# Hey, can't wait to get started! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 21, 2007, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-cant-wait-to-get-started/6144 "2007-10-21T10:08:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lockstock92](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/278dde/32.png) [@Lockstock92](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lockstock92)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-cant-wait-to-get-started/6144/1 "2007-10-21T10:08:25Z")
Hey, I’m a 20 year old male college student down here in Sunny Florida 🙂 I’m here to (hopefully) learn and experiment this pheromone thing all the way through to mastery, or at least until i brew a mix that works best for me. I have a slight dillemma though, since I’m basically going to be using the mones in a 85% male environment. I really, really think [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) would work well on the girls here, because they keep a strong guard and seem nearly unapproachable most of the time, IFM should do the trick for that, but I don’t want to depress all the guys around me. Anything that might be a good semi-substitute for IFM? I’m thinking Instant Shine or Instant Openness, maybe?? Once again, glad to be here! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 12:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-cant-wait-to-get-started/6144/2 "2007-10-21T12:11:48Z")
Hi Lockstock Welcome to the forum 🙂 [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is great for calming women and making them more upbeat and comfortable with you. It does cause a bit of depression in some men but not as many as you may think and most times only on the wearer not on men exposed to a little. So if it does effect the other guys it will only be the ones your in close contact with for long period of time. Just wanted you to keep that in mind. I think Instant Shine which is more of a mood enhancer would be great as well. They may go very well together because shine will buffer the depressed feeling some get with IFM. I am sure some of the guys will know more about that and post about it. If you are going to substitute I would recommend Shine. Instant Openness is more social. If you ment that the girls dont talk much to the guys by your phase “strongly guarded” then this would be a good alternative. It will get them to open up more and talk to you. Also consider Instant Honesty if you want a more in depth conversation. IO is more for fun light hearted chat. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-cant-wait-to-get-started/6144/3 "2007-10-25T00:37:16Z")
Hi & Welcome Lockstock Excellent product choices and suggestions by Tisha. I am wondering why you wouldn’t choose [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)? It just seems that it would give you a certain advantage over the 85%. 🙂 Instant openness would be a great complement for any of the products you choose. A sure favorite of mine. Enjoy! ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-cant-wait-to-get-started/6144/4 "2007-10-25T01:00:42Z")
Whoa! I almost passed this thread right by. I must be getting tired but I am glad I caught it. Sounds as if our two lovely ladies gave some great advice. Please keep in mind that they are both total Hotties. I am sending you your GC