# hey all...i'm new with ?s **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 10, 2007, 5:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all-im-new-with-s/4573 "2007-07-10T05:43:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![saga0083](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b77776/32.png) [@saga0083](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saga0083)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2007, 5:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all-im-new-with-s/4573/1 "2007-07-10T05:43:07Z")
hi so i’m new. i’m 22 (female) and i’ve wanted to try pheremones for a while now. i’ve got someone specific in mind who i would like to get to know better but i also want to see what effect pheremones have when i walk into a room or a bar. i was just wondering if anyone had any advice on what i should use to do this. the guy i’m interested in is someone from work and i don’t necessarily want to affect everyone i come into contact with at work (some of the reviews i’ve read seem like they would have a big effect on everyone). anyway, if anyone has any advice, specific to my questions or just in general that would be a huge help and i would be extremely grateful. thanks so much!!! ~~everyone in this world has at least one secret that would break your heart. if we could all just realize this the world would be a much more tolerant and compassionate place.~~ ---
**Author:** ![XDragonX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/6f9a4e/32.png) [@XDragonX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XDragonX)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2007, 5:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all-im-new-with-s/4573/2 "2007-07-10T05:46:25Z")
hi saga and welcome to the forums, although i’m a guy i do have some insight into the female line of products. I’d suggest you start with instant sexiness a staple for women and instant shine. Instant sexiness has that sexual touch that just turns guys on while instant shine gives you that fresh and clean vibe. Also it’s pretty much impossible for [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) to affect only one person in a room so i’d suggest using less sexual mixes while at work like shine or alpha A314 ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2007, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all-im-new-with-s/4573/3 "2007-07-10T06:16:27Z")
Hi! Since Dragon has given you the first good advice, I just wanna welcome you to the forum!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2007, 11:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all-im-new-with-s/4573/4 "2007-07-10T11:00:53Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum 🙂 Dragon has some good advice. Instant shine and [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) are both good places to start. Instead of A314 which is a mans product I would get Mx134 which is the womens version. While it is in the advanced section it is a good solid product. All three are great for work enviroment. You should also look into IO and IH they are both good as well. Once you have experience with them you can move onto the advanced products if that is your interest. It is almost impossible to not effect some people with mones. Its going to effect at least half the people you meet in some way. They will just be more happy and friendly though. Lust after me has a more sexual edge and would be good if you ever see him out of work as well as in Bars or night clubs. Instant sexiness mixed with a little IO works nicly in Bars to. Good Luck and visit us in the ladies forum 😃 Tisha