# HELP!!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 26, 2011, 1:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015 "2011-08-26T13:54:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sedbcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@sedbcl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sedbcl)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2011, 1:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/1 "2011-08-26T13:54:14Z")
Hi, I am new to the forum but very excited to be here. I am 56 years old but feel much like I am still in my 30’s. I am in a live-in type relationship for 3 years now. My boyfriend became very sick just a few months after we started dating and I became his primary caregiver. He is much better now and I want to assume the role of his lover. I have read a little about the mones and very much want to put the spark of passion back into our relationship. Any advise and help would be greatly appreciated. I want him to think about me when I am not with him…I want to be his one and only girl. Thanks, lady in wanting ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2011, 1:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/2 "2011-08-26T13:54:36Z")
**Hello and be welcome here at PheroTalk** **great to see more and more women joining us !** It´s amazing to hear that you´re that excited that you found this really cool board .. you seem to be a very active and energetic person .. that´s good ! And that you´ve read up on mones is even better … Not many women like you are on this planet that have such a great personality and attitude … you really love your boyfriend .. and i´m really happy that he´s better now .. well i think that the women´s on this board can give you much better advice in your situation … so please repost your intro in the female main board … so more women will see it .. and can give you their female opinions o.k.. let´s look what i can do for you .. you say that you´re searching for something that brings the spark of passtion back .. could you describe the situation a bit more detailed what´s wrong now in your relationship ? you fear that he´s not thinking enough about you … you fear that he will look after other women ? hmm first … i think you need something that makes you and him more upbeat … more feelgood … something that makes you more confident as well… Instant Shine would be the thing for this … it makes what i said ..and it creates a worm glow … well then .. Instant Sexiness B will evoke some cuddle response .. he will feel the need to take care of you … it brings out the soft … sweet femenine part of a women … that´s the thing to make him think about you .. Then i think you should talk more … i feel some conversational problems here .. look there are 2 Products that help in enhancing conversations … first it´s [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) … this one will break the ice ..and makes conversations started … and it gives you a youthful aura .. cool what .. and then there´s Instant Honesty … what will deepen the conversations .. will make him trust you more …and best ..it´s bonding .. ( another good option is a experimental mix that combines both … it´s the comeback of a very popular mix of the past … it´s called Come talk to me .. MX405 - 407 … great stuff when you ask me … ) well … for your start into the journey into mones Androtics gives you a nice 25$ GC **[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)** you should tell us in order to qualify … what made you interested in pheromones … how you´ve found us here what kinda personality type you are … and what about your social skillz … could you imagine to use the mones in other situations except when you´re with your boyfriend as well… for example at work ? good .. read up as well a bit on the sticky threads in the female forum .. and check the ones here at the intro board … participate as much as you have gusto here .. and … one again welcome here **Pago** ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2011, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/3 "2011-08-26T13:58:24Z")
Glad you found this cool place! Hi sedbcl, good to hear that he is now on a better way. 🙂 For the relationship try Instant Sexiness B, it’s sweet and sexy. A cuddly maker and many males reacts pleasure like. I would add also IH for more trust, bonding and depth. Maybe also [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for a better mood. You can get also a really nice gc, but tell us something more about you, your hobbies for example and how you find this place. I hope this stuff is help you and healthy wishes! 🙂😉 ---
**Author:** ![Centrum\_Virium](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Centrum\_Virium](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Centrum_Virium)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2011, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/4 "2011-08-26T13:59:49Z")
Hi sed, I’m glad you found the forums and I hope we can help you out. These two vets above me are much more suited to answering you but it would be more helpful to repost this on the womens discussion, their wealth of experience is sure to help you. I do read the women’s discussions sometimes and I am on this board a lot of late so I hope I can help out. As for products I’d recommend to use I would first off suggest Instant Shine, its great for both males and females and can help the both of you feel more youthful and uplifted which would be great after recovering from an illness and help toward restoring passion. You say you want him to think about you more, do you mean you don’t believe he’s desiring you at the moment? Instant sexiness B should help with increasing passion, it will give the vibe of increased femininity which will help your partner feel more masculine and begin acting the role of protector, this especially important because he may feel devalued after being taken care of by you for so long. I’m no expert in this but you may want to research into TAH as it has been noted to cause effects that could be perceived as “being on your mind” after you have left their presence. You can qualify for a $25 gift certificate to use on your order which can be very helpful, to qualify for this it would be great if you could tell us a bit more about yourself? How did you hear about the board? What activities do you do where you could potentially use [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)? and what activities do you do with your partner? I hope I have helped you Sedbcl, welcome to the boards and there’s always someone to answer your questions 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![sedbcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@sedbcl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sedbcl)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2011, 2:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/5 "2011-08-26T14:28:20Z")
Thank you for your quick response. I am so excited about the idea of these products I can hardly wait to place my order and receive them. I wish I had them TODAY!! My boyfriend and I are going out for dinner tonight. His birthday is the 31st and I would like to make it a memorable one for him and me. ---
**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2011, 3:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/6 "2011-08-26T15:43:52Z")
Hi there. Welcome on board. Cool to see you are taking good care of your man. I don´t have any experience with women´s products but you have been given some advice by a couple of advanced users, so you can´t go wrong if you follow their advice. I can only suggest you to read all the stickies in the wone´s section, and to follow as many journals as you can. There are lots of quality posts literally waiting for you to discover them. I wish you good luck with your journey. Talk to you soon. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 28, 2011, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/52015/7 "2011-08-28T18:43:24Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Sed! I think you already got some good advice. For a guy to want think of a girl and want him to be his one and only it has to be more than physical. He has to consider you not only as a friend but his everything so products like openness, honesty for communication and to bring about closeness. [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/b is also a good one for making you seem like that soft , gentle person who anyone would fall in love with. Eventually you will want to go into products that drive him wild sexually so you get the full package. The older women in the female section will assist you with that. **Your gc was issued! 😉**