# Help with 1st purchase **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 29, 2010, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141 "2010-04-29T02:06:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/1 "2010-04-29T02:06:11Z")
I was hoping you could all help me a little bit with my first purchase. I’ll give you some background. I’m a 30 year old white male, 6’2" and attractive. My girlfriend is a 30 year old, model material middle eastern girl. We have been dating for about 6 months and decided to take a break about 2 weeks ago, but I will be seeing her in a week. I read a lot of the reviews on the site and purchased the A314, TUTH, and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). I was wondering if anyone might have any input as to how I should use these when I first see her again, and if you have any ideas about how she might react, or what I should do. Thanks a ton. Nick ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/2 "2010-04-29T02:13:10Z")
Hi NM110279, welcome to the forum! In order to make the best suggestions for you, and also get you qualified for the $25 gift certificate, please share some info about your personality and communication skills. Are you shy or more outgoing? Besides with your gf, are there any other things you are thinking of using pheros for, such as work, school or with friends? ---
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 2:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/3 "2010-04-29T02:15:40Z")
I’m really not shy, especially with my girlfriend, but I am more of the reserved type. I’m funny and a smart ass. Besides using this with my girlfriend, I’d like to find a new job closer to her home, and would love to gain an advantage in interviews with it. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/4 "2010-04-29T02:23:49Z")
> [@NM110279](#): > > I’m really not shy, especially with my girlfriend, but I am more of the reserved type. I’m funny and a smart ass. Besides using this with my girlfriend, I’d like to find a new job closer to her home, and would love to gain an advantage in interviews with it. Thanks for the info! For job interviews and work situations, definitely go with A314. It will add an aura of strength and confidence, others will tend to respect you more. A314 also goes nicely with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), which adds depth and intimacy to conversations, and makes people more comfortable and trusting with you. With your lady, Instant Honesty, because it also will help strengthen emotional bonds. And Turn Up The Heat, which will definitely spice up her desire for you, but should only be used right beforehand, and not in totally public places (or you risk giving off the vibe of a harny toad who only thinks about sex). ---
**Author:** ![NM110279](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nm110279/32/2125_2.png) [@NM110279](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NM110279)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/5 "2010-04-29T02:25:57Z")
I didn’t get IH, I only got A314, TUTH, and IShine, I wondered how I should use this combination on my lady and what I might expect. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/6 "2010-04-29T02:34:21Z")
> [@NM110279](#): > > I didn’t get IH, I only got A314, TUTH, and IS, I wondered how I should use this combination on my lady and what I might expect. Before combining, make sure to test each out separately so that you are comfortable and familiar with the effects and required dosages of each. This post should help _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) A314 can make you more serious than you might want to be around her, though [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) will soften that up a bit. Save the TUTH until you are in a private environment together and things appear to be heading in a sexual direction (at least until you become more familiar with TUTH and its nuances, then you can play around a bit more with it). ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/7 "2010-04-29T06:31:30Z")
Yes, I am a bit like you, funny and a smartass but I do find A314 does make me feel serious. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (2 sprays is usually enough) lightens it up a lot. I usually go 2 drops A314 on wrists and smeared along the jaw, plus 2 sprays Shine. Good mix IMO. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2010, 11:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-with-1st-purchase/38141/8 "2010-04-29T23:26:55Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.