# Help the boy is passive!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-the-boy-is-passive/25939>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 10, 2009, 6:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-the-boy-is-passive/25939 "2009-02-10T06:56:03Z")\
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**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 3:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-the-boy-is-passive/25939/41 "2009-02-12T03:37:43Z")

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Hey TbD!  
Thanks for the reply! My situation is different, in that my bf has never been aggro haha (gamer term, yeah Im a dork).  
As in he didnt start out being the “typical guy” and eager sometimes even “annoying” about wanting sex and then change when I moved in.  
He has always been like this, from the very beginning.  
Now I do feel he did take me for granted during some of the time we lived together and that was part of the reason I moved out. But I dont think that really applies here.  
He has since “shaped up”, since I moved out and realized he was actually going to lose me. But still no intiation in the bedroom.

Now for guys like you mentioned, I do believe they just need a real kick in the ass (as so did my bf but for different reasons). He needs to know she can leave at any moment, and if he cares at all he betta recognize. This goes for both partners, Id feel the same way if it was the male getting neglected.

His head has gotten too big, he’s just like meh, shes not going anywhere, and Im tired of trying. This is so classic, it’s sad. Most of the relationships I ended were because the dude couldnt see how he was treating me, and I was tired of trying to make him see. It was only after we broke up that they came too, but by then it was too late, so sorry, see ya.

I played my part too, in that I should of put a stop to their behavior and treatment towards me from the moment I knew what was going, but that’s still no excuse for their behavior.  
They say men like the challenge, but I admit I like a bit of a challenge too.  
The whole “men are hunters” and blah blah blah ha!

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Oh and I totally forgot to mention, that Ive read that [Aquolina Pink Sugar](http://sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P44903&categoryId=B70) can help cover up the smell.  
Ive smelled it before, it is very sweet, think cotton candy, but I think the sweetness of the perfume and the funk/acrid of the cop’s, sorta balance eachother out. I hope at least lol.

Now Im wondering if there’s a more inexpensive perfume that is similar, ie the strong vanilla/cotton candy scent.  
1oz is $28 while 3.4 is $55, but these days Im trying to save every penny I can!

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