# Helloooooooo PheroTalk **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 3, 2010, 6:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697 "2010-03-03T06:18:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![FuturePharmD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47c2d/32.png) [@FuturePharmD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FuturePharmD)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 6:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/1 "2010-03-03T06:18:24Z")
Just introducing myself. So first off, my name is Erick, I am 18 years old of Asian descent (Filipino/Chinese) and I go to St. Johns University to be a future legal drug dealer. AKA, a pharmacist. Okay okay, lame joke haha, I guess that’s only funny to pharmacists. Anyways, because of classes, it’s really hard to be social, but whenever I can i try to put myself out there (to girls), but the problem is, I have a big emotional scar. My ex girlfriend really left a big hole in my heart. And because of the failing of that relationship (she was my first girlfriend, first love, and we were together for more than 2 years) I have a really hard time talking to girls. Well, let me think of a better way of rephrasing that. I have a hard time talking to girls to get to the NEXT level. You see, I’m the typical “nice guy” to them. The guy they say they wished the would find, the guy that they want to be in a long term relationship with; I’M RIGHT HERE goshdarnit. Sigh. But I can never seem to bring my confidence out enough to say “hey, if you really wanna go out with someone like me, I’m right here” and it irks me every. single. time. That’s when a friend of mine recommended for me to look at this forum. He’s kind of a player (he uses [pheromones](https://a314.com/) for the Dark Side [yay for Star Wars references, yes, I am a total nerd]). But I am glad he steered me into this site, I’ve been reading up on the forums and I’m quite excited to see if there are any results (but I am gonna be honest, I’m kind of a skeptic, sorry, but time and results will tell if I’ll change my views on pheromones). Speaking of nerdiness. Yes, I am a “typical” nerd. I put typical in quotes because I’m a nerd on the inside but on the outside I am quite handsome (hopefully I didn’t come off as conceited with that statement) or so I’ve heard. I guess what I’m looking for in pheromones are just to have self confidence (I have heard that pheromones has some self effecting attributes too, and not just to others). Be able to open up to girls more, and vice versa so they see that I CAN be the perfect guy for them too, and not just wishful thinking (stupid friend zone, it can just go die). Also, not to sound like a prick, but also looking for sexual relations? I haven’t had sex in months (oh, please don’t judge me, guys too have needs sometimes) andddd I kind of miss it. Well, that’s me in a nutshell, and I did kind of realize I went a bit overboard with my introduction. I’m pretty sure I’m gonna stick around these here forums for a long long LONG time, so you guys might as well know a bit (lot) about me :] Cheers, Erick ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 7:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/2 "2010-03-03T07:34:30Z")
Hi Erick and thankyou for your intelligent, concise and indepth introduction. I am confident that pheromones will give you vital help in your interactions with others including women and in also giving you that self confidence to move you forward in life. The first pheromone I would recommend to get you out of the friend zone would be ammo. This is a great stand alone product with no need to combine with other pheromones. Ammo will attract girls and also improve your self confidence when talking to girls. The [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) are sometimes ignored but are vital in building relationships with other people. IO will make girls feel comfortable when they are talking to you and increase the quantity of conversation. IS which is a big favourite in the forum will make you feel great and those around you feel great too. This pheromone is an excellent confidence enhancer too and is often used as a finishing touch with other phero’s. IH is great to deepen the bonds in relationships and to make that deeper connection so that people open up to you more. For others to perceive you as a capable person, high staus and improve respect I would recommend IG in a mix with the socials. This too is a confidence helper and is a more versatile version of A314. It is versatile because using A314 can make you less approachable unless mixed with social pheros and you can come across serious and intimidating. All these pheromones can be bought in togo bottles which are smaller than the regular 30ml bottles to help you with costs and you can experiment and find your favourites, I recommend using one phero at a time starting with one spray and building up gradually until you find your sweet spot. For self effects spray on the neck - to affect others spray on the wrists and back of the neck. Remember if you are using pheros everyday to take a break at least 2 days a week to avoid pheromone build up and to give your neuro transmitters a rest. I believe the pheromones will not just aid you and improve your social life but will also help to heal the hurts caused by your previous girlfriend. They can create inner faith to move you forward in life and to let go of previous negative experiences. I look forward to hear how you get on and I hope this information helps. Best wishes Mackie ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 8:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/3 "2010-03-03T08:02:34Z")
Hi Erick, welcome to the forum! And thanks for the great info! It wasn’t too long, and definitely not overboard at all. As for nerdish-ness, I too am a nerd, and not a bad looking one either, or so I’ve heard. People don’t have to wear two inch thick glasses and look goofy to be nerds. 🙂 I agree with Mackie that Ammo would be perfect for you. It will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment. To get past that wonderful “friend zone”, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is the way to go. IH adds depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable and safe with you, and they will be more likely to open up to you more and emotionally bond. This emotional bond is especially important for most girls (including me) if they are going to take things further with a girl. I hope this helps, and if you have any questions, just ask! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 8:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/4 "2010-03-03T08:43:51Z")
WELCOME! First, and don’t take anything i say too deep because i don’t know you, but you sound a little bit like I used to. my ex fucked me up and I used to be somewhat insecure. You seem to be worried about being percieved as conceited (by us) and judged. who cares haha just be yourself. Anyway, I found that most the changes I had to make were psychological/confidence. For pheromones, ammo is great. It adds confidence. it also gives you greater percieved social value, sexual attraction, and approachability. Along with ammo, I’d try the standard edition opposed to the world edition as it is more appropriate for daily wear scent wise in college settings for me, I’d throw in some instant shine which is said to make people smiley and make you feel better. good luck!! ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/5 "2010-03-03T12:25:53Z")
Hey erick ahahah 😃, you seem to be a hell of a guy, glad to have you on board. Guess what, I used to play roleplayng games like dungeons and dragons when I was younger and still be a party animal in discos, sometimes with girls all around me with much touchy touchy 😃 . So what does that makes me? Nerd? Party animal? I am going to give you the steve advice. And what is the steve advice? Well it is the first one he gave to me, when my emotional life was on the sinkhole (finally got a little better), and I was all the way imerse on my feelings for this girl that seemed to be using me to get what she wants ( this dosent mean I dont feel anything for her, just that learn better). So my friend what you need like steve told me is: a314, IO, and IJ, AAAANNNNDDD much important this one IS really IS will make all the difference in this mix. You need to stop being mister nice guy. You wont loose yourself nor you are… PHERMONES ARE NOT MAGIC POTIONS, has wished so much them to be when I first got here, its not like you spray it on your neck and peachy, everything is beautifull. Just because you put some IJ on you, dosent mean girls already knew think youre a jerk. My friend I tested this and I can tell you… what will happen is that girls who already know you will tell you that you look, different… more confident more realiable. MORE MANLY… I had this girl I had a crush on since I was little and this is has much has in the friend zone has you can be… and I did cause this girl some problems with her relation… she started to get doubts and got jealous when I went to the ex of her boyfriend to have a massage session 🙂 . This is what you need in my opinion, but I also tell you what has been told to me. mones will only do 10% of the job the other 90% will be your attitude. Also I find that ammo is what goes best with my personalitty and I would advise you to buy also a bottle of ammo so you have a back up plan. 🙂 this experience is going to be complicated, because IJ is high in -none, so dont use more than 1 spray, and lets hope its not to much. I hope you will have the same success with the mones that I had, and hope to see you here more often. Best of lucks falcos ---
**Author:** ![FuturePharmD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47c2d/32.png) [@FuturePharmD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FuturePharmD)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2010, 4:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/7 "2010-03-03T16:42:03Z")
So, I’m pretty much late to class right now so I’m gonna take this time to say thank you to all that replied back :] I appreciate the help. I’m definitely gonna look into ammo, IO, and IH (the TOGO ones) first and foremost because as a college student, I’m pretty broke (you don’t get paid much as a pharmacy technician) so these are the only ones I can afford with my own money, but hopefully (crosses fingers) I get the 25 dollar GC so I can test out the other ones and maybe get a second togo bottle of ammo. Again, thank you so much for the support, I’m looking forward to trying these products out as (like mackie72 said) I want to move forward with life and become the person I want to be, and if I can get a little bit of help with these phero’s that would be lovely too. P.S. I hope that this was somewhat coherent. I was up till 4 in the morning studying Organic Chemistry and I’m currently hopped up on an energy drink. p.p.s I do have a question. How long does it usually take to ship and receive a product? I’m gonna be leaving for Las Vegas this weekend (grandparents’ 50th anniversary!) and I’m gonna be there for a week (til March 13). I’m thinking of having it shipped to Vegas as I do not want my roommate (the friend who introduced me to pherotalk) to open up my box of goodies and use it (yeah, he’d really do something like that). Do you guys think it’ll get to Vegas in time before I leave or maybe preferably while I’m there? The Strip (the section of Las Vegas with all the casinos) at this time has a redonkulous amount of girls and I’d like to experiment with pheromones while I’m there. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/8 "2010-03-04T20:24:26Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![FuturePharmD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47c2d/32.png) [@FuturePharmD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FuturePharmD)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2010, 6:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helloooooooo-pherotalk/36697/9 "2010-03-07T06:34:09Z")
Hey guys! Just wanted to do a quick update. I have arrived in good ole Sin City (around a couple of hours ago) and I just ordered: 1x [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) (the whole bottle as the TOGO one is out of stock) 1x TUTH TOGO 1x IS TOGO 1x IH TOGO 1x IG TOGO 1x IO TOGO Hopefully since California and Nevada are next door neighbors my shipment gets here this week so I can test these out in the Strip :]