# Hellooooo!!! Pheromones for Spicing Up Long Term Lovers. F/44/England **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 8, 2015, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923 "2015-09-08T22:13:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ladybee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecb155/32.png) [@Ladybee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladybee)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2015, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/1 "2015-09-08T22:13:23Z")
HI there, just about managed to find out how to lay down a post, couldn’t work it out for a while. Anyway, Hi all, I’m a pheromone ‘user’, by that I mean I know I am deeply affected by [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and this is why I joined the forum. There’s another good reason and its that I want help with my long term relationship…ie I want to keep it exciting and special, even though my guy and I have been together nearly 20 years. Soooooo, the question is, what pheromones are good for long term lovers, wanting to spice things up a little and to keep the fun in the relationship despite the various issues of aging and changing hormones…we are both in our mid/late 40s. Don’t get me wrong, we’re still young at heart for sure, but there is a definite leveling off of desire and attraction, we know each other so well, it is a little same-same some of the time. Really looking forward to some interesting opinions and advice about what might be fun to try, so anyone … thoughts please! ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2015, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/2 "2015-09-08T23:24:09Z")
Welcome to the forum Lady, I’m still fairly new but think almost any of the products will give you differences, especially if you guys have been together so long an know each other so well. However, if you are looking to spice things up in the bedroom I hear good things about TAC recently, TUTH as well to get the motor going…but the gents customarily wear that to affect us. I’ve used in an uninformed way and kept apparently distracting someone in a forum…its best for bedroom use only TUTH. For you, if you were looking to get a little “vavavavoom”; going…I’d suggest IS/A or IS/B for a sexy bit of “devil may care”. As you try other mones you may find you are like teenagers again sort of starting fresh…but I’d say try them for yourself… The gift cert you’ll get should make your first product probably almost free…and then there’s the money back guarantee, so you’re not losing out on much…what have you got to lose? (yeah I know that sounds like a cheesy sales line, but I don’t work for AD) the mones affect ppl differently so you do just have to try them. Also, please do join us in the women’s forum and kick around the site a bit. We’ll look forward to reading about your results!!! Welcome again. ---
**Author:** ![Ladybee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecb155/32.png) [@Ladybee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladybee)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2015, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/3 "2015-09-08T23:50:38Z")
Thanks, Lillian, nice to hear from you and to hear your thoughts. A bit of teenagey-ness would be pretty fun I reckon, we met later in life n had kids pretty quick so never really had that rush of teenage giddy excitement. (Good hot sex in the first ten years though, just worn off a little in the last 8!) Would be ace to have a wee buzz of it, even if only temporarily!! Gotto say, I was slightly shy of this forum, thinking it might really be about quite slimy people just trying to get people into bed, but from reading journals and threads, there’s some real interesting life experiments going on that aren’t sex crazed at all, more people-interest. I’m intrigued. ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/4 "2015-09-09T00:09:33Z")
> [@Ladybee](#): > > Gotto say, I was slightly shy of this forum, thinking it might really be about quite slimy people just trying to get people into bed, but from reading journals and threads, there’s some real interesting life experiments going on that aren’t sex crazed at all, more people-interest. I’m intrigued. We are real people who just want to be happy/happier. I think as with anywhere you can get the shady sort, but I’ve been very thankful and very happy to be a part of the forums here. We each get something out of it, but we also give as well, whether we post appropriately about it or not. If I meet you on the street and I smile, you usually smile back unless I’m acting creepy or crazy…(it may sound hippy) but its nice to share good vibes. For others, myself included, mones help us to get out of our shell and out into the world more…I used to hate socializing and find I kind of enjoy it now…but that’s just my experience. Civility is a forum requirement here, like being a guest in anyone’s house, so that makes it easy. Some of these threads will help you get started here. [House Rules](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/simple-forum-rules-etiquette-66395.htm) [some serious studies](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/pheromone-theory/48) Q&As [Application points](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/application-points-101/53343) [What pheromones can and can’t do](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) [Some combinations for you to try](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittens-curious-combos/6017) these are just a few that may help you get started. People are rather nice here, so if you could use an assist…simply ask. I’ve noticed if people don’t know they usually direct you to someone who does. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/5 "2015-09-09T04:04:17Z")
Hi ladybee. Welcome to the forum. I throughly agree with what Lillian said. TAC TUTH [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) all products listed are for your listed requirements. Welcome again. Keep posting and take care ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 4:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/6 "2015-09-09T16:06:12Z")
Hello Ladybee! Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 Go straight with the Vanilia cops then. 😃 You can also try the Puppy Love for women. 🙂 Let me know if you re interested so that I can send you the link. But do get the IFW along the way. Do not discount the power of socials in keeping a long term relationship’s fire blazing. Also, IFW contains the ISexiness duo. I’ll back the TAC up too! 🙂 Dropped your GC into your email by the way. It’s ready for use. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ====== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hellooooo, newbie here!!!”** to **“Hellooooo!!! Pheromones for Spicing Up Long Term Lovers. F/44/England”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2015, 9:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/7 "2015-09-17T21:59:16Z")
Hi ladybee, I suggest wearing IS/A or IS/B depending on your personality B is the softer version. To wear for him I suggest these. I think IS or [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) might work for you both to. It gives off a happy youthful playful vibe. This works great for my wife and I and she wears it to as it affects us both. Do you plan on getting him into the pheromones? I wasn’t going to tell my wife but I did and I buy her some products to and it really has helped out a lot now we both use them. I suggest starting with the instant lines and going from there the ones that help me and my wife out the most are for me TUTH, P74, P96, IS, TAC, and P103 My wife is still experimenting but P74, P96, and IS Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2015, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hellooooo-pheromones-for-spicing-up-long-term-lovers-f-44-england/64923/8 "2015-09-17T22:29:44Z")
Justintime raises a good point. I spray IS on my boyfriend’s pillow case and I will be ordering some mones for him also…he’s not quite into the details or the science of pheromones, but will spray on what I suggest to him and he’s been quite happy.