# Helpp!!! A hello from newbie. Looking for advices :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 28, 2013, 11:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663 "2013-07-28T11:38:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2013, 11:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/1 "2013-07-28T11:38:49Z")
Hi, Nice to meet you all. I am new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) so i really need help to choose which products to use since it is all over the Internet. Also, can i use perfume after pheromones??? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2013, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/2 "2013-07-28T12:07:38Z")
> [@Bebe2410](#): > > Hi, > Nice to meet you all. I am new to pheromones so i really need help to choose which products to use since it is all over the Internet. Also, can i use perfume after pheromones??? Hello Bebe šŸ™‚ You can use a layered fragrance combined with most pheromones. In order to help, weā€™d like to know your age range and goals for social use and attraction. Instant Sexiness is essentially the womenā€™s attraction product, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (unisex for men and women) is an enhancer, and IO and IH are unisex communication products. You are free to combine any of these. Instant Shine: > **[Instant Shine Spray ā€” Mood Enhancing Pheromone For Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/shine/)** > > Shine is one of our most popular mood enhancer pheromones. It helps bring out your best self in social situations, making you stand out from the rest. It's also like a "happy drug" helping you feel more upbeat and alive - attracting others to you... ---
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2013, 12:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/3 "2013-07-28T12:17:39Z")
> [@monesmadedoit](#): > > Hello Bebe šŸ™‚ > > You can use a layered fragrance combined with most pheromones. In order to help, weā€™d like to know your age range and goals for social use and attraction. Instant Sexiness is essentially the womenā€™s attraction product, Instant Shine (unisex for men and women) is an enhancer, and IO and IH are unisex communication products. You are free to combine any of these. > > ā€œInstant Shineā€ Feel Good Pheromone - TO GO! :: Pheromones To Go ™ (Portable / Travel Size) :: Androtics Direct ([Instant Shine Spray ā€” Mood Enhancing Pheromone For Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/shine/)) Thank you so much for your help \<3. Iā€™m turning 20 soon. I would like to use it to feel more confident and get on track with my bf :"). In addition, i am very curious abt this. And what is the different between instant sexiness and [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/)? are they smell pleasant and not too strong? ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2013, 2:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/4 "2013-07-28T14:25:54Z")
Hello, Bebe! Welcome! When you say ā€œget on track with your boyfriendā€, what do you mean? Iā€™m sure we can help you if we know what your specific goals are. The Instant Sexiness line has 2 variations. Version A (sometimes just called plain old Instant Sexiness) has a main ingredient called TAL. This is my favorite product, it makes me feel relaxed, confident, and self-assured, as well as sexy as hell. This may be the way to go in your situation. Version Bā€™s main ingredient is TAH. That one has more of a sweet, adorable, kittenish vibe to it. Most AD products are scented with Neroli, which is orange blossom oil. They might smell a little strong when you first apply them, but the scent soon fades and is mild and pleasant. I like it, and most people do, too. If you are looking to feel confident without the sexual overtones (for work or social situations), I would suggest [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (it makes conversation a lot easier) and Instant Shine (makes everybody feel light and happy). You could also just order some straight TAL by itself. I like to wear it by itself, it makes me feel self-assured and calm. ---
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2013, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/5 "2013-07-29T21:35:04Z")
> [@Miss\_Dragon](#): > > Hello, Bebe! Welcome! > > When you say ā€œget on track with your boyfriendā€, what do you mean? Iā€™m sure we can help you if we know what your specific goals are. > > The Instant Sexiness line has 2 variations. Version A (sometimes just called plain old Instant Sexiness) has a main ingredient called TAL. This is my favorite product, it makes me feel relaxed, confident, and self-assured, as well as sexy as hell. This may be the way to go in your situation. Version Bā€™s main ingredient is TAH. That one has more of a sweet, adorable, kittenish vibe to it. > > Most AD products are scented with Neroli, which is orange blossom oil. They might smell a little strong when you first apply them, but the scent soon fades and is mild and pleasant. I like it, and most people do, too. > > If you are looking to feel confident without the sexual overtones (for work or social situations), I would suggest Instant Openness (it makes conversation a lot easier) and Instant Shine (makes everybody feel light and happy). You could also just order some straight TAL by itself. I like to wear it by itself, it makes me feel self-assured and calm. I mean that My bf and i just go out for few days and i want to look more attractive to him. Thank you. It seems like TAH is more suitable for me. And will the smell change depend on different type of skin? If so, which one will you recommend if i have a warm skin tone? Thanks a lot \<3 ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2013, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/6 "2013-07-29T22:38:17Z")
Iā€™m sure the scent changes a bit based on personal chemistry. But with most of the products, you canā€™t choose your own fragrance. If you are putting together a custom order, like TAH, then I would suggest you browse the forum to see what others have said about the different fragrances. My personal favorite so far is grapefruit, I am almost addicted to the smell. ---
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2013, 11:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/7 "2013-07-29T23:11:56Z")
> [@Miss\_Dragon](#): > > Iā€™m sure the scent changes a bit based on personal chemistry. But with most of the products, you canā€™t choose your own fragrance. If you are putting together a custom order, like TAH, then I would suggest you browse the forum to see what others have said about the different fragrances. My personal favorite so far is grapefruit, I am almost addicted to the smell. Thank you ^^. I think i should buy samples to try several of different of them. And i see in Androtics web, they have the spray and to go version. Are they the same?? Can i use different products at the same time? Such as [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) with instant shine and openness. Or is that better to use them separately. šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2013, 3:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/8 "2013-07-30T15:35:18Z")
Hello Just want to say a hello :") ---
**Author:** ![TChanXX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f0a364/32.png) [@TChanXX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TChanXX)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2013, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/9 "2013-07-30T15:48:30Z")
Hey! If you want to get the GC, you need to explain a little bit more about yourself. Where are you from? What do you want? Your age? etc. Anyway, welcome to the forums! ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2013, 4:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/10 "2013-07-31T04:36:04Z")
Hello and welcome! Why donā€™t you tell us a little about yourself. Do you have any questions youā€™d like to ask us about pheromones? ---
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2013, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/11 "2013-07-31T22:40:11Z")
Hi, I come from Vietnam. I just move to the U.S 6months ago. I used to live in Australia. My age range is (18-21). It is such a pleasure to meet you all and know abt pheromones. I love perfume, and my favourate brand is Chanel and Burberry. I just know about pheromones few days ago and i am very fond and feel curious about the same way as i feel abt perfume. I am new to pheromones so i hope that you can help me to find the best mones that suitable for me. I am still undecide about what should i buy. I want to buy IS but my personality is sometimes like TAH but sometimes like TAL. And i am not sure which one should i use with IS. i dont know should i use it with instant shine, instant openness, instant honesty or ect. And i dnt know how many mones should i use at a time because i dnt want to over using it and then get a negative side effect from other ppl. In addition, i like sth warm, musky, vanilla,ā€¦but not floral because it is too pungent for me. Also, i have a warm skin tone. I hope you can help me. Thank you so much \<3 ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2013, 2:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/12 "2013-08-01T02:05:50Z")
What are your goals with pheromones? Do you want to attract men? Do you want to make people more friendly? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2013, 9:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/13 "2013-08-01T09:14:56Z")
> [@Bebe2410](#): > > Thank you ^^. I think i should buy samples to try several of different of them. And i see in Androtics web, they have the spray and to go version. Are they the same?? Can i use different products at the same time? Such as instant sexiness with instant shine and openness. Or is that better to use them separately. šŸ˜ƒ Combining [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) with IO or IShine should not present any problem. The only difference with TOGO is the size of the package and that the output per spray is slightly less with TOGO. ---
**Author:** ![Bebe2410](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f1d935/32.png) [@Bebe2410](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bebe2410)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2013, 10:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/14 "2013-08-01T10:38:19Z")
> [@ryanmercer](#): > > What are your goals with pheromones? > > Do you want to attract men? Do you want to make people more friendly? Yes, absolutely. I never use it before so it sounds like magic to me lol. Wanna start it i dnt know where to start yet ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2013, 10:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/15 "2013-08-01T10:39:53Z")
> [@Bebe2410](#): > > Yes, absolutely. > > I never use it before so it sounds like magic to me lol. Wanna start it i dnt know where to start yet Well for the friendly/social aspect Iā€™d look at Instant Shine combined with either Instant Honesty or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) depending on your end goal. As far as attracting men, Iā€™m mostly unfamiliary with the pheromones that give good results for female wearers so Iā€™ll leave that to some of the wonderful women on the forum to answer. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2013, 1:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/helpp-a-hello-from-newbie-looking-for-advices/59663/16 "2013-08-01T13:49:14Z")
Welcome Bebe, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!