# Help on phero setup please! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 9, 2009, 12:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-on-phero-setup-please/29720 "2009-06-09T12:08:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![alessio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d6d6ee/32.png) [@alessio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alessio)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 12:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-on-phero-setup-please/29720/1 "2009-06-09T12:08:33Z")
Hi, I’ m a phero user by a long time with not so many enthusiasm and very casually, and I have to say I’ ve never thought about an accurate personal setup. 🙂 **I need two setups** : one setup **for work** and one for going out **with friends**. **1.)** I work in loans and mortgage. My work consists in seek out the customer and doing all the work concerning mortgage for him choosing the bank ecc… Now the way I take customers is in going in RE agency or financial consultants to make them inform me about a customer that need my services. **I must have their trust and relationship**. I have to represent a big opportunity for them (cause I make a service for them and I pay for their recommendation), as well as I have to be seen as a friend. Its a type of selling, I sell myself. I’ m a commercial. 🆒 Well I have to estabilish a very confidential rapport with re agents o whatsoever. I thought i need instant openess (cause I need they talk much to me), instant honesty (for rapport), instant shine and a314. I need to **estabilish a rapport very soon** (cause I enter in their activities) and then **make them sit with me** and **make them talk A LOT** about everything; then I want them **trust** me. My questions are: -are these products right for my purposes? - **how much** in proportion I should wear each of them? - **WHERE** apply them. I am very competent about my work and I want to be useful to customers. I am a bit shy and I can’t really talk enough, and I would like to do something about this. I have still to relax a little bit myself, and it does seem none does the work, so I think if i have to add a little bit raw power. Then I have all the instruments for doing all my work, I have to say I am not so bad. 🙂 Usually people don’t want to start a talk. I am usually well-dressed (jacket and sometimes a tie). I am 1.90m tall. **2.)** Go out with friends. I have a group of friend with I go out on friday and saturday night. I like to be confidential but usually I am not so much, and I like get attention from girls (even those girlfirends of my friends 😮) even if I am engaged and very happy with my girlfriend, and I will never cheat in my life. I think shine, openess and ammo could help me on these. The questions are the same: -are these products right for my purposes? -how much in proportion I should wear each of them? -WHERE apply them. If any information needed I can answer quickly. 😛 Thank you for all you do for this community, I appreciate a lot of your reports I read this forum regularly and I like it a lot. 😃 P.S.: Sorry for my english. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 12:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-on-phero-setup-please/29720/2 "2009-06-09T12:44:38Z")
Work: Either A314 and IH … or Instant Gentleman and IH. To get a feel for whether A314 or IG would be better read the thread in my signature block that discusses the two. A314 will give youa storng alpha leade vibe. But you also have to act like that kinda guy. If you do not, people will ignore the vibe of the pheromone. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) will give you a cool, smooth dependable vibe. More laid back. And it can also make you seem a little older as a result. Which one you use depends on which one seems to best blend with you personality and which one you act most congruently with. For Social Life: The products you mentioned: Ammo, IO and IShine are perfect. And if you get the A314 it also goes very well with Ammo. There is a thread in my signature block about that also. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 12:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-on-phero-setup-please/29720/3 "2009-06-09T12:44:41Z")
OK alessio, first don’t worry about your english, it’s far better than my italian 😃 You have got the right idea regarding which pheromones to try, have you tried any of them to find your ‘sweet spot’ yet? If not, then that’s where you need to start, testing each one, one at a time to find your own level. As for application points, stick to the pulse points, wrists, forearms and sides of neck, the heat will help disperse the pheromones quickly. Also, Italy is quite warm this time of year, don’t forget that you may need to re apply some of the products during the day, particularly [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). ---
**Author:** ![alessio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d6d6ee/32.png) [@alessio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alessio)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-on-phero-setup-please/29720/4 "2009-06-09T13:27:50Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Work: Either A314 and IH … or > > Instant Gentleman and IH. > > To get a feel for whether A314 or IG would be better read the thread in my signature block that discusses the two. > > A314 will give youa storng alpha leade vibe. But you also have to act like that kinda guy. If you do not, people will ignore the vibe of the pheromone. > > Instant Gentleman will give you a cool, smooth dependable vibe. More laid back. And it can also make you seem a little older as a result. > > Which one you use depends on which one seems to best blend with you personality and which one you act most congruently with. > > For Social Life: > > The products you mentioned: Ammo, IO and IShine are perfect. And if you get the A314 it also goes very well with Ammo. There is a thread in my signature block about that also. Oh thanks a lot. 🙂 Do you think instant honesty would be better than instant openess in this case (work)? Any suggestion about where to put them? > [@diamond](#): > > OK alessio, first don’t worry about your english, it’s far better than my italian 😃 > > You have got the right idea regarding which pheromones to try, have you tried any of them to find your ‘sweet spot’ yet? If not, then that’s where you need to start, testing each one, one at a time to find your own level. > > As for application points, stick to the pulse points, wrists, forearms and sides of neck, the heat will help disperse the pheromones quickly. Also, Italy is quite warm this time of year, don’t forget that you may need to re apply some of the products during the day, particularly Instant Shine. Eheh thank you.🙂 No, really I didn’t find my “sweet spot”, do you think I have to do some tries using only a product a time varying dosage? I used before just une spray or drop per time, and the effects where little but I didn’ t want more… Now I want to use this instrument consciously. 😉 In Italy its 30°C. That’ s just TOO hot!