# Help I have a date on Sunday!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 27, 2009, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535 "2009-02-27T04:48:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/41 "2009-03-03T00:24:02Z")
> [@Tigerlilly](#): > > … wonder if it went _too_ well… or if it’s still going! 🙂 Hahahah 😃. Gosh the suspense is killing me!!! ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/42 "2009-03-03T01:00:41Z")
She’s forgotten all about us … ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 7:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/43 "2009-03-03T07:23:59Z")
I’m getting worried… I google earthed her town… not much there… Hellllooooo? Silly Kitty?? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/44 "2009-03-03T08:41:46Z")
Sorry, I had an incredibly busy (and interesting!) day today, and only now have had the chance to catch my breath and sit down…🙄. Okay, the gory details… As you know, I left wearing MX135 and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) with just a dash of MX300 (and clothes of course). He picked me up a little after noon (in an older, but in decent shape, V6 Cougar), and off we went to Waimea, about 20 minutes away (officially renamed “Kamuela” back in the 1970’s because there are 3 or 4 Waimea’s in Hawaii, and the confusion with the mail became too much for the postal service to handle). Along the way, (before turning on any music) he asked me what type of music I liked, and what type of food I liked. I told him what I liked in music (trance, heavy metal, blues, rock, etc..I didn’t say 70’s disco, though I do like that too, lol). With a sigh of relief, he turned on his “Disturbed” CD. He was dressed in black jeans, a black tshirt, and a green Mountain Dew Amp baseball cap (which remained on his head the entire time, I wonder if he has male pattern baldness, lol). He also wore an ivory “fish hook” pendant on a leather (or was it string?) string (I guess his way of “dressing up” a little). His light brown hair was tied back in a short pony tail, and he had a light, slightly scruffy beard and mustache, he didn’t look too bad though. I also noticed that he had nice features (which I hadn’t really paid attention to before, and which would look even nicer minus baseball hat (that is, if there is hair under there), ponytail and scruff He started to take me to the Thai place in the shopping center, but then I realized that he really wasn’t very familiar with many of the restaurants in the area (having only been here 2.5 years, I discovered). We both liked spicy, so I convinced him to try the Mexican restaurant (way better than shopping center Thai) down at Kawaihae by the harbor (which was also near the meeting I was curious about, lol, am I sneaky or what?). We sat in the small bar, which was very dead, at a surfboard shaped table (in fact, we might have been the only customers in entire restaurant). The bartender came over and asked if we’d like a cocktail (I really really did, but did not want to seem like a lush, lol). He said, “Do you want have a drink?”. I restrained myself and said, “I will if you will”. He asked, “What would you like?”. I said, “You pick, surprise me”. So, he orders two Kahlua and milks ☹ I ask, “Did you ever try that with vodka?”. He replies, “I’m allergic to vodka”. It turns out he has only had cheap nasty vodka (like Popov, etc) I totally understood, I’m allergic to that kind of vodka too, lol!! I asked him whether he’s ever had Grey Goose or Ketel One, but he’d never heard of them. Ah, well… Our drinks arrive, along with a basket of tortilla chips and some salsa… TO BE CONTINUED… ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/45 "2009-03-03T09:46:36Z")
Come on, stop teasing us!😃 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 5:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/46 "2009-03-03T17:16:23Z")
Jeez, she’s worse than Data4… ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 5:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/47 "2009-03-03T17:22:27Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Jeez, she’s worse than Data4… Now come on Renny, that was uncalled for… No-one is that slow 😛 Memo to self, check this thread next month for data’s response 😉 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 5:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/48 "2009-03-03T17:25:05Z")
ROFLMAO, you’re cold Diamond. Sillykitty is gonna be so mad when she finds we’ve been spamming up her thread… ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/49 "2009-03-03T18:58:57Z")
Okay, now where was I? Oh, yes, the drinks arrive with chips and salsa. I eye my milky concoction warily and take a sip. Okay, its not bad, could use a little vodka though. My date says, “I’m only having one, since I’m driving”. So I take my time drinking my drink, trying to drink it as slowly as he is drinking his. Thank goodness for chips and salsa!! Our meal arrives, which we practically inhale, it is so good! During this time, I ask him how he feel about the Superferry, etc. He’s like umm, well, it can hurt the marine life. Okay, true, he’s only been here 2.5 years, so obviously is neither knowledgeable nor passionate about the issues that those of us who grew up here get wild about. I mention that the meeting is only 2 minutes away, and he says, “Sure, lets check it out”. I told him if it sucks, we’ll leave. So we arrive about 2:10 (it started at 2), and its at the Macadamia Nut Factory/Store in the Kawaihae industrial area. The metal folding chairs are all occupied, except for 2 halfway in the middle (someone else must have bailed just before we got there, lol) which I was NOT going to sit in (and get trapped), in case we needed to make a quick exit. So we stand in the back, trying to hear the speaker who is showing a slide show about invasive species that damage our native habitat, such as the Tiny Little Fire Ant. The hall is echo-y, and after a few minutes, I say, “Lets get out of here”. As we leave (he is ahead of me, so doesn’t hear this) this lady who had been standing too, says, “Don’t go, there are some chairs”. I reply, “He has to go” (blaming it on him, lol). Once safely outside, I tell him about the lady, and how I blamed it on him, lol. He laughed, and then wanted to take a ride up north towards Kohala, to Mahukona (a beach park that used to be a community back in the olden days). I actually used to live in the only house there, which used to be an office building (my room was the post office room, hehe, I had my own door, and used to sneak out at night when I was 15) Once at Mahukona, I take over again. There are lots of foundations of old houses, and overgrown little cement walkways and stairs, its pretty cool, like this weird outdoor maze. We wander around for a little while, then I suggest moving on. We head up the coast a little ways to Kapaa Park, where we park for a minute, and walk around briefly before getting back in his car. He wants to go to Spencer Park back in Kawaihae, so we head back south. Its a perfect time for a sharing a six pack of beer, so I say, “A beer would be great!” We arrive at the convenience store in Kawaihae, where he chooses a Budweiser Clamato (!!!). Not a six-pack, just singles. Which i always made fun of whenever I was in that store, because it sounded just plain nasty (beer and clam juice, eeeew). We have a small not-quite-argument where I say, eew, clam juice, and he says, no its tomato juice, and I’m like nuh-uh, no ways dude, thats CLAM juice. So, not wanting to appear the wimp, I grab a Budweiser Clamato too… TO BE CONTINUED… Gotta do errands, brb ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/50 "2009-03-03T21:32:17Z")
Okay, I’m back. I don’t want to bore you to death, but the bottom line is, this young man is absolutely smitten, and still has no idea that I’m old enough to be his mama, lol. He never asked… The next day, I was in Hilo (where he lives now) and he had asked me to give him a call, so I did. I stopped by briefly, and his roommate was there. The roommate says, (as though my date has been TALKING ABOUT me), “She’s not beautiful…she’s HOT!!!” LOL I also allowed him to accompany me on an errand I had to do while in that town, that day, during which time he decides to call his MOTHER right in front of me, and proceed to tell him about this beautiful girl he met (I had to restrain myself from saying, hey I’m not beautiful, Im HOT, hehe) But, unfortunately, this young man with a handsome face has wierd teeth, they look a little too small, and have spaces in between them. I mean, they are clean and all, and not that terrible, but I would NEVER kiss him! ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/51 "2009-03-03T21:51:22Z")
Well, like you said at the start, it was a practice run, if you don’t feel any attachment or desire to take things further then nothing has been lost! Hint ‘I don’t feel comfortable given the age difference’ would let him down more gently than ‘Sorry but your weird teeth freak me out’😉 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/52 "2009-03-03T21:51:53Z")
Did not know the dreaded bloody beer was coming pre-mixed now. You say claMAYto I say claMAHto, but it’s supposed to be maid with Old Mildew and a splash of Jack Daniels not Bud. 😃 Great job reporting Kitty, too bad about the teeth. ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/53 "2009-03-03T22:40:34Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Did not know the dreaded bloody beer was coming pre-mixed now. You say claMAYto I say claMAHto, but it’s supposed to be maid with Old Mildew and a splash of Jack Daniels not Bud. 😃 Great job reporting Kitty, too bad about the teeth. You say ClaMAYto, I say HELL-no. Clamato beer, Kahlua with milk … this young man likes FOOD with his alcohol - no, IN his alcohol. I think that shows a lack of seriousness. 🆒 I hear you on the teeth, though a sugarmama could fix that for him 😃 How hot did you say he is again? ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/54 "2009-03-03T23:31:11Z")
How do you feel the pheromones you wore worked for these encounters? Diane ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/55 "2009-03-03T23:57:02Z")
> [@diane999](#): > > How do you feel the pheromones you wore worked for these encounters? > > Diane Ahaha! Go Diane! 😃 Back to business, right! Onto Pheros! Actually, I am very curious about this as well… How’d that bit go??? ---
**Author:** ![CookieGirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cookiegirl/32/1379_2.png) [@CookieGirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CookieGirl)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/56 "2009-03-04T01:41:55Z")
Whoaaa, what an adventurous date! My first date was like… 1/34th of that, lol I have to agree though, you are one hot babe 😉 You can always tell him that you like it better when he doesn’t smile…ever. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/57 "2009-03-04T02:24:06Z")
> [@Carrie](#): > > I hear you on the teeth, though a sugarmama could fix that for him 😃 How hot did you say he is again? Not THAT hot, LOL ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535/58 "2009-03-04T02:32:35Z")
> [@diane999](#): > > How do you feel the pheromones you wore worked for these encounters? > > Diane I think they worked well…though he did already like me (or he wouldn’t have asked me out, obviously). Though, how can I tell how much can be attributed to the pheromones, and how much can be attributed to the fact that he likes me and am fun to hang out with? (obviously alcohol cannot be considered a factor, lol) On the way back, he said, “I had an AMAZING time”… Also, how do I reply to various posts, in one post?? [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-i-have-a-date-on-sunday/26535.md?page=2)