# Help needed!!! I am in love with my boss **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 25, 2008, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966 "2008-10-25T16:36:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sinned\_love](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@Sinned\_love](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sinned_love)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2008, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/1 "2008-10-25T16:36:11Z")
Hi girls , I am new to this forum and I hope that you gals can help me on this. I have been secretly in love with my boss for over a year . I could feel that he likes me too but he is not showing any signs that he would take the relationship further. He is quite a shy guy . ( and hasn’t been in love for quite a while) I do not want to be the one to make the first move as I am not sure if he really likes me. I also do not want others to think that I like him because he is rich. Somehow , a part of me tells me that our relationship will never work out as I am not good enough for him. He is smart and rich , whereas I am just an ordinary girl. What should I do? Do you think that [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) can help me? I really hope that he can tell me frankly about what he thinks 😕 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2008, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/2 "2008-10-25T20:51:18Z")
Mmm…read this post, it might help you. [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) Alrighty, back to the point. Well you could use alot of chatty mones, pair up instant openness with instant honesty. He’ll get all chatty and _might_ tell something interesting 😉 Pheros will enhance things for you, if he isn’t a chatty person, pheros will make him a bit chatty than normal. But it might not make him magically blurt out things that you might want to hear. Like, I mentioned pheros just enhance or give things an extra kick. Instant honesty might give you an intimate conversation, and not neccessarily, make him blurt out the truth so fast. You’ll have to give subtle hints too 😉 Good luck sweetie 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2008, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/3 "2008-10-25T21:37:32Z")
> [@Sinned\_love](#): > > Somehow , a part of me tells me that our relationship will never work out as I am not good enough for him. > He is smart and rich , whereas I am just an ordinary girl. > > What should I do? Number one, stop thinking things like this. [Self-perception theory - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-perception_theory) Then move on to using pheros. Start slowly with things like Instant Shine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Openness, as msselva suggested. If you don’t get the result you’re after with Instant Honesty or Openness, you could try some straight Beta-androstenol in addition. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2008, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/4 "2008-10-25T22:56:39Z")
The problem is, if he’s an ethical guy, or a legal worry-wart, he may avoid initiating due to fear of sexual harassment allegations if things go south (& they usually do). After all, you’re his subordinate and thus he has power and influence over your life. It’s a big risk for him as a lawsuit could destroy or cripple a small business. It’s similar to the moral/professional dilemma professor-student relationships face. But then, workplace romances, like professor-student romances, are wonderful if they work as you spend so much time together and share similar interests and lifestyles. Also, many people spend little time outside work or school so opportunities are limited if you exclude your workplace or school. I’d say go for it but move slowly and be subtle. Gentle enticement and understatement is the safest route. After all, you have a lot on the line too: love & livelihood. Realize men are dense when it comes to reading the subtle signs women give out. Having been hit on by many of coeds and subordinates over the years, I was nearly oblivious until she basically bit me on the ass (thought they were merely friendly!). I eventually noticed the special clothing, extra makeup, hanging around but, sheesh, I was slow. So be patient. ---
**Author:** ![cherriesgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@cherriesgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cherriesgirl)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2008, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/5 "2008-10-25T23:29:58Z")
Hello Sinned Love and Welcome to the Forum! I know exactly how you feel because I once was in love with my boss. I know how much you want to find out whether your boss have any feelings for you so may I jump right in to suggest Instant Honesty 4x. I used Instant Honesty 4x myself and got very good results. I personally do not know how to incorporate both Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) in the same mixes. If you do a little research you’ll find out that Instant Honesty and Instant Openness both come from the Androstenol putative, the big differences are that IH is Beta Androstenol while IO is Alpha Androstenol, & the ratio of these two are also difference. I think IH is 70 Beta to 30 Alpha (70:30), & the IO is 70 Alpha to 30 Beta (please correct me if I’m wrong). IH & IO also have buffer added to them. Instant Openness will make him more chatty (How much more chatty I don’t know it all depends on the person) & Instant Honesty will help the conversation develop into something a little deeper, more personal, and more intimate. Sinned Love can you let me know what other results you’re looking for so others in the forum can help you out. If you want him to pay more attention to you & you want to be the center of attention as well you can try MX135. MX135 is one of the Women’s favorite, it had been out of stock for a long time and finally it is back so you can try it. If you’re not sure just try the to go bottle for everything cuz they are cheaper in general. If you’re looking for the “I’m innocent, please protect me kinda vibe”, you can try P74 + TAH. P74 is the closest thing to the wonderful out of stock EST. TAH is currently out of stock right now so you should check back to when it is in stock. I do not know what type of women you are: are you the Angelina Jolie type or the Marylin Monroe type. If you’re the Angelina Jolie type then I think Intant Sexiness A will better suit you, & if you’re the Marylin Monroe type than Instant Sexiness B will better suit you. Again please do some research on these two type of pheromone (they are in the Women’s Spray pheromone section, they’re for biginner so they’re easy to use & you can always return them if you don’t like). Another question I want to ask you is do you know what type of women your boss like? Does he like the strong, take charge type of women or does he like the girlie type? The type of women he likes will give you some indications of what type of pheromone you should use around him. If he likes the strong, take charge type of women IS/A is the beter pheormone to use than IS/B. IS/A is Tal heavy while IS/B is TAH heavy. Another product I want to suggest you to try is Instant Shine. IS also belonged to the Instant line family. Some people in the forum swear by it. I personally never test it alone so I can’t tell you what is its effects (on me & ppl around me). If you’re interested please read through the forum and maybe order the to go version to try. Couplin is another products that many, many women in the forum love and can’t live with out. At the moment, Androtics doesn’t sell it as stand alone product nor is it available in the customization mixes (I think it’s out of stock), but you can buy it at Love Scent. OOps, Do I allow to mention it? A word of warning though: Couplin is stink so you have to use some strong scent to cover it. Last but not least, please read over the stickies in the women’s forum. They are very interesting, informational, & extremely helpful. Kitten is very kind to upload some of her favorite combos, you can read it here: > [@Kitten's Curious Combos](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittens-curious-combos/6017): > > Hi All, Thought I’d share some of my favorite pheromone combinations for you to try out too. slight_smile Daily Work Combo 2 sprays MX134 1 spray [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) What it does: Makes you seem extremely competent yet approachable. Meeting Combo 1 spray Instant Sexiness A 1 spray MX134 2 10mcg sprays P74 1 spray Instant Shine What it does: Brings together a group, with you as the leader. Presentation Combo 3 sprays MX134 6 sprays Instant Shine 2X 1/2 Scent of Eros Gel pack What it… This is the thread that discuss how to conceal the smell of couplin & other interesting thing: `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/womens-pheromone-advice-tips-tricks/newbie-few-questions-1756.html` I hope this will be help ful to you and I wish you the best of luck. Please remember you are BEAUTIFUL and deserve the BEST OF THE BEST. Don’t give up!🙂 If you have more questions, please feel free to post and all the good people in the forum will more than happy to help you out. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2008, 4:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/6 "2008-10-26T16:12:22Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Realize men are dense when it comes to reading the subtle signs women give out. Having been hit on by many of coeds and subordinates over the years, I was nearly oblivious until she basically bit me on the ass (thought they were merely friendly!). I eventually noticed the special clothing, extra makeup, hanging around but, sheesh, I was slow. So be patient. What did you do when you finally realized, Gegogi? ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2008, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/7 "2008-10-26T20:15:10Z")
> [@ariadne](#): > > What did you do when you finally realized, Gegogi? Depends on the woman but usually got myself in lots of trouble… ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2008, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/8 "2008-10-26T20:41:56Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Depends on the woman but usually got myself in lots of trouble… lol, aww! ---
**Author:** ![Siren](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/siren/32/2186_2.png) [@Siren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Siren)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2008, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-needed-i-am-in-love-with-my-boss/21966/9 "2008-10-26T22:33:25Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Depends on the woman but usually got myself in lots of trouble… LOL… I can only imagine…😉…LOL