# Help a lady out? Dating Tips Please **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 8, 2008, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047 "2008-09-08T04:42:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/81 "2008-09-19T17:10:19Z")
> [@Wrlprchnx](#): > > And some people do not get monogamous until they’ve lost something real good fucking up - alot of times they don’t realize what they had was good the first times either. You are right! ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/82 "2008-09-19T17:13:15Z")
> [@wilks](#): > > Many? Naw, we nice guys tend to hang around jerks to make ourselves look better. 🙂 > > If you’re not the initiating type, learn to initiate. I don’t mean you have to go up and talk or ask him to dance or anything. Just initiate eye contact. Initiate flirting. > > The fact that you’re not the initiating type suggests you may have low self confidence. If that’s the case, whatever the cause is, do something/anything to make yourself feel better about it. That will help. I do make eyecontact and smile. 🙂 But I feel better if the man does the approaching. I am more attracted that way. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 7:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/83 "2008-09-19T19:28:37Z")
> [@woofie2](#): > > no, you are a girl, they should pay you, at least buy you pretty sparkly things, and bring you dead flowers. you are a good girl so $10K would be more what you should ask the suitor pay. 😃 I know you’re kidding, but in case someone doesn’t get that (at least the 10k part).. No one should be paying for any relationship, except a _business_ relationship. If a guy offers money for your time, that’s not legit, IMO, or at the least you’ll probably disappointed. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 7:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/84 "2008-09-19T19:48:43Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > I know you’re kidding, but in case someone doesn’t get that (at least the 10k part).. No one should be paying for any relationship, except a _business_ relationship. If a guy offers money for your time, that’s not legit, IMO, or at the least you’ll probably disappointed. I hoped she was kidding about him offering up front. ---
**Author:** ![OoohYahhh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ooohyahhh/32/1274_2.png) [@OoohYahhh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OoohYahhh)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2008, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/85 "2008-09-20T00:50:03Z")
**WAIT A MINUTE!** I was going to give you a $20 gift certificate to the Whataburger and $50 of stamps to get a box and mail yourself down here. Now you’re going to run off with some greasy bog dweeb who doesn’t even have a pheromone to his name. He’ll probably get out his magic markers and want to draw cartoons on you. At least I could keep you in a steady whiff of the good stuff. All i want to do is lick off the chocolate syrup that you have drizzled allover your body. (Nothing more than that becuase, as i am sure you know, i’m saving my virginity for the ‘right’ woman.) Seriously Cat, you are in so many ways an _extraordinary_ woman. That’s why you’ve had difficulty getting into the casual dating/hookup scene. You deserve an equally extraordinary man. Wait a minute. Let me look in my bag of tricks and I’ll see if I can find one for you. Yours, OoohYahhh ---
**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2008, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/86 "2008-09-20T06:16:50Z")
> [@Butterfly](#): > > **I do make eyecontact and smile. 🙂** For many of us AFCs, that is not considered to be taking the initiative _hint hint_. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2008, 8:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047/87 "2008-09-20T08:33:13Z")
> [@Eldros](#): > > For many of us AFCs, they is not considered to be taking the initiative _hint hint_. Some of the more…noticable attention grabbers have been my ass getting grabbed, my crotch getting grabbed, putting arms around my neck, jumping in my lap, and kissing me out of the blue. The occasional hand across my back doesn’t go unnoticed either. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-a-lady-out-dating-tips-please/19047.md?page=4)