# hellooo **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 9, 2009, 9:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435 "2009-08-09T09:49:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rebel\_ins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/90ced4/32.png) [@rebel\_ins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rebel_ins)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 9:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435/1 "2009-08-09T09:49:40Z")
hi. im 21 male and have a girlfriend of 4 years. i am interested in “ice breakers” because i go to a lot of bars with my friends as the designated driver and sit around bored. i figure this way i can talk to people without needing to be drunk to loosen myself up. ive snooped around a little and figured if i had some real questions it would be best to register. thanks! im an asian male. i feel as if i dress relatively well but never really nice. im not the most attractive person so i know my looks arent going to be the first thing people are going to notice. “[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)” Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - does that mean men should buy and use it? im also looking to buy alpha a314. any recommendations? update: i dont think i put enough in when i first posted after looking around ---
**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435/2 "2009-08-09T10:09:03Z")
Are you the only one with a car or licence, Rebel? Pick straws once in a while. Whoever pulls the short one doesn’t drink and drives everyone that night. As for icebreakers, it depends on how large you want your hammer. LOL! If you want to chip the ice, go for [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). If you want strangers to really talk to you, respect you, maybe even hate you, go for Instant Jerk. That will get them talking about you and to you. Musk ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435/3 "2009-08-09T10:09:07Z")
> [@rebel\_ins](#): > > hi. im 21 male and have a girlfriend of 4 years. i am interested in “ice breakers” because i go to a lot of bars with my friends as the designated driver and sit around bored. i figure this way i can talk to people without needing to be drunk to loosen myself up. ive snooped around a little and figured if i had some real questions it would be best to register. thanks! Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Well I suggest you look at either IO or IH. Both re ice breakers but IH is more deep meaningful conversation as opposed to IO which is light attractive fun open. People tend to tell you some interesting info when they are exposed to IH as well. They share more about themselves. You could always get a to-go bottle of both with your $25 GC when it comes and see which one you have the most fun with. Now to qualify for your GC you need to provide a bit more information. Check out the “how do I get GC” link in the stickies at the top of the intro section for more information on what you need to post. Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435/4 "2009-08-09T10:09:29Z")
Welcome Rebel! One word: Spaceland, read about it in [the mens guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)😉 Instant Openness and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) would be good for you also. ---
**Author:** ![rebel\_ins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/90ced4/32.png) [@rebel\_ins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rebel_ins)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 10:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435/5 "2009-08-09T10:17:51Z")
> [@MuskCloud](#): > > Are you the only one with a car or licence, Rebel? Pick straws once in a while. Whoever pulls the short one doesn’t drink and drives everyone that night. > > As for icebreakers, it depends on how large you want your hammer. LOL! If you want to chip the ice, go for Instant Openness. If you want strangers to really talk to you, respect you, maybe even hate you, go for Instant Jerk. > > That will get them talking about you and to you. > > Musk im not a drinker in general so i dont mind dd’ing but it does get boring when everyone else is wasted haha. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2009, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooo/31435/6 "2009-08-10T20:01:08Z")
Hello and welcome friend 🙂 I will agree that you should try the socials like IO and IH and Spaceland too. You might also consider CTTM which is a combo of IO and IH. Get yourself some Ishine as well. There is never enough of a good thing and spaceland combined with Ishine and CTTM is like a walking party. I’ll be issuing your GC to your email in just a short while 🙂