# Help important **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [October 14, 2010, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627 "2010-10-14T20:34:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/1 "2010-10-14T20:34:45Z")
I get anxious sometimes and my anxiety medication doesn’t make it go away 100% it varies but still. Now smoking weed is supposed to calm you down and get rid of that bad stuff. Will it have negative effects? Nobody mentions any. And due to the fact that they give marijuana to people legally it can’t be that bad. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/2 "2010-10-14T20:47:07Z")
> [@Jstn](#): > > I get anxious sometimes and my anxiety medication doesn’t make it go away 100% it varies but still. > > Now weed is supposed to calm you down and get rid of that bad stuff. > > Will it have negative effects? Nobody mentions any. And due to the fact that they give marijuana to people legally it can’t be that bad. You’re asking a legally liable question. 1. You’re a minor. 2. BIG BIG Legal liability for Androtics. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/3 "2010-10-14T20:50:24Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > You’re asking a legally liable question. > > 1. You’re a minor. > 2. BIG BIG Legal liability for Androtics. This! And IME, a bit of smoke is not the thing for anxiety - In many people, it can make matters far worse and even propel them into full-on paranoia. And trust me - a paranoid stoner is not something you want to be or have to deal with. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/4 "2010-10-14T21:58:16Z")
Yes it can calm you but it also slowly over time kills off cells in the brain. There are better ways then that to achieve what your looking to achieve. Read this thread because some of the things I talked about will help you as well. [Haven't slept for 3 days: ear ringing worse and my usual fixes have failed](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-me/42594) Then you need to figure out exactly why your anxious. What triggers it ? There are obvious reasons but usually its a underlying reason coming from the subconscious. Sometimes just knowing what really scares you cures you. I would add learning to meditate for you. You dont have to act like a swami and chant or anything but learning to quiet the mind every day for about 10 to 15 minutes will help you learn to quiet it when you start to feel anxious. Mullein tea or infusion will help to calm anxiousness. Its mainly used for other things but it is calming. This one is very mild but you can find it in tea bags pretty easy. Skullcap would be a good choice. You can get it at. Have a cup in the morning and at night. [Mountain Rose Herbs | Bulk organic herbs, spices & essential oils](http://www.mountainroseherbs.com/) Aromatherapy Its not just for girls LOL Now you could take herbal baths but I know how men can be sometimes about that. My husband wont unless I go in with him and I am not coming over to get in your tub with you LOL cypress, geranium, jasmine, lavender, melissa, neroli, rose, sandalwood, ylang-ylang. You can get them in EO form and put them in the water. Lavender is the most popular one. You may want to get something like this to [Perfume Locket - Celtic and Claddaugh Lockets RealmCollections.com](http://www.realmcollections.com/celtic-jewelry/perfume-lockets.html) The bottle locket. You can take it off the chain and out it on a key chain or just in your pocket with your EO in it and open it and take a wiff when you feel nervous of anxious. Just be discrete so you dont look like your snorting coke LOL Make sure your getting enough of a amino acid called GABA (Gamma-aminobutyric Acid) along with B6. Get the GABA made from Lactobacillus hilgardii. These help block the stress receptors. Invest in a few self hypnosis MP3’s and try those. They have them for anxiety. I have seen people have success with a lot of different problems with hypnosis. I cant think of anything else off the top of my head except behavioral therapy. I would have to delve deeper to do that and it takes time and patience. Tisha PS I am not a doctor nor do I work for Androtics. The advice given is suggestions and not prescriptions. Be sure to research them. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/5 "2010-10-15T00:34:41Z")
> [@Jstn](#): > > I get anxious sometimes and my anxiety medication doesn’t make it go away 100% it varies but still. > > Now weed is supposed to calm you down and get rid of that bad stuff. > > Will it have negative effects? Nobody mentions any. And due to the fact that they give marijuana to people legally it can’t be that bad. Your best bet is a **“board-certified child psychiatrist”** who has a working **relationship with a good hospital** ; preferably one **affiliated** with a university medical school and by all means, please keep your parents or Guidant in the loop at _ **all** _ time. MVK ---
**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/6 "2010-10-15T02:08:11Z")
> [@MVKBUGATTI](#): > > Your best bet is a **“board-certified child psychiatrist”** who has a working **relationship with a good hospital** ; preferably one **affiliated** with a university medical school and by all means, please keep your parents or Guidant in the loop at **all** time. > > MVK My dads a board certified child psychiatrist lmfao ahahaha ---
**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/7 "2010-10-15T03:55:04Z")
Tisha I thought tea’s and coffea made you anxious… hm I will definitely try everything you suggested I really appreciate your help 🙂 I already do hypnosis and sleep hypnosis for a lot of things I mostly have it for confidence but since I get bored really easy I alternate, I’ll look around for some on anxiety but just in case I can’t find any good ones do you know of any? I have something that I can listen to that basicly meditates my body for me so I don’t need to learn I haven’t used it yet but I’ll give it a try it’s supposed to be really good. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 4:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/8 "2010-10-15T04:12:30Z")
Dude I have no issue with you asking for advice but please, have enough respect for the people you’re coming to get help and advice from enough to be honest. > [@Jstn](#): > > I get anxious sometimes and my anxiety medication doesn’t make it go away 100% it varies but still. > > Now (not smoking) weed is supposed to calm you down and get rid of that bad stuff. > > Will it have negative effects? Nobody mentions any. And due to the fact that they(do not) give marijuana to people legally it can’t be that bad. > > Ps. I’m really 21 and have perscription for marijauna Really? > [@What Pheromones](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones/41187/1): > > I’m 15 years old and I have pretty much every pheromone from this Do Pheromones Work? A Candid Pheromone Review out of all of them which ones should I wear and how much? > > Hopefully I’m not to young to be using them.. > [@Jstn](#): > > My dads a board certified child psychiatrist lmfao ahahaha Awesome…get advice and treatment from him if that’s true. Interesting > [@Pheromone advice for teenage males](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-advice-for-teenage-males/41437/4): > > What about A314 and AMMO? And I really appreciate that you care about us I just really want an edge and if 2012 is real eh. > > My dads a doctor I’ll definitly need to get his take on this… 😕 First off for somebody claiming to be 21 in the opening post you neglected to correct the comment about needing a child psychiatrist which basically confirms that’s not true. Nevermind the topics about the disrespect you get in class. Like I said, ask what questions you want but please stop lying to us as if it will make us more eager to give you the answers you want to hear. ---
**Author:** ![vvtv57](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a9a28c/32.png) [@vvtv57](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vvtv57)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/9 "2010-10-15T04:22:08Z")
> [@Jstn](#): > > I get anxious sometimes and my anxiety medication doesn’t make it go away 100% it varies but still. > > Now (not smoking) weed is supposed to calm you down and get rid of that bad stuff. > > Will it have negative effects? Nobody mentions any. And due to the fact that they(do not) give marijuana to people legally it can’t be that bad. > > Ps. I’m really 21 and have perscription for marijauna Your 21? > [@Hey](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41242): > > Whatsup guys! I’m justin from florida just started my first year of high school I’m 15 around people I know honestly im kind of cocky and at school I’m shy half the time and talkative half the time it’s interesting I just started guitar and I like to play hockey I’m really excited to be part of the forum and meet all of you! says here your 15 and i coulda sworn I saw your signature say you were 17 before. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/10 "2010-10-15T09:31:22Z")
> [@](#): > > Tisha I thought tea’s and coffee made you anxious… hm I will definitely try everything you suggested I really appreciate your help Only those with caffeine. Many herbals dont or have just trace amounts. > [@](#): > > I already do hypnosis and sleep hypnosis for a lot of things I mostly have it for confidence but since I get bored really easy I alternate, I’ll look around for some on anxiety but just in case I can’t find any good ones do you know of any? Not off hand. Check were you got your confidence one. > [@](#): > > I have something that I can listen to that basically meditates my body for me so I don’t need to learn I haven’t used it yet but I’ll give it a try it’s supposed to be really good. If you dont learn how to do it then it wont help when your feeling anxious unless you have the CD with you. You need to learn how to do it so you can call upon what you learned when your out and starting to feel anxious. I didnt address your lying in your first post because it was not relevant to my answer. No matter your age pot is not a good ideal. Your lying stems from your anxiety and lack of self esteem. Those who are anxious do one of two things. They withdraw or they Mask and your masking. I know your thinking well its just a bunch of people on the Internet so no harm. True you are causing no harm to me or the others here but you are causing harm to yourself. I know the mask you wear stems from fear just like your anxiety. Everything in life stems from one of two places Love or Fear. This is why I mentioned you need to find out exactly why your anxious. To do that you need to take off the mask of deceit. I hope you decide to do that before that mask becomes so much a part of you that you cant remember where it ends and you begin. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/11 "2010-10-15T19:13:39Z")
Lol you guys freaked out about the age thing I only put that because of liability.. I’m 15 ---
**Author:** ![2000GT](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/2000gt/32/389_2.png) [@2000GT](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/2000GT)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/12 "2010-10-15T23:22:57Z")
> [@Jstn](#): > > Lol you guys freaked out about the age thing I only put that because of liability.. I’m 15 Yea? It’s bad enough giving advice on drugs but to do so HERE and to a minor who has habitually lied to us for weeks now, that’s sad. Listen, not trying to be rude here but stop lying to us. It’s not helping your credibility here. Everyone here is more than willing to help, myself included but if you keep this up, you wont get any help. You’re also too young to understand how damaging lying about your age can be. Especially when dealing with a topic such as this. ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2010, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/13 "2010-10-17T19:08:37Z")
You are probably just a spoiled brat, daddy being a doctor and all. Smoking dope isn’t going to help you much if that’s the case. Most spoiled brats that I have known get their jets cooled for them by the harsh realities of real life. Some of them have even turned out to be half-way decent people after getting away from their parents. Assuming that you really are mentally defective, there should be a drug to help reduce your symptoms. Have your daddy sign a prescription for you. He can get you the good stuff. You might want to stop with the -mones if your head really is out of whack, I’ve noticed extreme hits from strangers with mental defects. Cheers! > [@Jstn](#): > > Lol you guys freaked out about the age thing I only put that because of liability.. I’m 15 ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2010, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-important/42627/14 "2010-10-18T00:22:46Z")
Let’s break down attraction to the most basic elements. Male and female. Males are attracted to females. Females are attracted to males. Biologically speaking, what makes somebody male? Testosterone. Biologically speaking, what makes somebody female? Estrogen. Testosterone is attracted to estrogen. Estrogen is attracted to testosterone. Ever wonder why the jocks got the girls in high school? They worked out and played in competitive sports; two things conducive to promoting testosterone in the body. Ever wonder why “bad boys” and criminals get the women? They’re risk takers. They pay no attention to law. They’re reckless and dangerous. Again, symptoms of high testosterone. Research has linked high testosterone to criminal behavior. Research has linked competition and weight lifting to high testosterone as well. Women are attracted to the jocks and bad boys simply because they are male in the sense that they have high testosterone. Is the flip side true? Are men attracted to beautiful women simply because they are women in the sense that they have high estrogen? Yes, studies have shown that men are attracted to women with high estrogen levels as well. (Btw, you will find women use make up as well in order to give the illusion of the physical characteristics of high estrogen in order to attract males) There’s a deeper science that goes into this about how high levels of testosterone and estrogen reflect underlying health and fertility, but I won’t get into that. Strictly speaking in biological terms, testosterone makes the man and estrogen makes the women. Is this surprising? No. Drill down to the basics. I am male, she is female. Act accordingly and attraction will not be a problem. Now, am I advocating that you go and inject yourself with 500 liters of testosterone? Absolutely not. Injecting yourself with synthetic testosterone shuts down your body’s ability to produce it naturally. I am advocating however, that you engage in activities that will raise your testosterone levels. Lifting heavy weights on a consistent basis coupled with proper nutrition and rest will raise levels of testosterone in the body. When you lift heavy weights, you literally create little tears in your muscle tissues. Testosterone, an anabolic hormone responsible for muscle growth among many other things, is produced by the body in order to rebuild the muscle to resist against future weight. So instead of sitting on your butt playing World of Warcraft, Playstation, or X Box, get out there and pick up the weights. You will find that by building your testosterone, your demeanor toward women and theirs toward you will change. When you lock eyes with a beautiful women, you won’t immediately shift your eyes to the ground and be embarrassed. You’ll lock eye contact with her and be comfortable about it. SHE will be the one who looks away. You will find that women will start paying more attention to you. It’s as if they’re equipped with incredibly sensitive receptors to testosterone. (studies have shown that women are capable of identifying individuals with high testosterone simply by smelling sweaty t-shirts) Try a regimen of weightlifting and compare your attitude and results with the opposite sex after a short period of time. You’ll be pleasantly surprised. And don’t become so obsessed with testosterone that you start letting it control you, in terms of your behavior and attitude. Then you’ll turn into the jerk or the criminal. The key is to have testosterone and control it. Don’t let it control you. Just be true to your nature. To illustrate my point even further, imagine a woman with a thick beard, mustache and a deep voice hitting on you at the bar. You would be repulsed right? Of course you would! This woman is not embracing her true nature as a female. **Women are a million times more repulsed because nice guys do _exactly_ the same thing.** They don’t embrace their true nature as a male.