x product and then go up in strength if the dose works out. > > If you can let-go in party situations, MX297 is a very useful one - it thrives on sociability and social engagement but again it is not going to do well on a quiet/stoic guy. It is also good moderation and a simple MX297/TUTH combo has done me very well in good time situations for years now - but don’t wear it to work unless you are an entertainer or similar and not when just hanging out. 🙂 > > If you are getting more than about four products, the Newbies kit is a good choice as it covers the main consumer products at a healthy discount and you can use your GC/Signup bonus towards it too. 🙂 thanks for that very useful and insightful information. Now I will look at said products and decide which to get thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2014, 10:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello/61401/6 "2014-03-19T22:05:07Z")
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