# Help needed: classmate finally got a dose of IS 3x and Spaceland, kept staring **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 16, 2010, 11:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-classmate-finally-got-a-dose-of-is-3x-and-spaceland-kept-staring/41791 "2010-09-16T11:50:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jabez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jabez/32/2193_2.png) [@Jabez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jabez)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 11:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-classmate-finally-got-a-dose-of-is-3x-and-spaceland-kept-staring/41791/1 "2010-09-16T11:50:15Z")
So yesterday I think the girl I am trying to hook up with finally got a dose of my pheros. So I was in professional photograpy yesterday and I got to class kind of eartly so I went over my notes and shit. Then the girl walks in these insanely short shorts. Her and I had ocassionaly chated in class so as she is walking past I ask her if she was cold in those shorts and she smiled and said no why? Right as she said that the professor gets to class (what a cock block). So the only pheros I had on yesterday were IS 3x and spaceland,but not having any attraction pheros on she was eye fucking the shit out of me during class. I caught her a couple of times just DIHL. Then I glance over at her and she looks away blushing. So class ends and I am dumbass and just leave without talking to her. So my qustion is now what do I do? I may have messed up theattraction from just leaving. And I had some serious IOIS. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 12:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-classmate-finally-got-a-dose-of-is-3x-and-spaceland-kept-staring/41791/2 "2010-09-16T12:49:21Z")
You’re trying to hook up with the girl and you didn’t act when you got obvious signs of attraction? First off stop and really think, you know how sometimes you’ll see a dog chasing a car? The dog obviously hasn’t thought things through…it has no clue what it would do it if it CAUGHT the car. Don’t mention it at all, that would show that you’ve been thinking about it all day since then. Just go back to carrying on normally, if she says anything just say you had something you had to do that couldn’t wait. Be vague no need to validate why you do anything at this point. But really be mentally there…ask yourself this "Do I really want this girl?, what would I do if I could have her? By not reacting when a woman shows interest you’re killing social proof. You’re essentially telling her that you don’t know how to react to a woman being attracted to you. You don’t know because you’re not used to it, you’re not used to it because it doesn’t happen often, and she’s going to wonder subconsciously “why doesn’t it happen often?”. You don’t want her thinking that. You have (or at least had…we’ll find out later) attraction. At this point continue as though you still do and start asking her questions about herself. Lean back while you qualify her. Compliment answers you like, and IOD when you don’t like the answers…look away as if distracted by something. Basically let her know that you’re becoming (she doesn’t HAVE you yet) attracted to her for qualities besides her looks…she’s probably used to guys jumping through hoops for her just because she’s pretty, you want to show her that “pretty” is good but you have higher strandards and expect more. After you give her a little interest from yourself depending on what timing allows make a date, but don’t “ask” her out. Simply tell her that she seems pretty cool, and that you’re going to go grab some coffee after class, during lunch after school etc to study and TELL what time to meet you there so you can continue the conversation. Asking a question allows for a yes/no answer so don’t ask. Commanding sounds domineering and possibly scary, but ASSUMING she already wants to go implies confidence and doesn’t allow for a yes/no answer. Women at that age tend to be non confrontational, it’s socially more difficult for them to say “no” if you didn’t word it in the form of a question. If she does say “no”, then shrug it off, it’s no big deal. But be there anyway, you’re not going for her benefit. You’re going anyway and simply suggested she come along. If she says yes, just smile and say cool see you then and leave her hanging. While there you can go into comfort building and escalate to a full on follow up date. ---
**Author:** ![Jabez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jabez/32/2193_2.png) [@Jabez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jabez)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 3:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-classmate-finally-got-a-dose-of-is-3x-and-spaceland-kept-staring/41791/3 "2010-09-16T15:33:09Z")
Sounds good and radman you know your shit. I think I am gonna try and see if she gives me the IOIs again. If she does I will look over and smile. Ill see how that goes