# Here for a different reason **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 3, 2009, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356 "2009-07-03T02:37:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Vaccine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vaccine/32/2381_2.png) [@Vaccine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vaccine)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/1 "2009-07-03T02:37:26Z")
31/Caucasian/So Cal So, I think that I am here for different reasons than most. I am not serious and uptight when I am not working. I like to live and have fun. That’s not to say I’m irresponsible, far from it. I have a work mode and a play mode. My girl did, but now kind of has become less fun, more stressed and frankly, I’m looking at the door for the first time in 2 years. We’ve done the counciling, there is no appearance change in either of us, jobs have been stable, but she’s been doing well and there is stress, but no more than usual. I’ve done the work- random nice things, date night, given her space, been attentive, read books, encouraged her to spend time with friends, but nothing seems to get her out of her corporate drone state. So, I am looking to elicit a response, create a spark, deepen the intimacy and maybe throw her a curve on her attraction to me. All the wildness is gone and I want some of it back. It took one night with her having a lot too much wine to remind her of how different she has become. It was like old times, but I can’t have her off her a\*\* all the time to improve things. (maybe… 😃 ) I just bought some TAA and hope that is will be good to liven things up and then go from there. I have no problem letting her know what I am doing, but not before I get a chance to see if I get results. Anyone have a similar situation? Any suggestions to breathe life back into things? I want my crazy girl who seduced me in a bikini made of vegetables back… All I get is some 1950’s style home life with almost no going out anymore and sex is still good, but stale. In case I am not clear, I just want to see if these scents can reach the person inside that I know was there before and bring her out more often. ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/2 "2009-07-03T02:50:46Z")
Hi Vaccine, welcome to the forum, Nice introduction though, It would be great if you could tell us how old are you? and do you expect long term relationship with her? Any other usages/areas do you hope [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to help you? Waiting more update. Fantisto ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/3 "2009-07-03T02:52:08Z")
Hi Vaccine and welcome to the forums! Many people come here to respark that fire with a ltr. I would suggest TUTH, as it can create that sexual tension that has been lost between you two. Also IH will help bring back the emotional aspect and perhaps even uncover the reason behind her change. Take a look at the Men’s Pheromone Guide, located in my signature. See if anything pops up at you for your individual case, and if you have any more questions, please do not hesitate to ask because we are here to help. Cheers, -mco; ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/4 "2009-07-03T03:23:40Z")
hi there, Welcome. I suggest IH and TUTH. IH can help in relationship. She will be closer to you. She will talk deeper and more details with you. TUTH is to spice up your sex life. It can sexually srouse her. GOod luck ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/5 "2009-07-03T03:31:40Z")
Yeah, as other mentioned TUTH and Instant honesty would be a great help for both sexually arousing and closer bonded heart conversation. It would also great idea to have an IG if you are looking for more ltr. IG give you a cool dependable alpha male vibe, the girl will feel more secure around you. Tell us if you need any more update or question. ---
**Author:** ![Vaccine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vaccine/32/2381_2.png) [@Vaccine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vaccine)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 6:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/6 "2009-07-03T06:05:06Z")
Thanks everyone. I didn’t expect answers so fast, nor did I expect her to be IN BED ASLEEP when we don’t have to work tomorrow and everyone is out having fun. She wants to get an “early day” code for “do work I brought home”. I guess TUTH & IH seem to be unanimous here. Hey, I’d wear a fruit basket on my head at the office if it would help. I read a lot on here and I thought that the TAA would lighten things us and make more fun between us, which is kind of lacking. The passion is there, but it is on a low setting. I didn’t think of using the others as we have a sex life, but just a more mechanical type one. I’ll have to reconsider. Did I mess up on the TAA? ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 9:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/7 "2009-07-03T09:07:36Z")
TAA is great product BTW, it is used mainly in [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), the all around forum favorite from both male and female. **TAA gives off a fun, youthful, vibrant vibe.** It imparts a feel-good aura around the wearer and unless worn with extreme frequency the wearer feels great as a result as well. However, by itself it fades very quickly (not in the Instant Shine product, but the Experimone itself).\*\* \*\* ---
**Author:** ![Vaccine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vaccine/32/2381_2.png) [@Vaccine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vaccine)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2009, 4:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/8 "2009-07-04T16:17:53Z")
After reading some more, I learned that there are many more like me here than I thought **and** I think I have an idea of at least some of the cause. Since we have been together, she has really advanced in her career and she went on the pill. I read in another post that it can kill sex drive. 20 minutes with Google and sure enough, that is a distinct possibility. If nothing else, I now know I am dealing with likely side effects of the pill and a bit of an overachiever attitude with not a lot of balance between work and play. I’m still reading up on what I’d like to order, but given that her lower sex drive may be pill related, will TUTH still help? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2009, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/9 "2009-07-04T16:36:22Z")
Hey there Hows it going Welcome to Pherotalk. 🙂 Hmm maybe slightly but its hard to overcome what is hormonally happening inside her. TUTH is inexpensive in to-go size so I would give it a go though. Just keep in mind this could also make her more edgy if you use to much. Maybe you can talk to her and she can get her pill brand changed. I had to get mine changed twice. Its just like any other drug, sometimes doctors need to tweak the dosage or kind your using. They say Yasmin is good. Definitely get Ishine cause that’s a good one. It will give her a feeling of well being and happiness as well as draw her to you. Keep in mind while Ishine is made from TAA they are not the same thing. My next suggestion you cant get here because of patent rules, Pop on over to [naturalattraction.com](http://naturalattraction.com) and get the mens roll on for $7.50 `http://shop.naturalattraction.com/product.sc?categoryId=2&productId=9` Its small but enough to test before investing in more. It contains A1 which you can read about here under IFM which is no longer available here. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Vaccine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vaccine/32/2381_2.png) [@Vaccine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vaccine)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2009, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/10 "2009-07-04T17:21:00Z")
Wow, thanks for that. And for the welcome! I have to say when I began Googling for idea/answers, I ended up here and for a moment, I thought two things: First, I thought this site would be pimply faced high school guys that are socially awkward and pinning their hopes on these products or the player types that are just looking to hook up as much as possible. Since I realized quickly I was wrong, I then thought I had a simple solution in or more of the products. Again, I was wrong. I have been reading the forum and learned a lot, mostly there are underlying causes that I was blind to. So not only am I better equipped to explore/deal with the causes, I have something proactive to try as well. These products help, but you do the work. That’s what I need, just some help; an edge. For all that I learned so far, I have to thank everyone. Relationships are always needing attention, work and communication. I knew that, but I was reminded of that here. I am very easy going and but I am a very hard worker, I joke a lot and take time to enjoy myself every time I can, she’s kind of like that, just to a lesser degree. I tend to be hard to upset and fairly calm, her, well she’s calm until she gets upset. Then she loses it. 🙂 I am gregarious, while she never like to be in crowds or around a lot of people. She’s smart and don’t challenge her on her recollection, she’ll beat you like you’ve never seen. I have to say that I am as attracted to her as a person as much as I am attracted to her physically, but I have to nip this growing frustration. It isn’t doing us any good. I found the forum and then thought I knew what I was doing and ordered the TAA. I see now that I should have read some more. I have a growing list of items in the cart, as I keep finding new things I think will help or I want to try. There is an element of fun to this too. So, do I ditch the TAA for the IS or should I use that too? I read up on the A1 and thanks for the link. That sounds like something we could use. I’ll see if I can get her to check into another type of pill and maybe this situation can improve. ---
**Author:** ![Vaccine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vaccine/32/2381_2.png) [@Vaccine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vaccine)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/11 "2009-07-06T16:39:24Z")
\ Ordered the suggestions and let’s see what happens. TAA arrives today, the rest Wednesday. My expectations are tempered, but this is very interesting to say the least. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/here-for-a-different-reason/30356/12 "2009-07-07T19:54:03Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Vaccine! I am so glad that we have so many pheromone doctors to assist our new members. 😃 Looks like you were well taken cared of. Your GC was already issued!