# Hey All! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 11, 2008, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781 "2008-11-11T15:30:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ChiefNEP](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chiefnep/32/2001_2.png) [@ChiefNEP](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ChiefNEP)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2008, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/1 "2008-11-11T15:30:11Z")
Newb Here. I’m 28, live in Jersey, used to live in Florida and used to get way more action down there. Just looking to boost my game a little. I do ok but a little help with my confidence and breaking the ice would be awesome. Good luck all and thanks for the help. Nick Here is an edit. After reading a little. I think i can answer more fully. As far as my “game” goes, i do like conversation. It’s the breaking the ice part that gets me. For some reason i was more comfortable with that in Florida. Once I’m talking to anyone I’m pretty comfortable. I can handle that pretty well. I guess i can handle myself well around a conversation but it’s the initial confidence spark that gets me. I get a little nervous if I’m not engaged in interaction. Anything that would create a little extra spark or air of confidence would be good. Social setting for this would probably be different bar situations or parties. I always have a thing for bartenders and have had sporadic success in that area but that’s a different story. Also something to boost the mood or attitudes of those around me at work could help too. Thing is i work with mostly dudes and I’m not really interested in having them flirt with me or be aggressive with me. 🙂 That said maybe I’m looking for a everyday mood lightener and something to add when i go out for a more effective attraction booster. Also, Also, Did i actually have to say “Hello” to get that discount coupon? Thanks again for your help and all your quick replies. Good Forum. Nick ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/2 "2008-11-11T15:36:46Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. For ice breaking, IO is the answer. It can make people want to talk to you. You will enjoy lots of conversation from people. For confidence, try Shine. It boost your confidence socially. It will lighten your mood and the mood of the people around you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2008, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/3 "2008-11-11T15:38:00Z")
hi ChiefNEP, welcome to the forum! you provided little info about you but it sounds you might want to try Instant Shine for confidence and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) for breaking the ice. But we need more info about your personality and the situations you want to use the pheros so we can give you more accurate advice for your purposes… have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2008, 5:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/4 "2008-11-11T17:31:37Z")
hey there, like the guys suggested it might better if u gave more info about urself. however, if ur looking to boost ur game and the such, its always a good idea to start with theinstant lines so u can get used to phero usage before jumping into more specific ones. instant opennes should be good because that would increase the amount of convo u would have with girls. i also recommend instant honesty (my fav) because it would make ppl feel like they’ve known u for awhile and feel really comfortable with you anyways gluck! ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2008, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/5 "2008-11-11T21:46:22Z")
Hey Chief, welcome to the forum! Those Jersey girls, they can be tougher. 🙂 All of the suggestions you’ve already been given are great. Ishine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty are all good. I also want to add Ammo to the list because it attracts girls to you, and you need a bit of that going on too. It won’t make a girl who’s not been interested in you suddenly attack you uncontrollably, but it will give you an extra edge with women who do have an interest with you. Look through the Lounge and the Journals area of the Men’s section, there are other PUAs here. Lots of great pointers and advice here. Good luck. Enjoy your stay… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 9:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/6 "2008-11-12T09:56:37Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest you look into AMMO IO and Ishine. AMMO is sexy and attractive, it has also been reported to boost confidence in some users. IO to break the ice Ishine to get that charismatic upbeat warm mood going. If you have questions just ask, we look forward to your participation in the forum **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![ChiefNEP](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chiefnep/32/2001_2.png) [@ChiefNEP](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ChiefNEP)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/7 "2008-11-12T14:40:59Z")
The More i read the more i realize curiosoty as caused me to stumble on some thing pretty cool. I’ve always been interestd in human behavior and social interaction so i’m looking forward the the experimentation process. That said, How do i keep a journal and how do i read others’ journals. I know i should be able to find it but i havn’t yet. I’m gonna keep looking but if someone sees this before i do please help. THANKS 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-all/22781/8 "2008-11-13T01:11:59Z")
Go into the mens tips and tricks section and at the top there is a subforum for journals. Just click on it tp open them up. Keep in mind that only members of the forum can read those so they are semi private in case you want to post sensitive info. Tisha